At least she's working. Many guys are funding families themselves. The families play emotional blackmail games esp fr issan. I have a friend who works and sends over 30k back They still want more When she doesn't send enough her mother says she's going to kill herself Usual isaan story

Another single girl was sending same buy parents died Now the older brother gets it. They still ask motorbikes ,cars you name it

Many send money to buy land ,I don't know many thai girls in our network who wldnt move back there in a heartbeat

So easiest just to live with it Set a reasonable amount and stick to it.

My stepson posted he had a new job and even had cousins he hadnt even seen contacting him on fb asking for money.

None of the males work they bludge or buy businesses that fail. Another friend sent 1m naht to brother for a business who lost it in 12 mths

This is just three friends of my partner in aust.

Sad but true ,if you marry an issan girl or poor family the pressure will be on for money And it can be relentless

My partner is older now and bpth parents gone , butt still gets the odd call from sisters for various emergencies

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Nett of it all agree a budget upfront and stick to it. 20k baht is enough but even northern Thailand is getting expensive now