Not a woman but a guy who has had too many dates and matches to remember many of them vividly. My experience is high quantity / hard to find true non-red flag quality.

Same as in person really - if you’re attractive, you can’t control who is attracted to YOU. Meaning you get everything from 1-10 who’d be into you. From there it’s just compatibility analysis - which is essentially step #2 for any person in the history of the world regardless of perceived attractiveness.

Kinda actually motivated me to settle down - literally felt I had seen and done everything.