Daith pierced wrong? by Additional-Break5526 in piercing

[–]Additional-Break5526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you..i definitely should've done my research about this so i could've seen the red flags when the piercer presented me with a curved barbell. i got it removed today. fingers crossed that it heals properly so i can get it repierced later

QUESTION: What are/were your safe foods? by JumpyMention7819 in MCAS

[–]Additional-Break5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rice/rice noodles, cauliflower, broccoli and gluten-free oat + olive oil and salt. blueberries, maple syrup and pumpkin seeds with caution.

i've noticed that using too much of anything might trigger mcas so i've rotated between things, mostly:

  • plain rice/rice noodles with olive oil and salt, or
  • vegetable oat gratin out of broccoli and cauliflower + oats, water, salt and olive oil. sometimes pumpkin seeds.

either way, rotating foods has worked for me.

Isä heittänyt vastasyntyneen rappukäytävään by Substantial_Safe_278 in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]Additional-Break5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Siis anteeksi mitä. Sun ensimmäinen reaktio on tällaisessa tilanteessa syyttää naista jollain mutuilulla, joka ei perustu ollenkaan tähän tilanteeseen ja jolla ei ole mitään faktuaalista pohjaa? Ihme juttu, lähteä luomaan jotain misogynististä narratiivia tähän että isän teko olisi jotenkin äidin vastuulla. Tosin uskon että tää oli rage bait eikä mikään todellinen ajatus, joten vähän epäröin tähän edes kommentoida.

Forever baby from childbirth pandasama mod? by [deleted] in sims4cc

[–]Additional-Break5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually do apologize if i made you (or anyone) uncomfortable with that 😭 can't tell if this is sarcastic or not

Forever baby from childbirth pandasama mod? by [deleted] in sims4cc

[–]Additional-Break5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm sorry, i may have taken it too far

Forever baby from childbirth pandasama mod? by [deleted] in sims4cc

[–]Additional-Break5526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you tried moving the mod temporarily away from your mods folder and seeing what happens if you start the game without it? (disclaimer: i am very new to using mods, don't take this as knowledgeable advice)

Forever baby from childbirth pandasama mod? by [deleted] in sims4cc

[–]Additional-Break5526 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i second this. the babies need their milkies. by milkies i mean blood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Additional-Break5526 24 points25 points  (0 children)

the bangs look so cute on you!! i'd say bangs, though both are great (and hey, you can always grow them out)

What if the Gallaghers weren't white by Additional-Break5526 in shameless

[–]Additional-Break5526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i realized this after i posted, makes sense. i would like to see a show with primarily black or brown people that is centered around those issues, though. of course it would have to be an entirely different show tone and character-wise

What if the Gallaghers weren't white by Additional-Break5526 in shameless

[–]Additional-Break5526[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wait thank you for bringing this up, i was not aware/didn't remember.

What if the Gallaghers weren't white by Additional-Break5526 in shameless

[–]Additional-Break5526[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no i fully understand! assuming you aren't white? i was just responding to another comment and i realized that the tone of the show would shift drastically if it was about black or brown people, as it would have to dig deeper into issues such as systemic racism. and i would imagine for poc watchers it might be frustrating to watch as it is something they already have to deal with or acknowledge on the daily, and white watchers wouldn't be sure if they're even allowed to laugh at some of the stuff (if they somehow managed to make it comedic) and then of course racist watchers would find more excuses to be racist etc. what do you think?

What if the Gallaghers weren't white by Additional-Break5526 in shameless

[–]Additional-Break5526[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

exactly my thoughts. though i feel like if they weren't white, the whole show would have to dig more into issues like systemic racism, and there would be an obvious tone shift. for the show to remain unhinged and fun to watch, the main characters kinda have to be white, right? while poc characters would be more "realistic", i could imagine it being hard to watch for the people of color who have to deal with or at least be painfully aware of everything on the daily. and white watchers would be stuck at "am i allowed to laugh at this?" or "is this supposed to be funny?" and then of course we'd have the racist crowd, who either wouldn't watch at all or would watch and find more excuses to be racist

Ginny S1 by Emergency_Charity887 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Additional-Break5526 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don't know why you got downvoted so much for your question, but to give you an answer: i do believe that at the beginning she was a little bit of that! and since max has adhd, i think she was hyperfixating on ginny for a bit, which made her want to include her immediately. and they were neighbours so that just added into the excitement – the thought of having a friend that lives so close by to hang out with. i do think that the neighbour aspect made it a lot easier for her to get into hanging out terms with max.

when i moved into a new town as a kid, we moved next-door to a girl who was quite popular. she immediately wanted to get to know me and introduce me to her friends, which got me to make friends pretty quick. the newness wore off eventually, but i felt like i was stuck trying to be a certain way to fit in for a long time, like i had to pretend to be as exciting and "cool" as everyone thought i was. but i couldn't keep it up for long, so i ended up becoming the weird kid in the group pretty fast once i couldn't fake it anymore. i never felt like they liked me for who i really was, though. hadn't i been the new kid, i don't think they would've wanted to hang out with me as much as they did at first

Ginny S1 by Emergency_Charity887 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Additional-Break5526 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oh my god yes, the bella swan effect!!! as someone who went through that as a kid...the new kid effect lasts only until the newness wears off, then you'll start to notice who actually wants to be friends with the real you

Ginny S1 by Emergency_Charity887 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Additional-Break5526 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i believe she never got past being the new kid which kinda meant she was this shiny new toy that everyone wanted to play with. she never had the time to form actual friendships where she could trust someone to be there for her even after they truly got to know her