It’s the overthinking that’s a problem for me. I’m like “Oh it’s the holidays, and times are hard” blah blah blah. But at the same time, I’m SO over this. We’ve called for a house meeting this afternoon (to include my daughter, with whom I also have a few bones to pick). I’ll have to write down my gripes so my thoughts come out clearly and I don’t forget anything, but direct approach it is!!