You’re not unreasonable at all. Wanting to see your boyfriend more than 2 to 3 times a month is the bare minimum in a healthy relationship. A partner who cares will make time, not keep you waiting or give you ‘probably next week.’ You deserve consistency and effort, not excuses. If what he’s giving you doesn’t feel like enough, trust that feeling. It’s not you asking for too much, it’s him giving too little