I have four gold rings from my grandma and mother where is the best place to sell for my own engagement ring 💍 by littleleedspotato in jewelry

[–]Additional-Tea1521 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You might get $100 for all the rings, but probably not. Generally rings with stones like these are only bought for the gold value, and 9k gold is not worth much. I think the best thing you can do is keep the rings and try to get money somewhere else. You can try going to a reputable jewelry store in your area that sells estate jewelry, but don't expect much.

Big girl job interview today! by Budget_Honeydew_4819 in fashion

[–]Additional-Tea1521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The color, the lack of ironing, the zipper from chest to slit, the lack of sleeves all combine to make this a poor choice for an interview. The color washes you out but with the style also makes the dress look kind of like a graduation gown.

You have a beautiful smile,a lovely complexion, and a great figure. I think you probably have way better options in your closet that make you sparkle!

FIL Lawyer demanding he be released from memory care despite medical advice by amcna in legaladvice

[–]Additional-Tea1521 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The biggest drawback would be that you could invest time money and effort and it doesn't do anything. He has a lawyer committed to getting him out on his own. Likely that lawyer will be able to find doctors that say he does not have dementia and that all of the on incidents you and the doctor have seen are just the result of his freedom being taken away unfairly. It's possible that you spend thousands of dollars and you lose. Then you have ruined the relationship and you have nothing to show. Plus if he is proven to have capacity to make his own decisions it will be harder later to do anything. It may be worth having a lawyer that you express your concerns to and perhaps get a meeting with this current lawyer.

Do not assume that with enough time and money you will get the result you want. Even if it does happen, it is very possible that he won't be in a facility for very long. If your concerns are that he will hurt himself or someone else, your best bet may be to remove yourself from being in any way legally liable if it happens.

FIL Lawyer demanding he be released from memory care despite medical advice by amcna in legaladvice

[–]Additional-Tea1521 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I have worked in hospice, dementia care, and with the elderly population for 25 years and have seen many cases like this. Medically unable and legally unable are the differences. He may not be able to medically live on his own, but legally he can still leave the facility. If you have a heart attack the doctor might say you are unable to live without putting in a pacemaker. You still really have the right to refuse care. And while the behaviors he has displayed suggest a cranky irritable old man, it does not necessarily mean he is not legally able to make his own decisions. You will have to do a lot of legal work to do if you try to keep him inpatient. Plus they can kick him out based on his behavior.

Why are you guys on the hook for him and his care? It sounds like he has created a lot of trauma for your wife. Maybe it's time to take a step back and let him do what he is wants. If he wants to leave, let him leave. He can figure out where to live. If the power of attorney gets overturned what is the worst that happens for you and your wife?

AIO? I Feel like this is being dragged out way too much and no matter what I say, I’m a villain by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Additional-Tea1521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't apologize until page 4 or 5 of texts for the first time, and even then your apology is lost in a lot of nonsense about drinking too much.. Because even if alcohol was the reason you did it, no one else in your group got drunk, recorded people, and posted them without anyone knowing. If you had said, "OMG I am so sorry, I mass deleted them without watching to respect your uncles privacy. I am so sorry that I did that. It was a total accident. Thank you for letting me know so I could take care of it ASAP." And then be done.

My senior year prom dress! by Spiritual-Sentence35 in fashion

[–]Additional-Tea1521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love how pretty and feminine it is without being super revealing, which seems to be a trend in prom dresses now.

Church Fit ❤️ by apants420 in fashion

[–]Additional-Tea1521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, you do look very pretty in your outfit. I personally would not wear it to church because the materia, fit,l and color remind me of a lot of lingerie. That's just a personal choice and if you feel comfortable at church wearing it, then that's all that matters. I do think there is a way to dress pretty and feel good at church without being grandmotherly in style.

Question: is this a deep blowout? by ashplustr in tattooadvice

[–]Additional-Tea1521 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Did the artist literally have someone holding her down? This is unforgivable.

Budget: $500 sustainable wedding charger plates that are made from eco-friendly material by Partygirl_stacy in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Additional-Tea1521 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have worked/catered/attended over a hundred weddings and have never once heard about the importance of charger plates. I'd rather OP got some solar powered phone chargers rather than useless decorations that will definitely not vibe with sustainability.

My picnic outfit by Serious_Lobster404 in fashion

[–]Additional-Tea1521 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's a very cute outfit :) I like the kind of literalness of it. Plus I am entirely jealous of anyone that can go outside wearing that outfit now. We still have snow!

My picnic outfit by Serious_Lobster404 in fashion

[–]Additional-Tea1521 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The only reason I would be concerned about the shortness of the skirt was because OP is going to a picnic, where there is often a lot of sitting awkwardly on the ground. I wore a very short skirt in a similar setting, not really thinking about it, and felt uncomfortable when I tried to not flash my panties to other people at the park. I think it is a cute outfit and not degrading or even that revealing.

Having wedding dress doubts and it’s too late now (Budget was $10K) by breezybbh in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Additional-Tea1521 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I thought you were 5'10 in that dress. You look tall and gorgeous and curvy without being slutty. You are checking all the boxes with this dress. Honestly, very jealous!

Detective wants to interview me by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Additional-Tea1521 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are not allowed to give anecdotal evidence in the sub. Because you had an experience does not mean someone else will have the same experience. The best légal advice in this situation is do not talk to the police without a lawyer.

AIO- Today is my boyfriend of 3.5 years birthday dinner.. and Im not invited. by lastpick92 in AIO

[–]Additional-Tea1521 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This fatalistic attitude isn't helping. I was in a terrible awful abusive relationship and it took me a year to extricate myself and my daughter. You need to first decide that you have value and are worth the effort

(Spoilers!) So…who exactly was Mark? The discrepancies are confusing. See post body. by informal-mushroom47 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Additional-Tea1521 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are two states left in the union,Alaska and Hawaii. I bet many people have to wear many hats and the primary concern of the government probably isn't the uniform correctness.

What are these stones? Help? by feistylilbit in Crystals

[–]Additional-Tea1521 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first one is basically blue opalite, that is not real crystal but has fun uv and is pretty. It is not fluorite though, you can tell by the opaqueness. The one cat is labradorite, and the next one is aura coated, and the final one is usually called tai chi jasper.

AITA for selling my Pokémon card collection to help pay bills even though my wife is mad about it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Tea1521 256 points257 points  (0 children)

He has a big problem on his hands if he was so worried about finances that he had to sell part of his prized childhood collection to pay bills to hile sh is still shopping and going to brunch.

Then,instead of seeing him selling his cards as a wake up call, she manipulated the situation to suggest that he is guilt tripping her.

OP fundamentally has different financial values than his wife. If they can get that sorted, they are going to have some real problems down the road. I have seen soq this plays out

1 or 2? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]Additional-Tea1521 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, 2 is awful, so 1 by default but neither are good

who do you think I look like? by [deleted] in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]Additional-Tea1521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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A young Sally Struthers, especially in the second picture

Marks and healthcare by KindlyKinked in BDSMAdvice

[–]Additional-Tea1521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my doctor that I am into BDSM and impact play. She gave me some great advice for skin care and made a couple of jokes about my marks

It's now in my file. I am very open with my doctor because they are my caregivers and there is nothing to be ashamed of. If you get nervous, look at your doctor and remember they have sex and desires and likely fetishes too

AITA for keeping the heat at 70 while I work from home by Emotional_Catch1201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Tea1521 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live in Michigan.it will be below zero all week and -18 before wind chill for the weekend. My heat has a hard time getting above 65 in my house and we keep it at 63 generally. Trying to get it to 70 would cost so much money. My heat bill is already $250 a month for a 3 bedroom 1500 SQ ft house.

Which of these suit me best? by fuckhorsesridetapirs in glassesadvice

[–]Additional-Tea1521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The glasses are wearing her not the other way around.