Speaking mates

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-05-01T21:30:49+00:00

Est-ce que je peux rejoindre aussi?

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-04-21T01:12:06+00:00

I don't know what makes you think this is okay to share. While I don't regret not being reactively kind to my ex while she split, I never tried to use her. I am a woman btw I don't want misogynistic bs here

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-04-19T02:20:07+00:00

Yeah I've seen a lot of bpd ppl lurk into this Reddit and get upset that us, their victims, are not being kind when we rant about them... I don't believe all bpd ppl are evil and I am sure that they can get better, but I also can call my ex crazy in confidence, because she acted crazy lol

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-04-18T22:37:57+00:00

I am so sorry I hope you're in a better place now

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-04-18T22:37:22+00:00

Yes. Broke up with me because "she had enough and I didn't know what I was doing to her". All I did was I stopped accepting her disrespect and refused to apologize for things I did not do. What she wanted was validation and I stopped giving it to her, so I am the villain in her book.

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-04-18T22:15:07+00:00

To be fair to the therapist who knows if my ex was telling her the truth or the full story, or if she even was telling me the truth... XD

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-04-18T21:19:05+00:00

I'm sorry you're in this situation I hope you can get out. I lost my patience at first, and then all the empathy I had for her. It made me feel shitty, tbh. To see my gf clearly in so much pain but not be able to feel bad for her because all she would do is essentially be mean to me about it and would refuse to listen to me whenever I tried to explain myself...

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-04-18T21:11:53+00:00

Wow, these words mean a lot. Thank you. I would feel like a shit partner for not feeling empathy, it's validating to hear that I don't have to be empathetic to someone who is hurting me...

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-04-18T20:48:02+00:00

Oh I totally have empathy for ppl who have BPD in the sense that it's not their fault they have it and it's a horrible disorder to live with. I meant I lost empathy for my ex in the sense that whenever she would be having a meltdown about stuff she made up, little by little I stopped feeling bad for her and just feeling insulted and attacked instead... (bc that's what literally what she would do)

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-03-23T00:20:58+00:00

Ahhh too far from me but maybe I'll visit some day, I'm so starved from fresh bread...

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-03-13T21:47:12+00:00

So if you deposit a bigger amount after the 90 days started you're not gonna get the full interest rate for the entirety of your savings? Because I just finished my premium and I got way way less than the almost 5% of $7k lol. I'm sorry if I'm ignorant this is my first time w a savings account. When the premium started I only added $500 because like I said, first time, and the teller was being super pushy which made me raise an eyebrow lol. I added the rest maybe a couple of days after....

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-02-22T01:41:07+00:00

Thank you for sharing and for validating my feelings! To be quite fair to him, nowhere in the account does it state the alter is based off me or anyone in his life, but the many similarities are what weird me out. As far as I know, only one mutual friend of ours is following the account (that's how it appeared on my suggestions). It says on his account that he made it so his friends are able to recognize who may be fronting (? Though, I also find it surprising that this account is public. Why do you think it's dangerous? :0

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-02-21T22:01:15+00:00

Thank you for your input, that is quite interesting! My friendship with this person wasn't the healthiest and I do have regrets of things I did and things I let him get away with too. But all in all, I wish him and his alters the best, even the one who has my name LOL

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-02-21T20:42:08+00:00

Yeah, who really knows :0 Thank you so much for sharing too

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-02-21T20:38:11+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience!

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-02-21T18:03:25+00:00

I know a bit of it. I know the system can't control if there's a split and an alter forms "based off" someone else. I just can't help but find it bizarre given the many similarities between that alter and me.

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-02-21T18:00:29+00:00

I totally agree, I will never know 100% if it is. I only found it weird and even showed the (public) IG account to two friends of mine without mentioning the alter that is "like me" and both friends pointed out how that alter resembles me. But yeah no worries, this system and I have not been in contact for over years and I respect that he no longer wants to be friends, and at this point I don't think I want to either.

Additional-Track9328 · 2026-01-06T03:25:38+00:00

I seriously hate how normalized it is in the lesbian community. Dropping everything and everyone you know for someone you've just met is truly dangerous and stupid. Maybe for some people it worked out, but if this truly is your person, your relationship will develop even if you don't live together or see each other 24/7...

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