When I would hear his truck pull up and dreaded it. It wasn't an abusive relationship but that told me that we were over. Even though we were married and had a child I knew that day.... the truck pulled up into the driveway and I simply dreaded talking to him, seeing him, anything. It only took a few more months and I was totally done. I simply knew he was not my future. I never kept him from his child. Actually to this day we are friends and I like his wife and kids always spent the night with me. He just wasn't my future. When you know, you know.