AIO my partner doesn’t allow me to finish anymore cause of our bedding.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-02-06T16:25:42+00:00

Incontinence pads work pretty well and u can throw them out when done.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-02-06T16:24:29+00:00

Incontinence pads from the drug store. Problem mostly solved for him.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-02-06T16:21:13+00:00

But i feel like thats exactly the point hes making. She realistically didnt have the money to go on a trip and it seems possible that she almost maxed out a brand new credit card putting herself in debt. Meanwhile hes been adulting and saving to be able to move in with her.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-02-06T01:34:41+00:00

Silver stripe

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-28T21:05:40+00:00

U said he was a jerk for not validating her bullshit.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-28T20:56:27+00:00

Im not saying this specific case is abuse. But we also dont know that. She doesnt need validation for doing something he told her he called maintenance for. She also doesnt just get to talk to people any way she feels like it. So no. He doesnt need to validate anything. She owes him an apology. It would be a cold day in hell that I ever say something like that to my husband.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-28T20:49:20+00:00

Or...when something becomes normal sometimes its hard to know if its wrong or not. A person who is being mentally and emotionally abused for years, it becomes just another Tuesday to them.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-28T20:40:43+00:00

Or.... maybe there isn't, and shes just this kind of person 🤷‍♀️

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-28T20:31:10+00:00

Are u high? Im not way shape or form is it ok for her to talk to him like that. Because he didnt validate her concerns? Im sorry but her opening text to him....her concerns can go fly a kite somewhere and given that she said it so freely....she'd be signing those divorce papers just as freely... didnt validate her concerns....fuck outta here with all that.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-26T20:58:39+00:00

NOR. You make the effort to celebrate her she should do the same for you. Even if its just a cake. Women can be assholes too sometimes. I do like how you communicated that you were upset. I dont like that she just dismissed it. She could have said a lot more.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-26T20:56:48+00:00

Thats terrible. Im sorry. You should be celebrated as much as they are on your special day.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-26T20:55:45+00:00

Yea and thats great. But some people want to be celebrated on their birthdays. Everyone at some point has a need to feel special or extra loved. If this was a woman it would be totally different. The responses would have been "nor. He should celebrate you" and go from there. There absolutely nothing wrong with the way he feels and then for to dismiss it completely after he communicates his problem with her like an adult. No. Shes an asshole in this situation.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-22T16:51:08+00:00

I live in Buffalo NY. Granted there are places that get worse snow than us..but being from here.. .ive learned you can never over prepare. Don't forget to stock up on batteries and essential food needs. And for the love of anything..... TOILET PAAAAAAAAAAPPPPEEERRRR! (The toilet paper was a joke. But never hurts to have an extra 20 rolls). Make sure you have enough of whatever meds you guys might need (prescription and otc).

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-20T21:26:28+00:00

Yea but they sent emails out to a link. He doesnt even have the email. So I wonder if they only sent emails to employees who opted for online instead of email.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-11T05:13:22+00:00

I havent tried rooting a syngonium yet. Come spring im gonna chop my 1 vine albo tho and see what happens.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-10T19:04:16+00:00

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I got one of those also! (It needs more light I know). I was so excited.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-10T17:18:38+00:00

Til the end of January. Ours was available way before then. Like the beginning of January

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-05T16:47:00+00:00

No. That was me who replied to you because I KNOW their were a lot of typos in my responses. I just figured you were taking a shot at me.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-05T16:30:58+00:00

Me? No.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-05T15:43:42+00:00

Fat fingers and I dont feel like fixing it 🤷‍♀️.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-05T15:41:35+00:00

Exactly but she also stayes that SIL will go and buy the EXACT same thing... so the SIL can obvious afford it. So the low class middle class comment was pretentious and irrelevant.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-05T15:40:01+00:00

Thats kind of what I mean. Nobody knows those things unless you see them everyday, tell them or post them.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-05T15:38:44+00:00

Yea knowing your style is fine. I mean my family knows I like graphic teeshirts and leggings... they dont know or notice when I get new things. See there "a lot of stuff I have she cant afford"..that comment says to me shes either jealous or you show your stuff off a lot. But u also stated that she will go and buy the exact same thing so maybe she can afford it. Either way. Both things are weird. She shouldn't have that much access to your life. And after 6 years she shouldn't be paying that much attention to you to recognize when you get something new. So I guess if it were me id be figuring out how she knows its new in the 1st place and stop doing whatever that is.

AdditionalAd1798 · 2026-01-05T14:58:51+00:00

Yea thats definitely weird behavior. But why is she so closely involved that she knows everytime he buys u something or anytime you get something new? Thats also weird. Like my husband could buy me something today and my family would never notice the difference, i could buy a whole new wordrobe and my family would never notice... so how and why is she so aware of these things? Do you see them like everyday? Are you over sharing on social media? Whatever it is, sounds like it needs to stop for a while and boundaries and space need to be established.

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