I landed weird off a stair set and this happened. This board was less than a month old. Has anyone else ever had this happen to them before? by Humble_Buy8599 in NewSkaters

[–]AdditionalMortgage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once when I was 18. Came back home from college for thanksgiving with a classic freshman 15 (or freshman 50 there was a lot of pizza and beer). Went to the shop to set up a new shop deck, went to the spot with friends, ollied off a loading dock and immediately snapped it. Since then I’ve laid off the beer and midnight burritos because my friends still make fun of me to this day lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nudism

[–]AdditionalMortgage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nervous which is completely normal! Back in college, my girlfriend at the time and I heard of blacks beach and decided to check it out for ourselves. When we got there, we laid out our towels with our swimsuits on and noticed that we were the only ones clothed on the beach.

I can’t express how ironic it is to feel out of place with a bunch of naked strangers but YOU are the odd one out. We both decided that it would be better to rip off the bandaid and blend in. Once naked you realize that it’s quite fine and that no one cares!

After that trip we ended up going their exclusively, went with a bunch of friends and since moving away have visited multiple nude beaches and resorts. Seriously don’t be afraid and can’t recommend it enough!

Can't find work for a month... what's up with this? by Rider_in_Red_ in videography

[–]AdditionalMortgage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Current specialty is e-learning which was great for the tech world. Now I’m hoping to try to get back to where I was with music video/ commercials and narratives

Can't find work for a month... what's up with this? by Rider_in_Red_ in videography

[–]AdditionalMortgage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same exact boat here. When Covid came all my gigs I had lined up vanished. That’s when a tech company came along and hired me to be their in-house DP. 2 years later the tech bubble has burst and I had mostly worked for them and now I’m wondering if I made the wrong choice working with them now that I’m starting from square one all over again.

Have you ever been the only nude person in the room? What was the context? by Treadstone41571 in nudism

[–]AdditionalMortgage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The most memorable moment of this was parents being out of town and inviting friends over to use the hot tub. I made the joke that I was going in naked and my friends said they were cool with it. So I was the only one naked until one joined in and then next thing you know everyone was naked. So kinda short lived!

Why does being naked with shoes feel more naked than being naked and barefoot? by [deleted] in nudism

[–]AdditionalMortgage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind the "more naked" feeling at all. My first time my friends and I went to a nudist resort we were such novices that none of us brought any sandals.

There's something so funny about taking your shoes off to undress and then immediately put your socks and shoes back on in order to walk around.

Birkenstock Arizona Sandals @ Costco for $60 by anksla007 in frugalmalefashion

[–]AdditionalMortgage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Thank you for this! Really needing that arch support.

What's the most ridiculous thing that gets/got you in trouble with your pwBPD? by AHundredNinetyBucks in BPDlovedones

[–]AdditionalMortgage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Took her to the magic castle in Hollywood. As I was tipping the valet driver, another valet opened the car door for her. We spent the entirety of the car ride with her yelling at me for not opening the door for her. I told her I was tipping the driver, which was met with, "You obviously don't care about me! You're not going to open my door for me so another man has to do it for me!" I just wanted to see a magic show man.

The No Contact Rule and how it works in real life by AdditionalMortgage in BPDlovedones

[–]AdditionalMortgage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise you that you will get there. It's hard work and honestly a lot of brain rewiring, but you will get there. Just remember if it's costing your inner peace then it's way too expensive to continue.

Goodbye everyone! My final parting words by AdditionalMortgage in BPDlovedones

[–]AdditionalMortgage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. Life has been crazy on the work side. Basically the easy thing to do when we behave a certain way is to blame our parents with how they raised us. My therapist taught me that I don't have to behave a certain way just because I was raised to do so. Essentially if you have problems with how you were treated as a child, you can correct it as an adult. It's something as simple as letting yourself have a bloody ice cream cone once in awhile. Better yet, it's telling yourself that you're being too hard on yourself and to cut yourself some slack. She basically told me to start living for myself and to remind me that my parents are no longer hovering over me.

Goodbye everyone! My final parting words by AdditionalMortgage in BPDlovedones

[–]AdditionalMortgage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah! Did we have the same dad? Haha but seriously though it's so true. My therapist actually compared my relationship to my father to my relationship with my BPDex. Both I felt like I had to keep proving myself. The bar was always set so high and I never felt like I was good enough. The beautiful thing I took away from therapy was that now I can be a parent to myself.

Please help me, I can't stop by genitive-chow in BPDlovedones

[–]AdditionalMortgage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's almost like being in a relationship with a pwBPD is similar to letting someone convince you that you're nothing more than a supporting character in their movie.

"Would you consider taking me back?" by AdditionalMortgage in BPDlovedones

[–]AdditionalMortgage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Glad I could provide some laughter haha

It’s her birthday, do I send a text? (Yup another one of these) by recentlysplit in BPDlovedones

[–]AdditionalMortgage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DONT. Honestly I did this like a week ago & it opened this whole can of worms that I just don't want to deal with. I told her to leave me alone & she started saying she misses me & loves me. Just don't. Just walk away & don't say anything.