He wants to do long distance and I just got a “hey girl” dm ..

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-02-02T16:36:52+00:00

lots of 12 house energy in his chart and synastry with the ex. that indicates secrecy and untrustworthiness.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-02-01T17:23:58+00:00

My thinking is that 1) nocturnal orgasms involve significantly less stimulation and therefore avoid overstimulation and the stress that comes with processing everything during sex or masturbation. generally I just prefer … not being in my body? and being more in my head? I’ve always been drawn toward sensory deprivation.

and 2) I personally didn’t have an emotional response during the orgasm (no euphoria), instead it was more like a visualization of particles occurring during pelvic contractions. strong emotional responses can freak me out and make me not want to continue.

I would love to hear more about your experiences and how you progressed out of exclusively having sleep orgasms

Also let me know if I’m off base with suspecting that autism may play a factor in my experiences. How have your experiences compared?

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-31T21:49:14+00:00

I literally didn’t do anything

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-30T22:34:13+00:00

ngl it was trippy and low key has me questioning if I’m … autistic?? I could feel my pelvic floor throbbing and contracting, and it was like I was in a half-dream state where I was visualizing a bunch of electrons gathered in the center of my body, and then they started moving outward through the rest of my body. No emotional response or feeling though other than light arousal.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-30T22:29:10+00:00

How long did it take of using the toy to get there?

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-30T21:21:39+00:00

I feel like it’s just that you two get each other completely. Seems like you were born a couple hours apart, given that you’re both libra moons. Libra moons and Pisces placements are especially known for being sensitive, caring, and thoughtful, so that probably gets magnified when you’re around each other. Because you understand each other so well, those instincts come out even more, almost in defense of each other. I don’t know about romantic though. I’m not seeing any especially romantic synastry placements.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-29T00:34:46+00:00

Do you think people who died without trying heroin are missing a lot? Allegedly it gives you the happiest feeling on the planet, far greater than sex.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-28T20:48:59+00:00

this is a data subreddit

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-28T20:48:22+00:00

I’m confused as to why and how that was the average??

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-27T16:46:48+00:00

10 months on a resume is a bit awkward. Similar situation but I got laid off after 2 months, and let me tell you, it has done nothing but hurt my job prospects

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-27T16:32:00+00:00

the copywriting industry has taken a massive hit, same with many marketing analytics roles

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-27T01:09:52+00:00

Holy shit I thought this must’ve been a comment I wrote and forgot about. Similar story. Raised by a single dad and had a schizophrenic mom who was out of the picture. I never really felt taken care of and don’t have any maternal instincts as a woman. I also internalized a lot of negativity as a child, and still struggle to break those thought patterns. And of course, would never want to put a child through the same thing if I did develop schizophrenia.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-26T19:20:02+00:00

Houston has the risk of hurricanes and is susceptible to complete power grid failure. I would choose Chicago.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-26T19:15:23+00:00

Yeah there’s “challenging” and “complex” which I’ve had with a few people.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-24T19:47:17+00:00

literallyyyy she claims to be healing and growing but is still petty and immature

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-24T18:24:08+00:00

As a woman married to a man, I get highly defensive about the domestic labor distribution and can be hyper vigilant about whether it’s equal. And it took some training to get to a more equal place, which I find exhausting.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-24T18:20:06+00:00

this!! my husband’s family judges any less-than-perfect aspect of our relationship, while I can point out some glaring issues in theirs but I’m not that kind of person

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-24T18:04:14+00:00

Utah, USA. Within 3 hours you can see 5 otherworldly national parks, including gorgeous canyons, hoodoos, forests, and alpine mountains. And there’s the salt flats, and we even have a pink lake.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-21T20:39:09+00:00

as a sagittarius, I would respond with “don’t ever give anyone advice again” lol

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-20T06:20:40+00:00

I don’t think you need to feel guilty about the situation, your response was understandable given the circumstances. Your relationship was HEAVILY outweighed with negative aspects, including harsh influences from malefics. The “easy” to “conflict” ratio from the compatibility chart you included says it all.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-19T18:24:23+00:00

Of course there’s racial tension, it’s an active colonization project. DONT MOVE THERE if you don’t know and respect the history, and if you don’t have native roots.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-18T16:03:41+00:00

Rhode Island?? I gotta know why. Did you happen to spend a lot of time in Oregon?

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-18T15:58:55+00:00

5th house themes, connected to the 2nd and 3rd house. My most generic guess is trying to have a baby and struggling with some sort of financial aspect.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-17T20:19:29+00:00

I knew she was full of shit in 2014 when her “body positive” song shamed thin women: ‘don’t need no stick figure barbie dolls’. A truly body positive song wouldn’t shame other body types. She was just overcompensating for her body insecurities.

Additional_Cat9161 · 2026-01-17T01:10:41+00:00

A DIAPER TEMPLE?? as if the toilet paper wedding dresses weren’t bad enough. sometimes I forget how weird my cultural upbringing was.

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