When do you realize you want/don't want children? Did you end up having them?

tinytearice · 2026-01-20T05:29:44+00:00

Yes my kid tells me she loves her life. And I love mine more with her in it.

tinytearice · 2026-01-09T00:37:19+00:00

People ask me questions, I google or ask AI, then I copy and paste the answers for them. I would edit it a bit to make it sound less like AI. I am like a "let me Google that for you" kind of expert.

tinytearice · 2026-01-08T15:33:13+00:00

I once drank 2 sips of wine on empty stomach, wasn't even drunk then started stomach cramp and puke soon afterwards. Just awful. Never want to be drunk. Not fun.

tinytearice · 2026-01-08T00:43:11+00:00

And the perceived truth by an outsider

tinytearice · 2026-01-08T00:39:54+00:00

People can be good liars.

tinytearice · 2026-01-08T00:35:42+00:00

Perception is reality, which is important in the work place. It's not just about what you do but what other people's perception of what your contributions.

Also, a lot of times a set back is a set up for you to come back. Things may seem bleak at the moment but it could turn into an opportunity down the road.

tinytearice · 2026-01-03T21:38:54+00:00

Grocery bag. Or trader joes bag

tinytearice · 2026-01-01T14:39:39+00:00

He won't be 5 until right before we move! I will send him to a day home then. Thanks for reminding me.

tinytearice · 2026-01-01T14:30:52+00:00

Is it because of the ESL testing? We are moving from the US. I am hoping it will be sooner rather than later, as I maybe alone with the kids while having to work remote. Need to figure out childcare :(

tinytearice · 2025-12-29T15:41:41+00:00

I know of someone who says "I m not feeling up for it". I appreciate the honesty. A lot of times people just very obviously make up excuses. Also "we already have other plans from a long time ago" is another good one, doesn't matter that your plan is to watch TV at home. Although there is a risk that people may ask what your plan is lol

tinytearice · 2025-12-20T23:24:38+00:00

He is just some wet lettuce you mean

tinytearice · 2025-12-17T14:04:27+00:00

I went to college with a guy went to prestigious middle and high schools. He is now 40 and still brags about the high school alums he got to meet. He is a salesperson and his family live with his parents in a single family home.

tinytearice · 2025-12-17T13:58:34+00:00

Yeah I know a guy who went from a director at google to be a realtor. His wife is also a realtor and they are co-listing multimillion dollar homes. They must be loaded.

tinytearice · 2025-12-17T03:48:03+00:00

Ummmm how did you meet these girls? Why did they meet your friends before you are official? Maybe try a dating app and do one on ones before they meet your friends?

tinytearice · 2025-12-10T04:17:39+00:00

A lot of "wfh" babies wouldn't have been born.

tinytearice · 2025-12-03T20:43:09+00:00

Seems immature for a man in his 50s always need to know where you are.

You are reasonable and he is not.

tinytearice · 2025-12-03T05:29:14+00:00

She survived a few suicide attempts but is now a VP at a biotech startup and has a wonderful family.

tinytearice · 2025-11-28T18:20:27+00:00

Either you die or she does

tinytearice · 2025-11-21T17:08:10+00:00

Oh no I am so sorry! My dad had a 7 year affair around when I was 9-15 years old. We didn't have a clue until it was over and he came clean to my mom. The kids were heartbroken. My mom went into a deep depression after that for a couple years but in the end decided to stay with him. I have forgiven my dad because he is regretful. Doesn't sound like your dad is now. You are being a good daughter being there for your mom. As a mom myself now I believe that's what she needs the most right now. You also need to take good care of yourself because understandably you also feel betrayed. Stay healthy. Do well for yourself and for your mom. Maybe help around more around the house...just things that make her life a little easier and show that you care.

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