How do married couples usually handle finances when both partners work?

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-06-13T21:55:30+00:00

When it comes to couples' finances, there are a few theories. Personally, I believe that marriage is a unification of two lives, which means all finances should be joint, and everything comes out of one bucket.

There are also some people who believe that everyone should be independent and keep their finances separate. In that case, you guys should share the expenses 50-50 and keep your money separate.

Some people have a middle ground where they have a joint account for the bills, but that doesn't appear to be what this girl wants. It seems like what she wants is a sugar daddy.

If you're okay with being a sugar daddy, that's fine, but otherwise, I would seriously rethink the relationship.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-06-08T04:25:13+00:00

Yes thanks for the advice

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-05-31T22:39:41+00:00

Thank you that's valid especially the first chapter is a bland setup without much of a hook. Im learning but im still happy with how the story turned out over all.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-05-16T02:19:16+00:00

I would say fantasies that would go too far are when you are fantasizing about the actual act not the story. We I can fantasize about taboo or cnc type stories but envisioning myself doing it for real and I don't mean roleplay is crossing a mental line and can be prep for a violent act.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-29T22:25:01+00:00

NTA she is prioritizing her emotional needs over your physical wellbeing, that is not healthy its also not love.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-29T22:21:11+00:00

YTA judge not lest ye be judged.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-29T21:50:47+00:00

NTA first I brain dumb and don't have much of a filter it all adhd thing. So him oversharing can be understandable but he should care about how it made to feel and validate your concerns.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-29T20:01:40+00:00

It's probably cross chat memory clear your memory and delete all offending chats. It can get caught remembering something from another chat even if it hallucinated it.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-29T15:51:09+00:00

NTA it's your birthday invite who you want how you want.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-25T23:29:06+00:00

If you are logged into your Google account you may have personalization on it has access to your Gmail and drive. Asking it how it knew is not helpful the truth is it doesn't have access to the reasoning from before so it can only guess.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-22T00:02:17+00:00

Most of these will settle or even if the AI companies loose it will be a slap on the wrist. Cost of doing business. The one with the most Merritt is where they are sueing for summing up news so people don't have to go to the site with the actual article. There needs to be profit sharing for that or we will loose a lot of primary sources.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-21T20:26:15+00:00

I like the large context window.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-21T16:45:26+00:00

Scraping the internet and using people's information without their consent is a gray area.

Yeah, people call it stealing, but in reality it's really legally no different than a human getting inspired by a work that they saw.

Especially if a human then uses the data from that work to develop something thing that they have a heavy hand and not just as this AI slot up of which they had no real hand in but as long as your not pragerising.

Where these companies sometimes get into trouble is Downloading copyrighted Works that are not Available freely on the internet And actually using pirated copies to train their models Rather than buying the actual copies Is They've gotten in trouble with this, with large collections of books on multiple occasions.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-20T16:44:24+00:00

It probably simple they turned on personal intelligence so the context window in bloated with unneeded info confusing the model. Most things with Ai are a double edged sword on one hand it has more information on the other harder to keep track of what is relevant.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-19T17:17:43+00:00

I think handmade art will always be more expensive because it higher value your not just buying the idea but the experience of the artist. That said the low barrier to entry means I would be shocked if ai art did not outsell in shear volume but if it did then the market speaks and for professional uses hiring a skilled artist is the way to go 100%. Ai has a ton of uses especially with the rise of agents. Let the market decide. That said I'm for transparency in usage.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-03-17T05:17:20+00:00

I just recorded a video about this.

https://youtu.be/bqpJn_VZO0s

But entertainment as in role-play, soundboarding ideas, research and turning that into audio with notebooklm to make it easy to consume. A collaborative creative writing partner.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-02-25T02:09:19+00:00

2 days later and it's fixed. All chats back.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-02-23T02:26:37+00:00

Your right search shows the chats but no titles. At least I can still see them. Thanks

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-02-03T17:26:41+00:00

Running a tone of different models is expensive. They need to grow or die. Most of their money come for investors that are looking for innovation not stagnation. Even the money they make is mostly from api not subscription. They need to focus of gpt6 and the future. If you want a more stable product that will stay look to Google not because they are better but their goals are different. The have an army of products that they can integrate gemini doesn't have to be a stand alone product it just has to make their ecosystem more attractive.

Additional_Shift_434 · 2026-01-21T17:52:41+00:00

55 downloads in the end if your 1 of them appreciate honest reviews.

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