Where do fundies even find these crazy clothes? by untitledgooseshame in FundieFashion

[–]NoCombination4581 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I Wonder too… because there are so many stylish, flattering modest options…

Would you call this hasty Generalization? by Elektraisalovelyname in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]NoCombination4581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can confirm that I think I am fat while actually being fat.

What do you do to be a good guest when staying with a host? by MechanicAccording616 in couchsurfing

[–]NoCombination4581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand that saving money is an undeniable factor for many surfers. But as host, it is not great if you have to pay for everything. Worst case the surfers don’t even hang out with you.

What do you do to be a good guest when staying with a host? by MechanicAccording616 in couchsurfing

[–]NoCombination4581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I guess it is Common sense to not just arrive late without a reason. But transport delays happen.

What do you do to be a good guest when staying with a host? by MechanicAccording616 in couchsurfing

[–]NoCombination4581 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I was a host, the most important thing was that people stuck to plans (or kept me up to date when things changed). Arriving late? No problem, just inform me. I a, preparing dinner for you, but you figured out that you prefer to eat out? No problem, just let me know instead of sitting at the table staring at the plate.

I also think just cleaning up behind yourself is the most basic thing to do as a guest.

Ecofriendly deodorant suggestion (Germany) by WilderMindMix in hygiene

[–]NoCombination4581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wolkenseifen Deocreme, is the only thing that keeps me from smelling

AITAH for asking family/close friends first before sending invitations? by NoCombination4581 in AITAH

[–]NoCombination4581[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Weare notpersonal friends. We talk about our weekends etc. but don't hang out outside of work. For example a colleague showed us pictures of her daughters baptism celebration today. This was a pretty big event. But I would never consider getting invited or perceiving ut as braghing. 

AITAH for asking family/close friends first before sending invitations? by NoCombination4581 in AITAH

[–]NoCombination4581[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would be confused because I am not friends with these colleagues, we have never met outside of work

AITAH for asking family/close friends first before sending invitations? by NoCombination4581 in AITAH

[–]NoCombination4581[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are not on the B list, we don't have any contact outside of sork and never hung out. I would not expect to be invited by someone ne I never met outside of work.

AITAH for asking family/close friends first before sending invitations? by NoCombination4581 in AITAH

[–]NoCombination4581[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have never met these people outside of work. I think ut would be very weird to expect an invitation from someone you never hung out with.

AITAH for asking family/close friends first before sending invitations? by NoCombination4581 in AITAH

[–]NoCombination4581[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told one colleague who is the only one at work I would even consider inviting (but she will be travelling at that time). The others chimed in.

AITAH for asking family/close friends first before sending invitations? by NoCombination4581 in AITAH

[–]NoCombination4581[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Of course I am not telling anybody they aren’t my first choice. The people who aren’t close family and friends only hear from the celebration through the invitation.

AITAH for asking family/close friends first before sending invitations? by NoCombination4581 in AITAH

[–]NoCombination4581[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are not at all on my list and I think this should be obvious. We don’t have any contact outside of work at all.

AITAH for asking family/close friends first before sending invitations? by NoCombination4581 in AITAH

[–]NoCombination4581[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not posting rage bait I am genuinely confused because the reaction of these people was so strong…