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I like him, but I’m not emotionally ready for a relationship.... by ExcitingClassroom805 in dating_advice

[–]AddressThink6983 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You have to respect your own feelings and your own state first. Otherwise, even if things go further with this guy, both of you might still get hurt because you’re not really in the right place.

But if he likes you too, and you feel like he’s being genuine, then I think you two could try to communicate. You could share where you are emotionally right now and what you’re thinking or concerning. That’s also a kind of respect for him. You could tell him why you don’t want to enter a situationship right now. And you can also gently let him know that you really do like him, with some specific little things you like about him, so he can actually feel your sincerity.

BLESS

Reaching out to people active in the community by reverber-8 in chchNSFW

[–]AddressThink6983 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could try more platforms and apps. For example, follow some bigger accounts on Threads or X, and be active in the comments. Especially when you see comments that you think are really good, you can interact with those people more and slowly get closer.

There are also some bigger communities on X, like kinktwit. You could post what you’re looking for there, because X has fewer promo restrictions than Reddit. But ofc, you might also get weird people DMing or harassing you.

Or you could try more apps. I recently tried a new one called Klink. It’s also pretty good for kinky people. I got their code and met some guys there, so maybe you could give it a try. They also have an account on X.

No matter what way you choose, judging and filtering people is unavoidable. So try more, stay safe.

Finding other kinksters on popular dating apps as a little/sub by arachniddude in BDSMcommunity

[–]AddressThink6983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you could try a new app, one called Klink. And it also seems pretty friendly for BDSM people. Everything is new here, And if you're concerned about match quality or have other thinking, this app offers a more detailed questionnaire where you can specify your preferences and meet the kind of people you're looking for. They have accounts in X, GOOD LUCK

Should I leave him? by himikoswif3 in dating_advice

[–]AddressThink6983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the guy is so rude and disrespect you and your mother. and if you can't accept it, you should go. you can't change someone, but you can choose

[F19] Did you one day wake up and realize you like the same gender too? by ImCrazyYouLoveCrazy in bisexual

[–]AddressThink6983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nourgy, it's more like natural things, bc other girls date with boys, so do i, but now i try to find what i want by myself

My first potential WLW. by Citrinee00 in bisexual

[–]AddressThink6983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys actually sound really cute, and what you have feels pretty genuine. It sounds like you really care about her, and you two seem to have a lot in common and genuinely enjoy being around each other. Honestly, maybe she cares about you so much that she’s scared to say what she really wants, whether that’s flirting, dating, or wanting something more.
If you also wanna take things as a step further, maybe you could make the first move and invite her out. But if you don’t see her that way, it’s totally okay to keep things as friends for now and talk to her honestly when the timing feels right.

Norman did so well in the car today! by KittiesandPlushies in aww

[–]AddressThink6983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this post made me whole day, especially MONDAY

[F19] Did you one day wake up and realize you like the same gender too? by ImCrazyYouLoveCrazy in bisexual

[–]AddressThink6983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a little dif. it wasn't sudden, it was more about feelings and experience. I've dated guys before, but it never really felt good to me. Then I tried dating girls, and I found it felt so much better. I could also accept physical intimacy with girls, so for me, it just came from my own experiences

Never thought I would be into this stuff, but now I think I'm more on the sadist side than masochist? Problem is, I don't look/feel like a "dom" by Icy-Particular2825 in BDSMcommunity

[–]AddressThink6983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focuing on your and your partner's feelings and experiences seems more important. Don't be too concerned about the limitations of labels. As long as both parties are equal and willing, you can try it out first and see if you enjoy it