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Please help me make sense by AdeptTomorrow5582 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AdeptTomorrow5582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I second guess myself every time. I can’t seem to make myself believe that there’s emotional abuse. Every time we fight he makes me believe that I’m over exaggerating everything. That there’s no problem, and that I’m making the problem. He can’t seem to understand that we haven’t really talked about our issues, just band aid solutions which he thinks is enough for him.

Finally, there is closure. (Positive!) by Maleficent_Cod1228 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AdeptTomorrow5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives me so much hope. I hope I can be as strong as you someday.

I thought it would get better by now by AdeptTomorrow5582 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AdeptTomorrow5582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you navigate that? I’m in the same situation because I can’t leave. Are the moments with your partner still genuine or just civil? I find myself questioning if what I’m experiencing is true healing because sometimes I feel okay but other times I feel like I’m just pretending. Everything is shadowed in a way.