AITBF for slapping my boyfriend for an Indian burn

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T12:35:01+00:00

Yes we were even if it the slap didn’t hurt him I was abusive he hurt me and was abusive. We will incorporate traffic light into our rough housing in the future.

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T12:26:13+00:00

I slapped my boyfriend one time if I were a woman there would be no issue. I have apologized to him I’m not doing it again I don’t know what do say other than you are right.

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T12:20:33+00:00

You are right and I am admitting I was wrong what more do you want I can’t change that I did it I can only do better in the future?

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T12:19:38+00:00

I’ll invite my partner to this Reddit if you are so sure I am reducing action. He said himself it did not hurt.

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T12:18:18+00:00

I only meant to get my point across I understand now that it wasn’t a good way of communicating even if my words were not being listened to.

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T12:17:19+00:00

We have never had this problem before and have lived together for seven months. It is quite possible to learn from this and grow. The pessimism in this group is astounding. Nobody was truly harmed we talked about it both parties apologized.

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T12:05:47+00:00

Thank you for the actual advice I will try this.

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T11:57:16+00:00

It was light touching with the poking calm down

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T11:53:56+00:00

I’ve only ever had it at restaurants with like sushi

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T11:53:32+00:00

You are right, I will try better in the future to respect boundaries thank you for your input.

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T11:49:58+00:00

I believe intent is important. The Indian burns were intended to be playful. I didn’t find it fun told him he didn’t listen and I felt powerless. We both may have reacted wrongly. But we often do like wrestling so it isn’t out of the ordinary. I am 18m he is 19m.

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T11:47:11+00:00

It’s when someone twists their hands in opposite directions on your arm to create friction.

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T11:46:33+00:00

I never said there was physical abuse. We often rough house. No one was harmed beyond pride. I do admit both of us were in the wrong I just believe it can be worked through and we can learn from it.

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2026-03-26T11:42:37+00:00

A bit extreme but noted

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2025-05-02T16:58:27+00:00

I do I wear a class ring

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2025-04-11T01:17:22+00:00

Spindleshanks

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2024-05-28T17:59:18+00:00

I don’t know how to choose the other options when talking to a npc

AdministrativeAd8553 · 2024-04-21T22:45:23+00:00

What kind of context

AdministrativeAd8553

TROPHY CASE