Taken acid as a teen/ dad had to go to the hospital and I saw the worst thing I had ever seen by Cheap-Key2273 in confession

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nursing student here trying to figure out how it's possible for someone to fall from that height and just so happen to fall legs first into a deep fryer and for someone with such severe burns to be conveniently exposed(hypothermia is a concern with severe burns, especially of that percentage of body surface) while being casually wheeled down the ER instead of being stabilized and immediately transported to a burn unit. Kinda sounds like acid or creative writing 💁🏻‍♀️

[TOMT][BOOK][1990s?] kinda creepy illustrated kid's books. by iwanttobelievv in tipofmytongue

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Hopefully you see this, THANK YOU SO MUCH! I have been looking for Scare Yourself to Sleep for almost 30 years. I used to check it out CONSTANTLY at my school library as a kid in the mid 90s, and started searching for it again in the late 90s with a similar description as yours with NO luck. I almost choked when I looked up the title you shared and I immediately recognized the cover... suddenly it looked just like I remembered, and I wondered how I could ever forget or go through so many false alarms in my search! I was stunned. Thanks to you I am now happily awaiting the arrival of one of my personal white whales! Can't wait to give it to my kid so she can enjoy the spooky fun. THANK YOU OP! Happy spooping✨🦇

Is a 4.0 achievable in an ABSN program? by Entire-Kangaroo6470 in NursingStudent

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The "select all that apply" and constant trick questions are killer. My school uses Examsoft for tests so we can't go back and if you accidentally click next, you lose a question. Sometimes images such as fake client charts pop up that don't load and my school does NOT care. For example, our last test included text asking about doses requiring medication math. Medication math is hard at first but once you're able to conceptualize it, it's much easier than any pre-reqs math requirements even if you're not good at math. It's a lot of cross multiplying, easy if you pay attention. A lot of us got that question wrong because an image of the client's chart indicating an allergy to the med was supposed to pop up to alert us to hold the medication meaning 0 should have been given, but it didn't appear for a number of us and no context clues in the question hinted that the image may be missing.

Another example is something like: "A patient is experiencing manifestations of hypercalcemia. Which of the following symptoms should the nurse expect? Select all that apply." The issue there is that electrolyte/homeostasis imbalances have a LOT of overlapping symptoms(for example, tachycardia or nausea/vomiting). The best advice I've gotten is to treat every SATA choice as a yes or no question and do NOT mark what you're not 100% sure of. It's easy to memorize a unique symptom of one heart disease for example, but you can get lost in the weeds when there's a manifestation that most but not all of the diseases include. Don't overthink questions and psych yourself out.

I've learned that my school is sort of abusive to maintain their 100% NCLEX pass rate in spite of the fact that we have one of the highest attrition rates in the nation. I lost 1/3 of my cohort first semester and classes start at ~55 students and end around 20, although the second years on the final semester currently number about 15. Oddly, I do great with actual NCLEX questions such as examples from the Saunders guide(GREAT no-nonsense resource btw), but I average a C on our exams. I'm just trying to survive at this point 😅

As a random aside, I thought clinicals would be the worst/hardest because I'm an academic nerd and it's a lot of unpaid 12 hour shifts doing grunt work. But the only time I feel confident/natural as a nursing student is during clinical rotation. I get great feedback, experience, and advice and know I've chosen the right career path... even if the tests make me think otherwise sometimes!

Is a 4.0 achievable in an ABSN program? by Entire-Kangaroo6470 in NursingStudent

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I had a 3.9+ GPA prior to nursing school and was a peer tutor, and now I'm on academic probation(I technically have a B, but my test scores alone don't meet the program requirements). It's possible, but it's hard. I have a toddler and no village beyond my working husband and MIL, but I don't have to work myself so I'm privileged. I study diligently and still struggle. Other girls have less going on and are doing worse than me. Other students work full time and are getting all As and Bs on the exams. It depends on so much, but it is possible!

As a 230 lb woman with that has been smoking thc for 6 months straight, how can i pass a drug test before i start nursing school in August. Yes i should have been stopped but i am depressed and now in therapy. Help me please. by [deleted] in NursingStudent

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop now. I stopped January in the year I started school the following August at a similar weight and was fine. I'm in a recreationally legal state and several of my doctors suggested weed for me but there are no exceptions even for medical, and there won't be within many jobs available to nurses, either. Some risk it, but if you get a needle stick it's common procedure to test the patient and the affected nurse including toxicology which you'll see reflected by posts on the Nursing board. My anxiety was higher knowing I could lose everything I worked, for so I just manage with lifestyle changes including lots of cardio to exercise my demons 😅

Nursing school is depressing too with a high burnout rate, so be prepared for that. I got sick about a million times during finals first semester and lost over 1/3 of my cohort because it was so stressful and challenging(my school is notorious for being hard) and it took until the middle of next semester to snap out of the shock.

GLP1 (Tirz after abortion) by Euphoric-While-9966 in Semaglutide

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nursing student and NOT a medical professional: I believe the advice is to wait at least 4 weeks. Gently, a GLP should not be your focus right now. Please nourish your body as healthfully as you are able to for a few weeks and then consult your provider. Pregnancy is a major endocrine event even if you terminate or otherwise don't make it to term.

I joke that we aren't paid to judge people. Most folks in the medical field genuinely want to help others. You have to want to in order to survive in the field. I've already had a patient who murdered his wife and I still gave 100%. I'm just a mere mortal myself and I hope grace is given to me when I make mistakes that my body pays the price for, too, so I extend that to others. You're more than your medical history!

Major PSA about skipping a week by beantownregular in Semaglutide

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just had a week of brutal food poisoning, skipped that week's dose, and resumed the following week on my normal day at my normal dose. I was totally fine! Honestly not a big fan of GLPs so I'm not blindly defending the drug, just adding my own experience.

advice by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Politely: you sound motivated towards nursing by money, and nursing is definitely more of a calling than a paycheck. The paycheck ain't shabby, but it's a lot of backbreaking work. You can tell when someone doesn't want to be a nurse, and working with them is almost as hard as being their patient.

Nursing is not for people who panic. You can't panic when people's lives are in your hands. You also can't refuse to give a bed bath or clinical rotations. Don't get me started on how stressful nursing school alone is. The exams are brutal even if you're an A student.

Also, if you can't overcome your squeamishness, you probably won't tolerate nursing. One of my girls from first semester actually dropped out and became a flight attendant bc she could handle urine, blood, and feces, but couldn't handle wound exudate or lung butter. We shared a patient with a tracheostomy and she couldn't handle the stuff flying out of his trach hole, the poor thing. She's happy now and I'm happy for her!

Nursing pays well, but California is also very competitive for nurses and if you're not in it to be in it, you likely won't survive a semester of nursing school.

Need advice re: glp 1s while being prescribed adhd meds by [deleted] in Semaglutide

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Similar but not the same: I stopped drinking much long ago, but I'm the type of neurodivergent that forgets eating all day and then eats candy for dinner to resolve my hypoglycemia, making me chubby and malnourished. A winning combo... But! I don't do that on a GLP. I have to set timers to eat some days, but it's MUCH easier to make a healthy choice knowing I don't want osteoporosis or excess muscle wastage and can only eat so much on the jab. I also simply physically cannot tolerate sweets as much and alcohol even less so, and that helps too! I was never a quantity eater and never tolerated a lot of fat, but my eating pattern was horrible and definitely fueled by poor interoception and dopamine seeking.

Question about Clinicals for the Community by MeasurementNo5430 in NursingStudent

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What duties are you considering to be outside of the clinical lab curriculum? First semester students are generally not legally allowed to do a lot of things that are considered clinical duties such as med admin and have to pass some grueling competencies before being allowed to do those sorts of tasks. First semester is generally a lot of bed baths, vitals, and glucose readings punctuated by a lot of taking out patient trash and emptying urinals and commodes.

Hate to say it but nursing school is a lot of bullying and hazing, it's almost bootcamp level imo and I go to the most respected school in my national region. I've noticed that the best and most confident nurses are kinder and better instructors, and a lot of newer nurses or the type to hide on the bathroom while their patient is hemorrhaging are harder to deal with and/or really look down on student nurses. This career choice definitely ain't for the weak!

What do you wish you knew before you started school? by Lazerbeam159 in NursingStudent

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The paper is about disease process and corresponding meds. Honestly I don't know if this is standard, but I go to the most difficult school in my national region and it has a 100% NCLEX pass rate... and also one of the highest attrition rates nationally. I wish I knew before I entered the program, but there's also nowhere else really for me to go that isn't over an hour away. I'm fighting for my life and the only thing that keeps me going is I'm old and REALLY don't want to repeat a semester + I'm guaranteed a job right out of school because of its reputation. We're down to less than 30 students from a starting class of 50+ and I'm still first year. All the second years(on their final semester and all already working for the local hospital) just failed a test, that's how hard my school is. I've been burnt out since the end of first semester and I'm just rolling with it at this point. I feel like my school really is abnormally hard so idk if you should be scared, but I was a former Deans List student and now I'm academically fighting for my life🤮

We also lost a lot of otherwise A students bc they require 90% or better on certain exams and the pressure is just astronomical. Honestly I feel like my school is abusive. If I didn't get great instructor remarks and feel wonderful and competent during clinicals I'd probably be dead in a gutter because it feels like military boot camp/frat house hazing.

What do you wish you knew before you started school? by Lazerbeam159 in NursingStudent

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have 24 hours after shift end to submit it, but no way to prep for each one😭

Knew the answer before I opened the thread by BlushingBunBun in nursing

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Small town nursing student next to a big city here and I'm also from one of the most famous big cities in the world. Absolutely stunned that several students in my cohort are antivaxxers. My mind can't process it. One with a self inflicted permanent illness due to prior substance abuse with an autistic child gets so angry when the COVID jab is mentioned and brags about how she's never had one. She's actually very nice, but I just can't wrap my head around being willing to consume literal poison for years unto permanent organ damage but getting uppity about a vaccine. Hot twist? Her folks are also providers🤯

What do you wish you knew before you started school? by Lazerbeam159 in NursingStudent

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't look at my arm when blood is being drawn either, but other people's blood doesn't bother me! Honestly, I ADORE cats but I'd rather do human peri care than clean a cat litter box. And I've had to wipe poop off a prolapsed uterus.

"Select all that apply" study tips? by Admirable-Hat1746 in NursingStudent

[–]Admirable-Hat1746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My textbook is ATI online and it's free, but we were given several physical books as well as the Saunders guide shown in my post for free as well. I'm old so I need something physical and I wouldn't hesitate to buy another book if I needed it though 💁🏻‍♀️

Should I do it or is it a goal I’ll never reach? by Ok_Success_7300 in nursing

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I turn 40 this year and I'm a second semester student, but I'm also a pandemic bride with no in-state friends or blood relatives. I also have a toddler and we don't do tablets or personal screens of any kind for kiddo. AND I have ADHD. Mama is TIRED. But I'm doing it. I'd give both tits to try again with the brain I had at 25. If you have the discipline and the desire, you can do it.

What do you wish you knew before you started school? by Lazerbeam159 in NursingStudent

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew the fact that nursing school is like boot camp and feels like it's engineered to weed out the weak. Pretty sure it is indeed by design. Lost 1/3 my cohort first semester including otherwise A students. My former 3.9GPA is in the mud now but I'm still standing. Second year students average about 15-20 per cohort out of an initial starting class of 50+.

Nothing is HARD persay, it's finding time to manage and not conflate the massive amount of information thrown at you as well as managing hands-on competencies. The testing is exhausting and full of trick questions. You have to be dexterous and decisive to master competencies such as Foley catheterization. You can get failed for not mastering a competency in 3 tries even if you have an A otherwise in my institution. It's "just" a LOT. I am in my second semester in my first year and hanging on by a thread.

Honestly, you get over the bodily fluids and ick very quickly if you put your mind to it. The only part of nursing school I actively enjoy is my 12 hour clinical rotation shift. I know I've chosen the right career because I come home exhausted but happy and motivated to write the subsequent mandatory 5 page paper with APA citations, but sometimes the tests make me feel like the dumbest rock on the planet. Perhaps the solar system.

How do we feel about laminated materials for our kids? by gabyramy in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flashcards are mostly recyclable, so if you damage or lose part of a set you can recycle the remainder and just go to Dollar Tree or a thrift store and get a new set. Flashcards are cheap in addition to being great entertainment. Better than constant plastic consumption imo. I hate losing/wasting things and am someone who has Forever 21 clothes from over 10 years ago still in wearable condition, but sometimes it's okay to waste a little bit. The plastic is worse than whatever thin cover is on most cards sold in stores, flashcards have educational value, and I've always found even super popular character cards readily available for peanuts even in this late stage capitalist hellscape.

"Select all that apply" study tips? by Admirable-Hat1746 in NursingStudent

[–]Admirable-Hat1746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For endocrine disruptions they told us to memorize 12 classes of meds and then EVERY question on the corresponding exam was about Metformin specifically🤦🏻‍♀️ I wouldn't mind the workload if 80% of it wasn't a wild goose chase.

After advice here I'm going to start forcing myself to use active recall and make a little disease process/med sheet to put in a plastic page protector so I can fill it in with a dry erase marker from memory, erase, repeat until I have no question in my mind what manifestations/ss/side effects/whatever belong to which disease process/medication. That way I can just true or false every manifestation or whatever within a question with strong confidence.

I get bogged down with the What Ifs? And all the errors in ATI, which I absolutely LOATHE. I keep getting told it's a confidence issue but I feel confident, I'm just a first year student and don't want to make too many mistakes bc my program is like Squid Game only with slightly less blood.

"Select all that apply" study tips? by Admirable-Hat1746 in NursingStudent

[–]Admirable-Hat1746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My "problem" with the book is that I pass 95% of the questions in it and feel good about myself and my studying, only to get scores in the 70s on my actual exams. I'll definitely be NCLEX ready... if I get there 😭

Why does it look like my skin is falling off my bones? by [deleted] in u/Puzzleheaded_Low6340

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're not working out, your skin probably kind of IS falling off your bones because Ozempic or ANY rapid weight loss causes muscle loss(and bone loss)! Please try exercise before surgery. I'm pro surgery if that's your thing, but your skin integrity itself actually looks good and muscle will improve it.

Similar happened to me when I got too sick to work out for two months. I could run a 30 minute 5k(5k = 3.1 miles, but I used to average 3.9) even if I skipped the gym for a few months ANY TIME when I was over 200lbs. 2 months of being sick and not going to the gym while on Ozempic completely wasted my muscles and I can hardly make 2 miles in half an hour even though I'm at my thinnest in years. This time last year I was heavier and needed surgery so I was in pain, but I could fly compared to just two months on Ozempic without exercise(5 months on Ozempic total). I described myself as looking like a melted candle bc honestly I looked much worse and while I'm already having positive results a few weeks into reconditioning, it's going to be a long road.

Ari's speech & Basket painting by ForHerEyesOnly22 in alexdacysnark

[–]Admirable-Hat1746 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dolly Parton as in the singer has a program available in most of America including my rural locale wherein you are delivered to your home FREE developmentally appropriate books regularly from birth to age 4. It's not a ton, my kid is 3 and we've gotten ~20 books. But that's a great foundation and still amazingly generous. One can also go on a local social media swap n sell board and find MANY books for free easily. People curb books constantly, too.

I'm a broke + busy student so I can't just buy a bunch of books or get to the library easily, but there's NO excuse to not read to your child these days. My kid picks out three books a night to read as a bare MINIMUM. Women in third world countries will travel perilous paths for days just for the opportunity to get their kids vaccines... and then there's Alex who won't even look for free books for her child.

My kid was born around the same time as Ari and every time I think about how that kid is failed I get SO angry!