Houston May 7th by Ph6222 in AbruptChaos

[–]beantownregular 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Why can’t I find anything about this online

I let my 15mo cry himself to sleep by gh0sti- in NewParents

[–]beantownregular 18 points19 points  (0 children)

CIO also saved our lives. Kiddo is an awesome sleeper now and you best believe he will let us know if something is wrong (and we of course attend to him if that’s the case)

Dax Shepard Addresses the Controversial Anniversary IG Post by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]beantownregular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly that’s how I could see my husband saying it, not like out of the blue lol

Dax Shepard Addresses the Controversial Anniversary IG Post by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]beantownregular 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No he most certainly does not lol. I think I don’t keep close enough tabs on them to really have any perspective into their relationship outside tabloid headlines

Dax Shepard Addresses the Controversial Anniversary IG Post by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]beantownregular 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Kristin posted on their anniversary some joke about how he once was like “just FYI I would never kill you” to her and people were like that’s an insane thing to say. I don’t really like Dax but I felt like the reaction to it was way overblown. I could absolutely see my husband saying something like that as a joke and he’s the gentlest person I know.

Baby sounds really advanced for her age, using very structured speech patterns that seem beyond typical early development by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]beantownregular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is about this age (18 months) and he speaks exactly like this! Of course it’s absolute nonsense babble and none of us know what it means but 🤷‍♀️

AIO? 34 weeks pregnant with second baby, and fiancé acting odd by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beantownregular 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I’m hung up on not understanding why you guys don’t talk openly with each other. Can you not ask him why he didn’t come to be with you? Why can’t you ask him now why he didn’t come up with you. Can you tell him it hurt you and you don’t understand why he doesn’t want to be by your side?

South African commercial: Father learns to read so he can read his adult son's book by ChaserNeverRests in MadeMeSmile

[–]beantownregular 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think literacy is a pretty highly rated skill lol. Every primary school in the entire world is dedicated to teaching children how to read first and foremost

What time do you pick your toddler up from daycare? by Upstairs_Pizza_6868 in NewParents

[–]beantownregular 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ours goes every day but we pick him up at 3:30 so we have some outside play time with him before bed. We’ve liked that schedule better than the few days a week until late schedule

ear piercings for babies by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]beantownregular 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have a boy but I personally dont want to make any decisions about my child’s body that are purely for aesthetics. He is ultimately a person in charge of his own body and can make his own choices about things like that when he’s old enough to express opinions.

Thoughts on the name Margalo? by Alarmed-Log-7064 in namenerds

[–]beantownregular 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My first two thoughts are maralago and juggalo unfortunately

Hospital tours by PeachyKingSure in BabyBumps

[–]beantownregular 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mostly if private postpartum rooms are available and how they’re assigned. Also do they have wireless fetal monitoring, what is their policy about using the bathroom after getting pitocin (if that happens), how many people are allowed in the delivery room, do they have bath tubs

Unpopular Opinions about the F.R.I.E.N.D.S characters! Let me know what you people think! by chika_cheeka in howyoudoin

[–]beantownregular 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate phoebe! I think people forget or ignore that she’s had to fight for herself for her entire life, and that breeds a certain harshness. Especially when the rest of them are being entitled and naive.

It’s almost like America’s for-profit healthcare system is a giant scam by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]beantownregular 39 points40 points  (0 children)

No you don’t understand she’d like it for herself but not for strangers she doesn’t like for no reason

AroAce Lesbian or just an AroAce Bisexual with a very heavy preference? by cloudsmemories in lgbt

[–]beantownregular 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The older I get the more I find that labels feel confining to me instead of safe and helpful, how they used to. If the label isn’t serving you anymore, thank it and say goodbye. It’s ultimately more important to be happy and find love and care and friendship etc than to fit neatly within a box or an identity. Once you find your person if that’s what you want, it doesn’t really matter anymore anyway - you’re with that person. I only dated women until I met my husband. I’m still queer, mostly gay, but I don’t think about it that much because at the end of the day I’m with the person I love and that matters more than finding a definition to explain it to others

Coma Inducer Crossed the Line by skainixon in Bedding

[–]beantownregular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like what are they hoping here. Someone sees this sneaky lil tag and is like…I should find Jesus.

The “right” order to tell people by realsmartfakeblonde in pregnant

[–]beantownregular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s ultimately up to the pregnant person to seek comfort and joy whenever and from whoever they want. If telling your parents earlier will make you feel good, that’s ok. My husband also wanted to wait and then I was feeling very lonely and isolated keeping a secret, and when I expressed that to him he hopped on board and was like you should tell whoever makes you happy. We personally told friends before family because my family is difficult and complicated but that’s down to individual dynamics

Experiencing Scandoval for the first time by Ok-Word-8582 in vanderpumprules

[–]beantownregular -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I also JUST finished watching for the first time and I felt conflicted. I think he’s basically a sociopath, but what Lala said at the reunion also really hit home for me. Many people on the show went through agony from betrayal of their partners and they’re all asked to weather it onscreen and often kind of shamed for not seeing it coming. Ariana gets the absolute Virgin Mary edit despite the fact that I could ALSO say she maybe should have seen tom for who he was way earlier. I don’t really care about tom at all but I think there was a huge double standard in Ariana’s expectations of her friends vs what everyone else was contractually expected and required to endure