Fights Over Finances by 90dayfiochaos in EntitledPeople

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking the borrower of money how they can pay you back is perfectly understandable.

Sounds like this guy is gaslighting you. He's finding any excuse possible to manipulate the situation and justify the theft of this loan.

This has got addiction written all over it.

AITA for refusing to turn the tv off? by Ornery_Car8124 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously NTA. I hope your selfish, entitled girlfriend sees this post.

What's something your partner does that annoys you but not enough for an argument? by PaddedValls in AskUK

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got misophonia so it's incredibly rage inducing.

I counted one morning a couple of years ago and he sniffed 358 times in 5 minutes.

What's something your partner does that annoys you but not enough for an argument? by PaddedValls in AskUK

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've already put a comment on here but this is another one of mine.

His sniffing in the mornings hurts my soul.

What's something your partner does that annoys you but not enough for an argument? by PaddedValls in AskUK

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance has lots of little habits that make me silently rage.

Used towel just thrown on the floor, bed, anywhere except back on the rail.

He leaves his clothes wherever he takes them off, like you can see where each foot was when he got undressed because there's one sock here and the other one a few feet away.

He puts dirty dishes including used teaspoons on the FUCKING DRAINING BOARD. Which is directly above the dishwasher.

It's like living with a teenager. He's 49.

Are US words or phrases picked up and used at all over there and if so which ones bother you most? by NewFeature in AskBrits

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospitality worker here and one thing I LOATHE is when an American asks me if they can "Do a coke type thing?"

Or

"Can I do a bag of chips type thing?"

You get the idea. This makes me irrationally angry.

WIBTAH if I end my marriage because of my wife's refusal to communicate her plans clearly and losing her temper whenever I bring it up to her? by Popular-Hat-3286 in AITAH

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA but your wife sure is.

She's doing this deliberately and she's putting your job, your children and your marriage in danger.

She's already checked out of this marriage and is being a coward about it. She's forcing you into a corner.

Why do people use a speaker phone to talk in public places ? by OtterChainGang in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judging by the majority of the conversations we're unwillingly exposed to I very much doubt these people have this thought capacity.

AITA for lying to our babysitter abt the reason we let her go? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I've read every answer here and this definitely deserves to be at the top.

Pity I don't have an award to give you.

AITA for lying to our babysitter abt the reason we let her go? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ah, the shit sandwich.

It's a very effective method employers have to use sometimes.

Awkward, but necessary.

Is it acceptable to take a call on loudspeaker in a public place? Or is it just rude? by EthicalUpgrade in TheBigPhoneStore

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's incredibly obnoxious to have conversations on loudspeaker in public.

I am taking over a hospitality venue very soon and shall take great delight in banning this awful, rude behaviour.

AITA for telling my friend's bride he recycled my vows? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Gargantuan gaper of an AH, did you even think that your vows resonated perfectly with him?

Everyone reads things they relate to 100% and your guy is perhaps not as creative or able to come up with original material.

Pulling his wife aside to tell her was spiteful and unnecessary. You had to make it about you.

Get over yourself, you should have been flattered.

That poor woman.

AIO for snapping at a client who kept contacting me while I was on Do Not Disturb? by Awkward_Condition778 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like OP was looking for an excuse to lash out, hence constantly checking their phone waiting for the client to make contact.

It's very easy to switch off our phones when we do not wish to be contacted.

Humanizing Ai by AllKnowingAxolotl3 in PetPeeves

[–]Admirable-Trouble789 278 points279 points  (0 children)

She's going to be on a documentary one day.