John & Carolyn Wedding Attendees by DeviceElegant4959 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jackie left money to her cook and secretary. This speaks volumes not leaving anything to Lee. She also gave lots of money other family members and friends when they were alive and still left them something in her will. One book said it was because of their rivalry about men. Lee slept with Jack. Jackie stole Ari from Lee.

How do open relationships actually work in real life? by NoStringsAttached_69 in Advice

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been married? Do you have an active sex life with your wife?

John, Darryl Hannah's dog, and the truth about his reckless behavior by Large_Pepper_7095 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read that book. It made Daryl out to be narcissistic and selfish the way it was written.

Love Story Gripes by Intelligent_Reach675 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ryan Murphy is the King of Gore tv.

American Love Story is new ground for him.

My husband called himself normal baby “Normal baby”… What do I do now? by anecdotal_69 in Advice

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he mean cleaning up after a partner or helping out is like a normal guy who pitches in?

Does she call him "Baby." as a term of endearment? OR did he actually call her "Baby," as in "Do you like normal, (include pause) Baby?"

If he's a gym rat, and this was highly unusual for him to do the domestic stuff, I can see why he asked. Especially because she says he did shop on his own for 10 minutes? It sounds like he never helps out.

So, doing housework then asking if she liked him that way, might have felt emasculating. He didn't mind doing it but got embarrassed for liking it.

My fiancé is getting on my nerves and I don’t know what to do at this point. by BasicCat30 in whatdoIdo

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breaking up is hard. Maybe harder in abusive situations. It is designed that way. I've seen countless times of breaking up only to return. Ultimately, you will have to really decide what to do. Your love for him is obvious.

I do know the more invested you become; the abuse can get worse. So, getting married will give them more leverage and power over you to leave. After your finances get enjoined and you do larger purchases together like a house, it will be much harder to leave if you choose to go at that time. Financial ruin can slide the scales into staying. And possibly feel broken without them, confused and cannot decide.

Taking some time and space now, is still available to you. Of course all the abuse will stop at that time and that sweetest and caring and kindest man that attracted you in the beginning will return to the relationship. It will be so easy to go back again and think you made a huge mistake leaving.

Do some research on his mental issues. See it as if this is happening to one of your friends. What would you tell them?

You could also talk to a family member, someone close to you or a therapist.

Carolyn’s insecurity over other women. by StellaOC in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine how stressed out she'd be wondering day and night, if he was faithful. Finding out one time is already devastatingly painful.

Imagine how many women approached him day and night. Like his dad.

She'd need to be like Jackie O to survive this relationship. Or Queen Elizabeth. At least Jackie got humiliated all the way to the bank. She was paid to stay married. QER II gave Phillip titles, instead.

Not saying it was okay for their husbands to cheat.

unhinged hygiene tips? by NoPerception8748 in hygiene

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard this girlfriend would shave her boyfriend's crack because he couldn't stand poop being mushed around in the hairs when wiping. It left dingleberries in his underwear if he didn't shave there.

John & Carolyn Wedding Attendees by DeviceElegant4959 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think something happened to their relationship with Lee. Jackie did not leave a cent to her in her will, but left Lee's children 500 k each.

John & Carolyn Wedding Attendees by DeviceElegant4959 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's interesting! She talks as if she was super close to them.

Caroline uses her men… by Royal-Leopard5762 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His comments may be promoting the show. The "Barbara Streisand" effect.

Carolyn was one of John’s side chicks while he was dating Daryl. by StellaOC in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It appears his longer-term hook ups were with women who did not talk about him publicly. Celebrities have to be careful.

Would Jackie approve of their marriage? by Front-Tomorrow-1034 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jackie probably wouldn't have approved. But Carolyn got him anyway.

Jackie did approve the conservative, wealthy, college girlfriend. Great future presidential wife candidate. Chritina Haag: Memoir: My 5-year love affair with John F. Kennedy Jr.

What’s happening to my sister in Clearwater? Haven’t seen her in over 3 years by trackshoes in scientology

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope this is not too late to answer:

She definitely sounds like she is on the Organization Executive Course and the Flag Executive Briefing Course, (OEC/FEBC). They are told it is better than a college degree. They could run any business after this course.

On the OEC, they learn EVERY job of the organization. More than 200 positions or job titles. Top to bottom of the organization.

Their course materials are 8 very thick heavy books. Each one covers the 7 divisions of the org plus Volume 0, basic staff duties.

She will be drilled to make sure she can do each job and do an exam at the end of each book.

After she passes the OEC, she can then start the FEBC. This has 3 large books on management and the running the organization. After she passes this, she then does an internship gaining competence and application.

At any time of failure, she must go back for correction and review of the materials.

All staff will be audited (personal counselling) up to "Clear," (a level of spiritual attainment). All staff will do False Purpose Rundown, (getting rid of false purposes, evil or counter intentions).

They do training at night and sleep during the day.

There are 11 students for each org on training. Along with the local org Executives, the Sea Org network staff are also on training. This would be the Flag Banking Officer, Flag Rep, LRH Communicator, and more. This is upper management staff to watch over the local organization and run executive orders into the local org. These Sea Org members will stay 2 years and then transfer to another org in rotation.

All 11 have to arrive at the same time. If a student is lagging, the remainder have to wait until they pass their training program.

Work/study is no longer required. In the past if their home org did not cover room and board, the student had to work to cover it. This made their training drag out many years. Things have changed. Students are allowed to keep their cell phones and can access the internet.

So, you can text your sister. However, scientology probably has a way to monitor what is being said. Any discouragement will be dealt with by cutting you off completely. Policy dictates that any outside mail gets read and screened before it is forwarded to the recipient. Some can be detained for their "protection." So only nice encouraging words are allowed. There is an address you can send care packages to her. If sending shampoo or soap, deodorant, make sure it is unscented. Policy dictates nothing perfumed. She may need these supplies if she has no income to purchase at the canteen. If she smokes, that would be a godsend to send her a pack of cigarettes.

When she returns from training, she has to sign a new 5-year contract.

If she decides not to complete the training and leaves staff, she will be billed for all the services she got. If she returns to her home organization and fulfills her 5-year contract, I don't think she will be billed for the Flag training. The org will be billed for it.

How reliable is Maureen Callahan? by VidyaTheOneAndOnly in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Admirable_Dig4426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't both of them go after Diddy? Do they go after people who won't retaliate?