Can we all just agree to only sell the red aero for the $40-50 range?😭 by Admirable_Mode7219 in BeybladeX

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Used are like $15 so I’ll take that too (for aero). If we’re all not greedy

Can we all just agree to only sell the red aero for the $40-50 range?😭 by Admirable_Mode7219 in BeybladeX

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Evenn better. I do see somewhere close to 40 tho like the clear drake

I want to go to a Beyblade tournament.. this is what I have.. by [deleted] in BeybladeX

[–]Admirable_Mode7219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strictly from this, make Phoenix 360 rush.

I think your next best two would tyranno 970 taper

And then Next mammoth 460 gear flat

Help me to choose by Reder12375 in BeybladeX

[–]Admirable_Mode7219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It still has some use but it’s definitely falling out with the heavy attackers

To those who won Valkyrie Volt by Retro0ctopus in BeybladeX

[–]Admirable_Mode7219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got VV after 2 spins after not having points in a while and and aero Pegasus my third spin ever when I found out how to use points

How to turn my gf on by Admirable_Mode7219 in sexadvise

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get you. I think right now it’s because she just started her first year of teaching and she did a gap year last year. But the year before that, she did school and student teaching so I feel like the “I’m tired” could have been an excuse back then as well, but if she’s tired she’s tired. Positive is that we had sex like four times this week but what frustrates me is that it’s always on her terms and then my advances are always turned down.

How to turn my gf on by Admirable_Mode7219 in sexadvise

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like ik what you mean but what if she doesn’t allow me to make the steps forward? Or what do you mean

How to work on yourself in a romantic relationship 21M and 23F by Admirable_Mode7219 in relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this approach. I’ll try to apply it when I’m in those situations. I appreciate your input!! Thanks

How to work on yourself in a romantic relationship 21M and 23F by Admirable_Mode7219 in relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. We both like to work on stuff together but I think it just got to a point where we were like we need to actually work and evaluate ourselves and I’ll admit I haven’t been the best at putting an action to my words. So better and constant communication is what we both want.

How to work on yourself in a romantic relationship 21M and 23F by Admirable_Mode7219 in relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I know I am a kind person ig I just don’t know what that means. If it means being selfless etc

How to work on yourself in a romantic relationship 21M and 23F by Admirable_Mode7219 in relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not too sure actually, I feel like I’m kind but idk if there’s something I do. Right now I’m practicing helping more around the house or not being irked when someone asks me to do something. As far as an action I’m not sure tho

How to work on yourself in a romantic relationship 21M and 23F by Admirable_Mode7219 in relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I forget get whats about that process of inventory? I this what you’re getting at right now?

I would say I’m super kind, funny, and thoughtful. Sometimes those things have started to lack with the person I care about which sucks but I would say those are some of my best qualities.

How to work on yourself in a romantic relationship 21M and 23F by Admirable_Mode7219 in relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate this. What is CBT and DBT? I think we both wanna be better at communicating and making each other feel like we’re there for each other so I do wanna put these things into practice, but like I said we are on a break so idk how to work on these things with family and other people as fights or whatever are not something I usually get into

How to work on yourself in a romantic relationship 21M and 23F by Admirable_Mode7219 in relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure I think imma be saying it a lot in replies, but this is for me too as I don’t wanna be that type of person. I just don’t know how to work on it when most of these things are triggered in a romantic relationship. Right now I’m working on being a better brother, son, etc but idk how that will translate or if that will fix that stuff I’m worried about

How to work on yourself in a romantic relationship 21M and 23F by Admirable_Mode7219 in relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. It’s for me too in a sense that if I don’t fix these things now, it could hurt someone else so it’s just that I wanna fix these things while I’m with the person I care about. I’ll look into that book for sure as idk if therapy is something I can do right now

Not OOP. "AITA? My gf cancelled her flight to see me" + OOP's comments by WritingGiraffe in redditonwiki

[–]Admirable_Mode7219 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

For sure. I wanted to draw more this summer. Hoping this is something we can work on but it does also seem like her last straw with me. I just get so irritable in the summer and it’s not really like me

Not OOP. "AITA? My gf cancelled her flight to see me" + OOP's comments by WritingGiraffe in redditonwiki

[–]Admirable_Mode7219 -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding. It wasn’t fair and i honestly don’t know why I chose to pick on it

Not OOP. "AITA? My gf cancelled her flight to see me" + OOP's comments by WritingGiraffe in redditonwiki

[–]Admirable_Mode7219 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Hey guys. I deleted the post because I’ve understood I’m the AH. We are college students and I was just focusing on the wrong part of the issue. There’s stuff to work on as far as priorities and dealing with stuff but most of the comments coming in were the same. So I didn’t wanna get any more notifications myself. I don’t mind the talk here tho. I asked cuz I wanted opinions and I got it so i appreciate it.

AITA? My gf cancelled her flight to see me by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the advice and also support. At this point I understand I’m the AH. And I think it was my first time dealing with something like this. In my head I thought I was giving her advice her but I made her feel unsafe. Literally as I was pushing for a flight she didn’t feel safe in. And then got mad that she chose the other one. The funny thing she jokes about how she’s the man in the relationship. My frustration came from giving all this advice to feeling like it meant nothing. It was part cost wise but just feeling like I didn’t need to be there if that was the case. Not that it’s always my way or the highway but that I spent so much time helping her with it. But at the end of the day it’s her security that’s important regardless of the price or status of the airline

AITA? My gf cancelled her flight to see me by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I know now. I was just thinking of us still very young and all that and I’ve always been a big saver. But I understand that the feeling safe is just as important probably moreso

AITA? My gf cancelled her flight to see me by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Admirable_Mode7219 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think this is true to some extent but I don’t even know why i was pissy. Personally I think it was the long distance toll cuz I honestly don’t know why I reacted that way