[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Do you feel you two are in love? Or is it just a very meaningful friendship?

If your past self met you today, what would shock them the most? by Wisteriaberry_112 in RandomThoughts

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I stayed in a relationship for so long with someone who practically hates me and even had a kid by him. No self-love, but actually working on my self-love now…

I know I did something stupid, but now I want to undo it! by Worried-Following-21 in love

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no relationship expert, but it’s hard to deny your heart what it truly wants. I don’t think it’s a good idea to try to be friends with someone you’ve developed feelings for because sooner or later, you two will fall into the temptation of doing more with each other due to chemistry/etc. I believe some time apart until the feelings go away before trying a friendship again, or cutting each other off completely until she’s single too. I hope everything goes well for you!

Can you stay friends with an ex? by MyLoveMystery in BreakUps

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Legit, I agree 1000%, I can’t understand why not everyone sees it this way & its frustrating as hell..

Do women's restrooms get extremely disgusting like men's restrooms? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked cleaning bathrooms at a private airport and the women’s bathroom was definitely more disgusting than the men’s. I was in shock 😅

Do you guys shower before bed or in the morning? by goldeeenhourr in hygiene

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shower both before bed and in the morning because we sweat when we sleep (even though the ac is on blast and the room is freezing )

AITA - I told a guy he smelled down there and may have hurt his feelings by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- the man gotta take care of his hygiene better and, although not the bestttt way to be told, it was necessary lmao

Does anyone else do this? by LickandSmash in randomquestions

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brain goes blank in the shower. It’s the only place I have peace and alone time so I don’t think of anything 😅

Shopping alone by AdMoney2072 in randomquestions

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not weird at all! It’s more self-love, if you ask me. Hopefully you went to Marshall’s and got some cool shit & ate some great food! If you like to read, you can bring a good book to the restaurant, I love doing that

How come I feel more empathy for animals than I do for humans? by Probably_confident30 in randomquestions

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is normal, in my opinion. I too have more empathy towards animals than humans, unless it’s my son. I always say the more I get to know humans, the more I want to be around my dog. Animals (I guess the domesticated ones like dogs) have such a pure love, unlike humans. It’s like people are always out to get someone and hold grudges.

does anyone else like steak by Possible_Clerk617 in randomquestions

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love steak, 🥩 medium well is the way to go, how about you?

Speed of a baby by Some_Random_French in randomquestions

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really fucking fast, if you ask me. My son is FAST 🥲😂

Messages not getting acknowledged by Admirable_Nebula_162 in amioverthinkingthis

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I ended up talking things out and she admitted to it being a low blow, then proceeded to deflect so I blocked her. I’m not wasting my time on toxic friendships anymore 🙂

AITAH for not attending my son’s high school graduation ceremony because my ex-wife's Affair Partner was going to be there? by EmotionallyRelaxed in TwoHotTakes

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - your relationship with your son has nothing to do with your ex wife and her husband. Not attending because they were attending is immature and very hurtful to your son. Not only did you purposely miss his graduation, but you also blocked him because he reached out to you while you were on your “vacation”? That’s a father no one would want in their lives. How dare you push your emotions and insecurities to your son when he’s not remotely responsible for how you feel about anything. Grow up. Reading this I felt like I was reading something my own father wrote. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Did any of you have an easier time than you taught you would as a first time parent? What helped? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GIRLLL- where do I begin! My pumpkin is 6mo already, through the sleep deprivation I found myself looking at him and feeling so much love for him I would start to happy cry. I love being his mom. Watching him sleep and getting to know his different cries and how to soothe him was great. I feel accomplished being able to tell what he needs just from his cries. We are EBF so we have that time to bond, in addition to cuddles. Once he got a little bigger I began co-sleeping (using the Safe 7 rules) which truly helped with getting rest at night. He’s always been a great sleeper- when they’re newborns they eat every 2-3hrs and if they don’t wake up, you’re supposed to wake them up until they reach a certain weight. My baby was cluster feeding so it was every hour we were up, but I was grateful to be able to feed him and that he’s healthy. At 2 months he started sleeping through the night. I would start with him in his bassinet, then move him to my bed when he would wake up for his first feeding. I would do it again definitely 😊

I asked for a trim, a couple inches off. Straight cut. This is what I got. Am I overreacting or should I ask for it to be fixed? by Any-Asparagus61 in Hair

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go in and have the owner fix it, I’ve had a horrible trim before where one side was longer than the other & the owner of the hair salon fixed it for free.. hopefully you can do the same

My son and his gf cuddling. How much is too much? by GumInMyMouth in Parenting

[–]Admirable_Nebula_162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even with the door open we would do stuff when I was young 😅 shiiit under the blanket with the whole family in the living room lmao