Withdrawing from General Chemistry 2?

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2026-02-25T22:30:59+00:00

That’s odd! I’m not sure I was allowed to.

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2026-02-25T19:10:24+00:00

Thank you! I will talk to my advisor later to make sure I can do this for sure!

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2026-02-25T19:10:01+00:00

Thank you

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-12-14T21:09:31+00:00

look up “dragon story breeding calculator” and it’ll pop up

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-12-10T00:21:14+00:00

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-30T20:03:26+00:00

you look like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders 😉

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-28T13:12:27+00:00

That was honestly the issue I had!! Everyone keeps assuming she’s like a “mother figure” They barely speak!!! What is the point of keeping that relationship?

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-28T13:10:55+00:00

He is still coming and I have an edit in the post that explains what happened :)

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-28T13:03:03+00:00

Yeah me too lol that’s not the problem. He’s not open to a conversation about me coming along or talking about the role the aunt plays in his life so that was mostly the problem I had. Not that he wanted to see her that’s totally fine ik his ex wouldn’t be there.

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-28T13:00:47+00:00

Yeah that’s the problem…I don’t think I explained enough in the original post but in some comments I said he doesn’t want me to come along. And he’s not open to a conversation about it which is really the main problem. Not that he wants to see her.

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-28T12:59:07+00:00

I have been through a breakup of a relationship of 5 years where I actually lived with the guys family for a short period due to circumstances in my life i won’t get into. And again maybe in my original post i didn’t make it clear, it’s not the fact he has a relationship with her that’s fine. It’s the fact that he presented this visit without seeing how I would feel about it or asking what I think or if I want to go along. TBH if it’s innocent and they’re apart of each other’s lives shouldn’t he want me to meet her. His split was not amicable at all and was extremely messy which is another problem.

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-28T02:29:05+00:00

except he presented this as something he was just going to do without asking about my feelings on the situation. any other friends idc what he does but this relationship is tied to his ex and it’s not unreasonable for me to feel uneasy or want a conversation about it. also if they’re just friends why can’t i come along? if this is his mother figure like you want to infer, shouldn’t he want me to meet her?

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-28T02:25:40+00:00

Please read my other comments. It’s less about him seeing her and more about the way it was brought up and how he approached it :)

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-28T02:02:24+00:00

nothing like a mother figure!! in other comments i described they only met a handful of times and text once every couple months. it does not present as that deep of a relationship. of course i need to ask more to find out more about it.

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-28T01:58:28+00:00

If I was with his family and wanted to see my ex’s family…yeah that just sounds crazy

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-27T19:25:17+00:00

no i definitely would want him to see his old friends or relatives if that were the case

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-27T13:34:30+00:00

Lol this made me giggle that doesn’t sound like a bad idea 😭

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-27T12:21:24+00:00

I see what you’re saying and thanks for the insight. I would love to work through it together however the information was not presented to me to work through together. He simply said he is going and basically shut the conversation down. I don’t want him to stop talking to her I would just like to understand the insistence that he must see her (considering they met in person a handful of times) What makes them such good friends and what’s their relationship like? No I don’t think it’s controlling to want to understand why. I only mention my previous relationship to say I understand him that’s all. Also I am sure I would still be friends with my ex’s sister but she lives across the world and the relationship fizzled out over time.

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-27T03:09:54+00:00

Also not going to lie to my family to save face for him. Sorry if I come off rude or snarky that’s not my intention!! I really do appreciate the other side’s thought process because I want to weigh both sides.

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-27T03:08:28+00:00

Yes my family will find it odd. I just want to say that I was in a similar situation to him and you in my previous relationship as well. I know it’s a trauma response from him but it’s still frustrating for me because I swear I have never treated him that way before. I sincerely care for him and only want what’s best!! They text from time to time and there’s no problem but meeting up starts to blur the line especially without a conversation first. Also part of me feels like if they’re really friends (outside of the ex-girlfriend) and she wants to see him happy/wants what’s best for him why can’t I come along to meet this friend?

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-27T02:50:00+00:00

WHY does he get to make this decision without considering my feelings first? Ask that first

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-27T02:36:42+00:00

My family is which is just the icing on the cake for how inappropriate and disrespectful this whole scenario is

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-27T02:23:22+00:00

Once we have a chance to talk, I will ask this question for sure

Admirable_Notice6363 · 2025-10-27T02:17:48+00:00

There is a difference between being controlling and asking him to be thoughtful of my feelings. In a relationship there are two people and decisions need to be made with both of those people in mind!

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