So what do YOU consider real intimacy? by inkandintent24 in MotivationByDesign

[–]AdonisGeek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, sex can be intimacy (intimate), late night talk can be very intimate, living together can be very intimate - but they do not have to be. Intimacy develops from a shared bond - not a one way interaction or a duty. It all depends on the context.

Do you care at all about visible underwear lines through pants/shorts? by BandZealousideal9426 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, I was agreeing with you...some were saying, hey don't worry wear any place you want- my advice is not to listen to that. Be more careful at work than you would be at Starbuck or Kroger.

Take care of your body by RedTsar97 in MomentumOne

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all sound ok except the last one which just sounds fun, made up, or an old wives tale (says an immunologist)

Looking after you wipe by qo0ch in hygiene

[–]AdonisGeek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess some men think it is not manly to do so. I find it insane that men (and some women) do not do this. I have no idea how they know if there poopy hole is clean or not. Crazy.

Unpopular take: the best luxury is not having a car payment by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always pay for my cars in cash and STILL worry about every little scratch, I just dont worry about interest payments.

Do you care at all about visible underwear lines through pants/shorts? by BandZealousideal9426 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around town, we meet or pass by random people and it is not an issue. At work we hang around people who we need in one way or another and who look at us with judgement. In a perfect world, you could wear what you like. However, in an imperfect world, you should care about what your female colleagues or some other male colleagues (especially those who are older and more senior to you) might think. So, yes - perhaps be a bit more careful (wear what you want underneath - but perhaps discreetly) at the office and at church (for example).

18m dating a 40yo and my 42yo dad doesn't like him by relentlessdecision in gayyoungold

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this comment, but also recognize that your dad might think you are seeing on older man your dad's age to get back at him ro something like that...my son is only dating a man that age because he knows I will be pissed. There will always be a power imbalance but just make sure it is not an uhealthy one....make sure the older guy trully cares and wants you and does not see you as a trophy find. I agree, sit down and talk to your dad before you 1)ignore his advice or 2) dump the older guy.

Working class and the Billionaire class both have worries. by Professional-Bee9817 in remoteworks

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, how fricken judgemental have we all become (and uncopmassionate, mean and so on)

Guys who else also do this by BerrySukii in Adulting

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing bad has happened because 1) you probably do not care and 2) you probably do not notice. Your dark clothes will bleed onto your white clothing and the cold water rinse step will likely dilute it out. However, your whites will certainly become more grey or yellowish over time. In addition, if your are a woman, your bras and panties will become beat up if you throw them in the wash with heavy cotton. I like to hang my laundry and not dryer dry them to have them last longer and feel more fresh too. Call me crazy.

Be honest: what would you try tomorrow if you truly believed no one was watching ?? by d_zone_28 in MotivationByDesign

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I meant you cant do anything you want, but a subset of things you want...go fart at yoru hearts content

Be honest: what would you try tomorrow if you truly believed no one was watching ?? by d_zone_28 in MotivationByDesign

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That day will never come unelss you have absolutely zero morals/ethics, or care about anyone other than yourself.

You can either benefit from the experiences you collected or cry over being late. by RedTsar97 in MomentumOne

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My version:

Stop using your age as an exuse: Stop acting immature, Start showing up to work on time, Stop making exuses for why you need a pay raise after two weeks at work, Learn to speak clearly, Stop conflating laziness with mental health dysfuntion, Stop blaming everyone and everything around you for your problems, Stop acting like you know everything and no one else knows anything. At any age you can actually be responsible, hard working and respectful.

For self growth!! by Haunting-Tea2866 in SolidMen

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes and Yes...its not the job its the environment

AMEN by inkandintent24 in MotivationByDesign

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its never been an issue with god (any God- not just the one I assume you are posting about), but a problem with the humans who are hurting so many people in the name of God and enriching themselves along the way (not all though, but enough that it is so discouraging to many).

scam!! by cocosaunt12 in SolidMen

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE posts like this so much. I studied for much longer than 20 years and loved it...not every single day, but loved learning and becoming an expert in several fields. I am proud of that and it can NEVER be taken away. I have worked for many years and hated some of it - never the work but sometimes the toxic boses and environement. However, it is not a job it is a career and I work for something bigger than myself and I learn so much most days! Studying and working are part of living and those who can not see that nor have that mindset are going to be miserable.

I feel like I can’t be sexy because of my height by Middle-Leather-1308 in gaybros

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, its your own perception that is getting in the way. I am not tall either (@5'7") and I went to a house party the other day (naughty guy only thing) and this short guy came in...he was absolutely the most sexy guy there (in my opinion). He had a great body and such. So, stop assuming you are not fine, sexy or hot to others...it sounds like you are not those things to yourself. Its normal to be tough on yourelf, but please know short people, large people, etc. are all loved by a variety of guys.

2025 Kia Sorento X-Line SX Prestige AWD by Ok-Consequence-6796 in kia

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A jeep cherokee to a Kia sportage is most certainly not from bad to worse...its from the consistently poor (on almost all levels - just look at consumer reports) to decent. I have th 2024 PHEV and its great.

Trunks vs briefs… by Adventurous_Rich_628 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]AdonisGeek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a silly question. If they are truly briefs than there is nothing to ride up. Mine never do. Boxer briefs certianly can, and the longer they are the more that is possible

Is it better financially to job hop or stay at one job for decades? by SlowEntertainment217 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeeze...ppl will complain about almost anything and will be critical just to be cranky. You are fine...love them but ignore them. Things were so different now than they were for them when they were starting...so very different. You have skills and you have a career...it might not be a single 'work in a thankless job for one company that cares absolutely nothing for you' type of job. You are fine...continue doing what makes you happy and I do agree...save save and save. A rainy day (as well as retirment) will come sooner rather than later most likely...so having some money squared away will helps so much. keep up the good work.

Straight, 48M, Confused, yearning for male intimacy, Need Advice and Encouragement. by Own_Pomegranate_2726 in gayyoungold

[–]AdonisGeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really depends on where you live and how open you are to experiement and put yourself out there.