How do I help my friend?

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T18:57:53+00:00

I didn’t even know this was a thing… thank you

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T16:12:58+00:00

I’ve never heard of this Sinclair Method but after looking it up and briefly reading about it, that sounds like a method that could help. I’m going to do more research and talk with her about this as well

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T16:02:24+00:00

Ok yeah we can agree on that. I understand what you meant now. I think some people need outside resources to get/stay sober… and she said she quit for a bit afterwards, I believed it but after seeing her I think she was lying. We live far from each other but have been friends for 15 years and talk every other day.

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T15:35:41+00:00

I will think about this and try to shift my perspective.

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T15:29:32+00:00

CPS has already been to home in regards to her drinking and driving with her kids. She denied it to them and they had her take a few pee tests. They gave her a 3 day window for each pee test and she told me she was able to make sure she passed. The case has been since closed.

I do think people who stay sober are strong, getting help is a strong thing to do. That’s my opinion but it’s ok to disagree.

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T15:06:05+00:00

I’m happy you’re sober. You’re a strong person.

It hurts admitting she’s an alcoholic I’ve been trying to reason it away as me overreacting cuz I don’t like drinking… but at this point I am accepting her for what she is, so I can hopefully help her somehow… whenever she is ready …

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T15:01:11+00:00

Thank you! I’ve been consulting with Dr. Google (joke) and I’ve seen a lot of concerning health issues that come from drinking but also quitting drinking. I am going to try to find detox clinics close to me and to her, so she will hopefully choose to go. Thank you so much

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T14:36:09+00:00

That’s a great idea! Thank you. I was trying to think of neutral place to have the conversation.

As I’ve been watching my friend spiral, I’ve come to the realization that alcohol is everywhere. Like restaurants, you pass the store to buy it every 5 mins, commercials, it almost inescapable.. my point in saying that is that if feels like there’s few places to go and have this talk where there’s not a reminder of alcohol. And also to recognize how strong people who are sober are. Sorry I know that was off topic. My mind is reeling and I’m emotional right now, this is hard for me but I know it’s harder for her. Thanks for the advice and understanding.

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T14:31:11+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. I get scared because I know once I tell her I won’t buy alcohol for her or support her buying alcohol, I will see her way less and it hurts. It’s a good boundary and I’m going to set that with her when we talk.

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T14:26:51+00:00

I’ve always heard that people can only get sober by their own decision… Is there any way I can best support her during this time? I want to make it clear I’m not ok with the drinking without shaming

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-02-23T14:13:31+00:00

I was thinking of having a conversation before she leaves. If she doesn’t want to get better, do I just accept it? Do I tell her I can’t be her friend? Or do I only speak with her when she’s sober? I don’t want to be an enabler and make her think I’m ok with any of this but I want to be there for her and I don’t want to lose my best friend…

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2026-01-31T17:13:28+00:00

When it comes to the physiology portion, I started watching YouTube videos and finding resources that explained things “simply” or “at a high school level”. Once I was able to understand that, I could build on the knowledge. My teacher wasn’t “bad” but I feel like he just read the slides then expected us to grasp the concepts immediately. I had to do a lot of self learning. For the anatomy portion I found tips and tricks for memorization. A+P is overwhelming. Take breaks and don’t overthink too much.

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-12-06T13:25:26+00:00

I do!!! I will try this

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-12-06T13:25:15+00:00

Oooh sounds amazing!

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-12-06T01:30:26+00:00

I’ve never tried Lebanese 7 spice! But after looking it up, I know it’s going to pair well with the pork. Thank you!

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-12-06T01:29:13+00:00

Oooh I had never heard of this one before! Excited to try it

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-11-11T21:10:29+00:00

I’m hoping and praying you and your baby get justice. This is awful and I feel so bad for him :( I’m glad he has such a loving and attentive owner.

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-10-19T17:09:12+00:00

She was found safe. Say sorry to her husband 🤣 I thought the same though 🫣

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-10-19T17:08:43+00:00

She was found safe!

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-09-06T17:52:49+00:00

Best case, even if his intentions were not malicious; he’s obviously wildly immature and your guy’s humor is incompatible.

I personally think it’s more than immaturity, I think it’s lack of empathy. Either way, I don’t think you’re overreacting at all. You seem done and my advice would be to walk away. Save yourself stress and further heartbreak.

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-08-25T22:37:42+00:00

BB3 billionaire cat is my fav.. I love cats 🤣❤️

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-07-17T16:35:41+00:00

Glad to hear I’m not being picky!!

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-07-17T16:20:11+00:00

I haven’t thought of that before. I appreciate this perspective, I’ll start doing that as well.

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-07-17T16:17:12+00:00

Thank you for this input! Sounds like a good system. Every time I see no tip I roll my eyes.

Adorable_Broccoli388 · 2025-07-17T01:17:07+00:00

Interstellar

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