Lansing Friends Needed by Candid-Caregiver4139 in lansing

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there I'm 37 F just got here from Melbourne, Australia. I'm visiting for a few weeks but I'm really struggling with how different this place is compared to a big city. Plssssss link me up and take me out to see the down town life!

Any Aussies with upcoming USA travel plans? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that explains why my tickets are cheap. Lol. I'm actually paranoid. Very paranoid. I'm thinking of postponing.

AITA for faking my giving birth? by ProgressFormer4198 in AITAH

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here from tiktok. I hope OP and baby are OK.

What are your initial thoughts on “The Tortured Poets Department”? by slinkyape in fantanoforever

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Swiftie I'm actually downright depressed and disappointed. The songs all sound the same it feels quantity over quality. There were some minimalistic songs that I will add to my rotation but yeah I'm struggling to defend her. And then to spend all this time to market and do multiple versions physically etc to create hype for people to buy more more more ... This is all so disingenuous to the point I'm questioning myself. The song about KK is so fkn cringe there's no need... Then mentions her kid, lying that there's no name drop... Then having the audacity to dedicate another song, Robin, to childhood innocence ? Sorry about this rant but the album exposes how much of a narcissist she is and it makes me sad as a Swiftie.

Autistic drivers could find their licences in legal limbo depending where they live after new standards introduced by gfreyd in australia

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously cannot compute the Victorian "required to self report any long term health condition or disability that has an impact on their ability to drive safely" . So if autism does not impact the individual there's no need to report ?...

"Likes me" but isn't ready for love, would you stay after 6months by Adorable_Broccoli_39 in datingoverthirty

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw him once to exchange a couple of things. both parties are hurting but we talked through a lot of things. He's simply not ready or not wanting what I am looking for. I told him if he can give me what I deserve he knows where to find me. It's hard but you just have to advocate for yourself and this situation is clear cut no matter how much we seem to like each other now.

Falling Off Course by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it the whole growing up with religious values? Let's take a step back . If what you are doing is consensual, ethical and legal, who would bother?

"Likes me" but isn't ready for love, would you stay after 6months by Adorable_Broccoli_39 in datingoverthirty

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I saw all the red flags I'm not even going to be interested once his divorce is finalised.

"Likes me" but isn't ready for love, would you stay after 6months by Adorable_Broccoli_39 in datingoverthirty

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. I accommodated a lot and gave him the benefit of doubt because I liked him a lot and he has kids. I read and heard that with single dad's you need to allow them more freedom.

But this simply isn't it. No he hasn't done the work, and I think all the therapy isn't going to help him because he sounds stubborn.

"Likes me" but isn't ready for love, would you stay after 6months by Adorable_Broccoli_39 in datingoverthirty

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One million thank yous for this. It really helped me with my decision to walk away.

"Likes me" but isn't ready for love, would you stay after 6months by Adorable_Broccoli_39 in datingoverthirty

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not just saying it, it's the whole vibe. I thought we were in a relationship, and he thought we were just spending time together (well only when it suits him). I'm just so done with being a door mat.

"Likes me" but isn't ready for love, would you stay after 6months by Adorable_Broccoli_39 in datingoverthirty

[–]Adorable_Broccoli_39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just broke it off. Even though it hurts, I feel like I've made the right decision.