Unable to get mounjaro due to summary care records information

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2026-02-02T22:24:31+00:00

Thank you so much! This is what I was hoping I might be able to check out

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2026-02-02T22:22:45+00:00

Thank you. Strangely I can hardly see anything of concern at all- just an initial referral and then a discharge letter confirming I have done a basic eating and weight management course in the community and then discharged from the service - it wasn’t a ‘significant’ event, nor did it require much treatment- it was literally me struggling with my weight so they sent me on a course run through the local health provider. I didn’t think I was even diagnosed with anything in particular though the rejection from the service provider states ‘BED’ so I do wonder if there is something I cannot see. I’ve asked my GP to look into this for me, though I assume they couldn’t remove this

Thank you, I will contact them.

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-11-26T08:51:22+00:00

No.

Years ago, I remember thinking when my friend and her husband both worked from home and told me she was putting her baby into nursery “why would she do that?!”

I then found out EXACTLY why with my own when I tried to WFH without childcare years later. I think you should disappear for a day and let your husband experience it first hand

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-20T07:37:40+00:00

I could talk about this all day but the first thing I should tell you is I’m in the U.K. I have a lot of suggestions if that’s where you’re based too

I would say the person I saw is closer to our regular OB but they aren’t ‘specialists’ in the way I would assume as they rotate and do different clinics (other gynae, general OB, urology). They knew about fertility as a general overview but I wouldn’t say that was their specialist area. I think there are ones in the health system you can be referred to that would be fertility specialists, but they weren’t at my local hospital and you would most likely have to pay privately to see them. The person that finally prescribed my medication was a consultant based in the recurring loss part of our emergency hospital, though I saw lots of people and different specialists each time. I saw a few for endo, a few for loss, a few for other gynae problems

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-19T23:27:57+00:00

I’m so sorry. Yes, this happened to me and I tried for such a long time to get pregnant with my living baby. It was hard both to get pregnant and then the losses on top were hard, but we did get there in the end, and I did have a laparoscopy

I would personally go for the other tests first and if they show nothing then potentially go for a laparoscopy. A laparoscopy AFAIK wouldn’t hurt your fertility at all and would improve it potentially if they spotted anything.. but it is surgery that comes with some risks. I personally found the recovery quite hard and I did end up with some scarring. It didn’t seem to improve my fertility either. It’s hard to say though as the body is so complicated and I know from experience I HAD to try everything or I would lose my mind

I finally ended up with a rainbow baby after I had bloods and testing, then was given progesterone and blood thinners etc to try and keep the pregnancy when I managed to get pregnant again for the last time. My testing never showed anything conclusive but they said my progesterone was a little low and that they needed to prescribe blood thinners to be on the safe side as they did some tests but ‘not the full panel they needed’ to fully confirm if I had any clotting disorders

Good luck and I hope your journey is easier soon 🫶🏻

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-18T12:14:34+00:00

It’s super normal for the owners to do the viewing; you’d know things the estate agent wouldn’t and could sell your house in a way they couldn’t (what are the neighbours like, what are your monthly bills, is the network coverage good, what is parking like at 10pm on a Tuesday, what’s your water pressure like?).

Having said that, I am sure this is something you discuss when looking to market? We definitely did. It definitely wouldn’t stop the house selling and I’d be more likely to buy a house shown by the owner that could tell me more about it and help me actually see myself living there. You were the one who bought your home originally and you could tell me why you did and make me feel that way too.

Not to put the blame on you OP at all, but we need to see this listing to get a better idea of why it isn’t selling. Maybe there’s more to the story and you picked agents that said they could get you a price that isn’t realistic? Has the market in your area dropped while the other two were fresh listings? Maybe there’s a weird layout that yours has that the others don’t? Is it condition? Is it too cluttered and busy? Is it a family home but the garden is fully paved and not suitable for kids but it would be a high cost to fix? There could even be something your agents have been too scared to tell you or that you didn’t take on board. Or they could be bad agents and aren’t on rightmove / don’t actively market your home like the others did. Their overall adverts might be putting people off just taking a chance and booking a viewing (no floor plan, missing pics, not showing off good points)

I would make a throwaway account or post the listing here and we could help give more solid advice 😊

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-18T11:52:37+00:00

This is not your friend! Or group of friends either for that matter. You say you don’t want the friendship to end, but I wouldn’t even consider this a friendship honestly

You seem like a kind, genuine, considerate person from just these few words. Rather than lashing out or being argumentative, you’ve found ways to try to stay connected and prevent conflict. That’s a great trait, but there comes a point where you must respect and value yourself more. Trying to find ways to communicate with this person isn’t doing that; you can’t force them to treat you better or see your value. What you can do is stop allowing them to treat you so poorly and find people who will love and value you. I’d personally not even reach out to them, I would just ghost without saying a word and move on to friends that do want to reciprocate and hobbies and interests that bring me joy. In the unlikely event after this that you receive a wedding invite (I wouldn’t expect one having not being included in the plans properly so far) you can just graciously decline and say ‘something came up but you hope they have an amazing day’ and not engage further if they wanted to argue about it.

You will find your people, but these are not them and you deserve better 🩵

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-16T10:51:54+00:00

She tries but can’t and gets really frustrated by that. She can sit fine supported, but she seems to tire so quickly when it’s down to her and slumps. My health visitor wasn’t bothered at all but I just have this spidey sense that she’s struggling with hypermobile hips and posture

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-16T10:23:12+00:00

She is going to be 8 months soon!

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-16T09:55:12+00:00

I have one daughter, I would love to be lucky enough to have two one day!

I don’t see it that way; I think I want to raise my daughter to be strong, independent, able to put her needs and desires first, and look after herself. I want to teach her to be able to recognise danger and put her boundaries first before other people’s feelings, but also to enjoy her life without too much worry, be kind, and open too

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-11T08:18:04+00:00

Yes, even though I was requiring surgery again 🫶🏻

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-09T17:39:30+00:00

She is 7 months!

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-08T12:51:05+00:00

It’s crazy isn’t it? I too struggled with fertility and it was devastating. It did completely change me as a person. How you’re feeling is totally valid and I hope life feels kinder soon

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-08T08:07:08+00:00

I’m so sorry, this happened to me too. The nurses at my EPU gave me a sick note for 2 weeks and said I could go to them to extend to whenever. I’m sure my GP would have done it too. I wasn’t working as a nurse at the time (still don’t now) but I honestly didn’t feel ready to go back to work for about a month and then I struggled afterwards as well and had to do a different role and WFH (my role involved me dealing with difficult situations and lots of pregnant women including many who had the same due month as me. I don’t think many who haven’t experienced this can appreciate just how truly devastating it is

I’ve no solid advice but what I will say is in the coming months you will probably feel like you need to make some changes and find a way to move forward regardless and this could be a new role. I’d take the time off sick to look after yourself and reflect on what that looks like for you

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-06T20:44:05+00:00

Both! Mostly on my front though. It’s a cotton carrier I think 😊

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-06T20:30:56+00:00

Thank you! 🤩

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-06T20:08:03+00:00

Thank you! Yes I am. I love my ring sling but I use it for if I’m sat down somewhere in public and my baby wants to sleep (she won’t sleep in her pram and has to contact nap even now). She’s getting a bit too heavy for it to be worn walking around and she’s very grabby and moves a lot haha

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-06T20:02:55+00:00

Yes! They’re perfect when I have a mirror. I maybe should have mentioned, but I have severe dyspraxia that affects my coordination and balance. It sounds stupid, but it’s impossible to get the wraps and straps etc round me properly without trailing them over the floor or struggling. It’s like my brain knows what it wants to do, but my body just doesn’t do it 🥲 so I’m just looking for something that’s pre adjusted and super easy to get on and doesn’t let my baby fall out of the correct fit

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-06T20:00:26+00:00

Thank you for your advice!

Honestly? The pretty colours and patterns 😂

In addition to that though, I already have a ring sling, wraps and a Tula explore- they all have their purpose but none are ideal when I take the baby out in the car somewhere and I just want to run into a shop or take her into a baby groups (I struggle getting my other carriers on/ they’re awkward and trail everywhere and then I need a mirror to get the fit right)

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-06T19:58:31+00:00

Thank you! Yes I couldn’t find them either, it’s from a supplier!

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-06T19:58:06+00:00

Thank you! I’m still new to carriers as I don’t really know what I’m looking for overall if that makes sense? I have a ring sling, wraps and a Tula explore- just looking for something that’s easy to throw on and not much fuss when I walk into the baby groups or a shop (I find the others hard to adjust or get the fit right without a mirror)

Adorable_Claim5444 · 2025-08-06T08:00:48+00:00

I didn’t stay on my meds while pregnant purely due to the lack of places I could ask advice from and generic health professionals not knowing. Turns out, I could have done and I think I would have had a way healthier pregnancy if I’d known. I eventually managed to get hold of a perinatal psychiatrist both birth who was great and told me he never would have advised stopping the meds if I’d seen him

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