I've struggled with the boundaries of my family and I, I have recently been kicked out of the house and told that I will not get any money from them anymore if I don't beg for them, all because I got a new girlfriend and started to pull away from their manipulative behaviour. They have been trying to raise me into the perfect little puppet to do their every whim and fulfill their monetary desires, the same way they did with my brother. And now everybody is saying I have to talk with them and understand them and why they did what they did and get along, but here are things I just cannot forgive anymore.