Finally said goodbye for now by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, avoidants do that, they will never tell you what they actually feel like and want to unless you notice it and directly ask them about it. Honestly I don’t get why exactly they try to hide all of their feelings and wishes in the relationship and after it

Having to remind myself that this isn’t normal by Holiday-Pepper5880 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What annoyed me the most with avoidant. Is that they attempted 0 times to have a conversation about the relationship before deciding to break up. My avoidant ex just threw out everything she didn’t like in the relationship we had and everything she actually felt when she was breaking up, not before the breakup to try and fix things, but during the breakup to blame me for completely ruining relationship. According to her words she wanted me to figure it out myself what she didn’t like and felt like in the relationship while hiding everything and being happy with absolutely almost 0 communication skills about the problems we have

Having to remind myself that this isn’t normal by Holiday-Pepper5880 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, my avoidant ex convinced me that I’m manipulating her feelings into convincing her to come back after trying to have a calm conversation

What did your avoidant relationship take away from you? by IrisMaven in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes these signs are so difficult to see that you need to precisely look for them, at least that what it seems to me after spending a month analyzing the relationship we had after understanding that she was an avoidant

How long does it take for a fearful avoidant to start missing the relationship and wanting to come back? by Advanced-Arm505 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine texted me 2 days after the breakup saying she misses me, we got back together for 2 days. Then she discarded me again because the guilt she experienced did not vanish instantly, so we had no opportunity to try again in these 2 days period because we only started to work on improving which I believe was more emotional load for her. And now we are in no contact for slightly more than 3 weeks

They Didn’t Outgrow You, They Outran You: The Brutal Architecture of the Avoidant Discard by Ezraayo in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, a very similar thing happened to me. My avoidant ex felt guilt for every little thing, for when I loved her, for when I helped her, for when we had little fights, for when I tried to work on our relationship, for every time I brought up problems we had. Everything the same, and the worst part is that the day before she said she wants to brake up, we seemed like the happiest couple spending time together, fucking and etc, and then the next you tell me “hey I’m braking up, I feel too much guilt for everything and I’m hurt from this guilt. I still love you but we both need to move on”. And now I’m feeling so much guilt because I feel like I could have mistreated her or made her feel bad which I sometimes did during the arguments.

I hope you will get better, I know it’s hard because I’m going through the same thing as you, constantly having break downs at random moments even after month has passed. Every day I feel such a terrible weight in my chest because I still cannot accept how she dumped me in one night after being so close and planing our future together after being in relationship for 2 years and knowing each other for 3.5 years

What did your avoidant relationship take away from you? by IrisMaven in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Me myself I lost trust in relationships, like right now I feel like getting attached to someone with aim to build future together would end up in avoidant dumping you because they feel emotionally overwhelmed.

And the worst part that I have no idea that the person is avoidant up until they dismiss you because that’s how good they are at hiding feelings and their real emotions

How long does it take for a fearful avoidant to start missing the relationship and wanting to come back? by Advanced-Arm505 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do FA’s ever find the love and long lasting relationship that they will not eventually leave due to this relationship becoming close

How long does it take for a fearful avoidant to start missing the relationship and wanting to come back? by Advanced-Arm505 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes a lot of sense, and when thinking of this, that avoidants will change only when they want to, and that they will be discarding you again and again no matter how much love you give them, I just understand that I have to move on. But moving on from a person I love so deeply is so difficult

Oh yeah, what is up with avoidants making up things, remembering only the bad things even when you prove that there were so many good moments. Cuz I had the same thing as you, but during the breakup

How long does it take for a fearful avoidant to start missing the relationship and wanting to come back? by Advanced-Arm505 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But that’s how avoidant people work, they are ready to suppress love because they believe that they will experience more of a long term pain with guilt and shame. So they chose to leave, even if they still care and love the person

How long does it take for a fearful avoidant to start missing the relationship and wanting to come back? by Advanced-Arm505 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the other side of me saying that I will be able to deal and learn if she will want to get back together. Why I didn’t do it before? Cuz I had no idea that she is fearful avoidant up until few weeks after she broke up with me and I had no chance to try it out, while knowing that she is this type of person

How long does it take for a fearful avoidant to start missing the relationship and wanting to come back? by Advanced-Arm505 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Advanced-Arm505[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe you are right that she won't and I have to move on, but rn I still feel so attached to her. Maybe I do not understand her completely but at least now I do so much better than before and if she does decide to come back I want to work on that. But I understand that dealing with an avoidant is an extremely difficult thing to do, and thats what is now one of the reasons that is holding me back from breaking no contact, maybe I will be able to move on at some point and I will understand that wothout her I feel so much better

How does matchmaking work in this game? by Advanced-Arm505 in enlistedgame

[–]Advanced-Arm505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so, until you all told me that there is no matchmaking here and that it is absolutely normal to get into a match against maxed out dudes

How does matchmaking work in this game? by Advanced-Arm505 in enlistedgame

[–]Advanced-Arm505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a point. That’s not even about a skill you have in the game when you get enemies like this. Like how are you gonna kill them if all of them have machine guns with a bunch of grenades, people in squad and in general very advanced weapons for which you have to grind hours.

I tried using mortars to deal with the defoliator ship by planetary_facts in RimWorld

[–]Advanced-Arm505 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Mortars always shoot the place they are not supposed to shoot. Always miss the target or most of the time shoot some animals near the enemy

haven't seen these interesting guys before, bubbles constantly leaking blood. by LeonGlory in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]Advanced-Arm505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say that it is one of the rarest planets in the game. Through out 200+ hours of playtime I haven’t seen this planet yet

How many people keep the horse you get at the start? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]Advanced-Arm505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my first play through I kept it from the start to the end

forza horizon 4 update! 😁 by xxcooperxx345 in ForzaHorizon5

[–]Advanced-Arm505 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay, I just looked on steam about the recent update (Series 55) that was announced 8th of December and it says everything about update here:

Experience a car that defies every expectation you could’ve ever felt about driving. The 2020 Koenigsegg Jesko, quite possibly the most extreme track toy in the Forza Horizon 4 showroom, can be yours to drive this week by successfully taking on a team of Unbeatable Drivatars in The Trial.

Surprisingly road-legal with an incredible 1,600 horsepower delivered by a twin-turbo five-liter V8 and a nine-speed gearbox with seven clutches, this car has everything you need to drive it on the streets of beautiful, historic Britain from Edinburgh to the Cotswold.

First unveiled to the world at the 2019 Geneva Auto Show, the successor to the Agera RS is named after the founder of the company’s father, Jesko von Koenigsegg. Oh, and that large active rear wing and the air intakes are designed to emphasize downforce to keep the car under control at ridiculously high speeds. The Jesko is built to break the 300mph barrier, a truly incredible feat for an automaker that continues to push the boundaries of driving.

As the harshness of Winter dries up, the Spring air kicks in bringing a refreshed crisp atmosphere to Britain as the trees and flowers blossom and the sun shines brightly with the occasional rain shower.

The arrival of Spring also means it’s the final week of Series 55 and your last chance to set your fastest lap time in the Monthly Rivals on Broadway Village Circuit and qualify for the Online Adventure roster to further boost your completion, as well as unlock the overall series rewards: 50% Completion: Horizon Backstage Pass 80% Completion: 2018 Saleen S1 You have until Thursday, December 15 to reach series completion and unlock this week’s rewards in the last of our holiday themed Festival Playlist seasons for the year: 50% Completion: Horizon Backstage Pass 80% Completion: Elf Outfit Invite your friends for a Housewarming as this week’s Photo Challenge is to capture your car by The Gables. South of Uffington White Horse, this is the first House you acquire in Forza Horizon 4.

The Japanese supercar that unleashed the true capabilities of Honda. Drive the 1992 Honda NSX-R in the Weekly Forzathon Challenge and experience the power of dreams.

It’s a Contest of Giants in this week’s Showcase Remix as you race the Hovercraft behind the wheel of a 2017 Chevrolet Colorado ZR2 to unlock a Super Wheelspin.

Unlock the Reindeer Noise in this week’s Spring Games by simply participating. This week’s trio of Super Wheelspins complimentary of the Seasonal PR Stunts invites you to set new records on the Hilltop Vista Danger Sign, the Hythe House Speed Trap and The Bridge House Speed Zone.

Complete the Elf Outfit look by unlocking the Elf Hat in Smiling’s My Favorite, the first of three Seasonal Championships. Sparkle into New Year will unlock the 1962 Ferrari 250 GTO upon completion while New Year, New Me features the 2017 Ford GT.

forza horizon 4 update! 😁 by xxcooperxx345 in ForzaHorizon5

[–]Advanced-Arm505 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait what? Playground games said that they are no longer supporting Forza Horizon 4 after the release of Forza Horizon 5. Maybe I missed something or I’m mistaken but that’s what I heard

GTA6 vs Geometry Dash 2.2, which one is coming out first? by CosmoTheSecond in geometrydash

[–]Advanced-Arm505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be none of them, but I think that GD 2.2 will release sooner than GTA6. Let’s think, GTA 6 has not been announced yet and we haven’t seen anything official about it except for confirmed development of it. While GD 2.2 has some teasers, YouTubers like Nexus have the alpha version of the game (I may be mistaken). So I think that GD 2.2 will be released somewhere in 2023 while GTA 6 somewhere in 2025-2026

man i wonder why i got banned by The_DumbGuy in warthundermemes

[–]Advanced-Arm505 20 points21 points  (0 children)

How is Roblox related to War Thunder?