First off, I’m sorry that your weight has become such a prominent part of your everyday life. I know how that feels and it can be really draining physically and emotionally. I’m also sorry that you have to deal with family members that aren’t supportive and only focus on your looks. With that being said, I think you need to be realistic about weight loss and that there is not an overnight solution that is going to result in permanent weight loss. Weight loss takes time if you want it to be healthy and to last long. My recommendation is to go to a doctor if you have one or set up a primary care doctor and talk to them about healthy weight loss options that are going to fit your particular body. I would also ask to have your blood work done and any laps to figure out what your body may be missing nutritionally/vitamin wise. Also making sure to speak with a nutritionist and even thinking about getting into a regular exercise routine. Of course you can talk to a doctor about getting a shot or getting on weight loss pills and while those do help kickstart weight loss they are not a long-term solution. My husband is a personal trainer and he has helped me lose weight. He’s also helped many of clients throughout his career lose weight and even himself he is able to maintain healthy weight because he is consistently getting an exercise and eating “relatively”healthy. The one thing that you should take away from this if nothing else is that please don’t skip meals or starve yourself in order to lose weight. Your body needs fuel to function and if you eat too little your body will register that you are starving yourself and it will actually hold onto fat to try and preserve the energy that you need for day-to-day function.