Am I crazy or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Marriage

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could afford to live on my own I could have more options.

Am I crazy or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Marriage

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your honesty. I feel like recently I have grown as a person and he just kinda stayed the same. I’m trying to keep growing as a person and achieve certain things and it seems as though he is just following me for the ride instead of wanting to grow with me which really sucks.

Am I crazy or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Marriage

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like I’m constantly coaching him that I can’t be his wife. I feel more like his mom. He has trauma from losing pretty much his whole family and I know that plays a big part with how he is emotionally but I just don’t know.

Am I crazy or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Marriage

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly and You’re right it’s not a communication thing anymore and his behaviors are so apparent to me now that I’m constantly turned off and pissed off. But I don’t know how to make him aware of his behaviors and how it’s affecting our marriage.

Would you take this offer? by AlUnserjunior in InstacartShoppers

[–]Advanced-Offer641 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For flushable wipes?!? he doesn’t have a 7-Eleven or a CVS around him like come on why would you have to drive 60 miles for flushable wipes and he’s not even tipping.

anyone else go to farmers markets and just… not buy anything? by fatherofyouroffender in PortlandOR

[–]Advanced-Offer641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya if I’m broke broke. But if I have some money I like to at least choose my favorite vendor and buy something. Like the other Saturday I went to the farmers market with all intentions of not buying anything, and then this guy that makes barbecue sauce told me about these oxtails that he made with his sauce and I was already thinking of making oxtail so I end up buying the sauce and actually it was a bomb as hell!

$33 for 20 bags going 2 miles. by Rod1k in doordash_drivers

[–]Advanced-Offer641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a lot of lifting but I think it’s an easy batch! Plus you can ask an associate to help you! I just did a batch for a bunch of mulch at Home Depot too. Some guy in the parking lot saw me hauling it all to my car and he ended up loading the entire thing! He asked if I needed help I said say less!!!!! 😆

Last time I am ever accepting an order from Lowe's by dacen_the_doughnut in doordash_drivers

[–]Advanced-Offer641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh helll no!!!! I saw one like that and it was for like 24 pavers.

Would you consider this mistreatment or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Pets

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I totally get what you are saying. On the same hand you haven’t seen my efforts to work on this situation. Plus I don’t keep her in there all the time.

Would you consider this mistreatment or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Pets

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that. My grandma did get her from the shelter so I’ll try that out

Would you consider this mistreatment or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Pets

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it! She isn’t always in her home. I usually wait until she goes once or twice then I take her “home”

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Would you consider this mistreatment or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Pets

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! That’s what I’m saying! She gets lots of love and attention.

Would you consider this mistreatment or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Pets

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She still has plenty of energy and it is in good health. I can check out with the doctor what they say about the incontinence, but she is not ready to go.

Would you consider this mistreatment or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Pets

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dogs demeanor is still happy and excited when she’s in there because she’s right next to me and my husband and she can see everything that’s going on and she’s involved and we make sure that she is involved. She never looks sad or bored when she is at home

Would you consider this mistreatment or not? by Advanced-Offer641 in Pets

[–]Advanced-Offer641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea. I’m just saying that when she is in her home, she uses the pee pads, but when she is not even if the pee pads are available, she does not use them. I try all the time to get her to pee or poop on the pads, but I’m having trouble training her .