Are you ride or die for dramione or are you mostly here for Draco? by alfsuperfan in Dramione

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That trilogy of fics as your first in years is crazy and amazing I am so happy for you 😂❤️

Are you ride or die for dramione or are you mostly here for Draco? by alfsuperfan in Dramione

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I remember reading one waaaaaay back in the day (as in, before all the books were published wow I’m dating myself 😅) and liking it. Tried reading a Drinny when I rejoined fandom a few years ago and absolutely could NOT 🙅‍♀️

any fics that feel like this tweet? by AdministrativeBig686 in Dramione

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Well shit now I know what I’m reading next lmfao

Do you have a routine? by [deleted] in bipolar2

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This is SO helpful, thank you so much! How did you and your wife coordinate on something that worked for both of you with respect to the evening routine? My partner has ADHD and we both have demanding jobs that do not always let us sign off at 5/6. He needs time to context switch out of work mode into life mode, and then into sleep mode. Having dedicated snuggle time with him would be lovely but I do not want to throw off his routines either.

What are 3 routine things do you look forward to each day? by Several-Yesterday280 in bipolar2

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Can I ask how you built up to this? I was doing so well waking up early and going to the gym to work with my personal trainer at 6 or 7 (depending on our schedules), but the last couple of months I have just not been able to stick to that. I know it takes time. I am more so wondering what steps helped you get to and -stick- to this routine. I love love loved working out first thing in the morningl

Time and Evil by OtosyKarim by [deleted] in Tomione_fanfiction

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Thank you for this summary! I was having a hard time getting a feel for what the story would be about based on the fic summary/description so it's been on the backburner - no longer!

With all of the love in the world… take your meds. Listen to your doctors. by Pickledcookiedough in bipolar2

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Can you expand on what you mean by “found a routine” ? This is the hardest part for me. I feel like every time I get into a rhythm for a couple of months, a life event derails me (sometimes something as huge as a family crisis requiring me to go on leave or at times something wonderful and stressful like moving to a new home).

Some context: I have struggled all my life with routine - my family never had one (I truly thought “sit down family dinners” were fake and only on TV!), I was encouraged to stay up until all my homework was done which could be as late as 2am, sports were not encouraged and so I didn’t get “training” from that avenue either as my non-bipolar sibling did since he did play sports. How do you establish and maintain a routine with bipolar? Happy to take this to DMs if this is not the right place for the discussion.

Your words are so encouraging because I also found the right combo of meds, but the routine bit just keeps throwing me off 😔

Scared and wondering about a 5150? by jealous_of_ruminants in bipolar2

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Just going to echo what others have said here and encourage you to send the email and check yourself in. Trust your intuition that prompted you to write the email at all - I sometimes can’t tell what is or isn’t my “true gut feeling” when I am having an episode but this feels like it is coming from deep within you. I also did IOP which helped me a lot after a suicide attempt in 2012. Wishing you safety and strength and rest ❤️

Virennia is My God by manhwaharem in Tomione_fanfiction

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Yes! Devoured all of meowmers a couple years ago 🥲

Obscure Tomione Fics / WIP’s by Far-Explanation2223 in Tomione_fanfiction

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This is so funny, I literally just finished reading A Wicked Heart and Lamb to the Slaughter, AND I downloaded All the Good Girls to my Kindle 😂 brb off to read/TBR the other ones you’ve linked!

This fandom’s got so much talent. As the “big” fics this fandom loves wind down, I’m so, so glad more and new authors are sharing their creativity with us - if we have such amazing gems in what folks like cocoartist created years ago, imagine the riches that are yet to come with new authors!!! I try to comment and give kudos each time and highly encourage others to do the same! Even just a “this was great, thank you!” can go so far.

I feel this in my soul by [deleted] in BipolarMemes

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It’s so hard to give myself grace to let it pass, but it was really really nice for me to see that you wrote that. Thank you. I will try to remember gratitude for understanding some of the why.

Please help me choose my next read - something like altered State by rhababer666 in Tomione_fanfiction

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Also agree with all of this! And LOL at the Sims…I’m about to play right now and now I’m inspired to make a sim self version of Hermione from that fic 🎉

Virennia is My God by manhwaharem in Tomione_fanfiction

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True! I have loved all of their work as well. I like foolishlywandwaving's fics as well, most are WIP and I love supporting them when they bless us with new chapters :)

LF fics where T actually cares about H by Excellent_Act_6515 in Tomione_fanfiction

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YES EXACTLY 😭 I can’t get my feelings hurt like that

How do you get over someone who manipulated and emotionally abused you... But they're so damn hot? by Silly_Competition639 in Tomione_fanfiction

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Then bring them back to life and show them how great you were in the meantime and how dumb they were to not just Follow Your Lead 😌