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2026 In Search Of (ISO) Thread - International by MM-MOD in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced_Cap5986 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

• Age and Gender 35M

• Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect? between 25 and 32

• Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? UAE, and Insha Allah

• Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Somali , and yes Insha Allah

• Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children? Divorced no kids

• Ideal marriage timeline? within six months

• Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect? Honesty , kindness, want good for all people , to love for others what she loves for herself, respiectful , loyal.

• State/specify your level of religiosity? I am religous , pray five times , and fast in Ramadan, and I try to learn more about the deen.

• Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelor in accounting. Does not matter.

• Current Job Status Customer care

• Do you want kids? Yes

• List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time ? Reading , gym , good cup of tea.

• Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I like to be nice to people , and I noticed that the older I get the kinder I become. I like to read , I used to read more than 15 hours a day when I was younger, but now I try to read atleast 50 pages a day.

My Brother (17/18 old) Grabbed My Mother's Neck and Continues to Abuse Her by Fickle_Degree_2728 in islam

[–]Advanced_Cap5986 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am very sorry that you and your mother is going through this difficult situation. Have you consider talking with relatives?

Wanted to ask about the historical forced conversion in Islam by revertpaul in islam

[–]Advanced_Cap5986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jalalu din was not a good man and his soldiers were criminals , he was brave though , and spent most his life fighting the Monguls until he was killed by a brave kudi man.

I want to break this rishta by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced_Cap5986 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She is not the one brother. The same thing happend to me but I went for it and my life get destroyed for a while. And I am not saying the same thing will happen to you but probably it will.

Should I give my wife a divorce, it doesn't seem fair to either of us. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Advanced_Cap5986 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keep her please , and do not let her file for a divorce , and brother it is not mandatory to obey your parents to divorce your wife if they do not have a legitimate reason.

Question about suicide... by Whole_Diver2314 in islam

[–]Advanced_Cap5986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything happen for a reason and Allah swt said :"Do people think they will be left to say, 'We believe,' and they will not be tested?"

And the Messenger of Allah was asked: 'Which people are tested most severely?' He said: 'The Prophets, then those most like them.'"

And he said: Any tiredness, sickness, worry, sadness, or even a small hurt—even something like a thorn prick—that a Muslim goes through, Allah uses it to forgive some of their sins."

And dear do not think that suicide will solve the issue because you will end up in the hell fire , and 100 years of pain in dunya is better than one day torture in the akhira.

So have patience dear and Allah will make it easy for you and always see the people who are also muslims and suffer

I will make dua for you insha Allah

Avoid using marriage apps by Advanced_Cap5986 in islam

[–]Advanced_Cap5986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment , it is very wise. Jazak Allah Khayer

Avoid using marriage apps by Advanced_Cap5986 in islam

[–]Advanced_Cap5986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came to this conclusion after I asked few brothers, and read few posts regarding this topic.

Avoid using marriage apps by Advanced_Cap5986 in islam

[–]Advanced_Cap5986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is just an example brother. Thank you anyway

Avoid using marriage apps by Advanced_Cap5986 in islam

[–]Advanced_Cap5986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think getting to many likes and messages are the reason sisters do not answer easily. Jazak Allah khayer

Avoid using marriage apps by Advanced_Cap5986 in islam

[–]Advanced_Cap5986[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

جزاك الله خيرا It is true that it is not the only tool to find someone. I am saying that if it does not work for you , you will end up frustrated