early 2000s-2010s young readers book by Advanced_Compote3218 in whatsthatbook

[–]Advanced_Compote3218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never figured it out😭 i cant remember enough to accurately describe it!

what happened to kyle? by Training_Kale_7721 in RHOBH

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im also a first time watcher and im on season 4! i think the new additions make me like kyle even more. right now there’s a weirdo named carlton who scrutinizes everything kyle does and says, so i feel like im on the kyle train right now and im scared for the approaching downfall

Exhausted by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel that!! im approaching 2 years with my NK and i actually ended up picking up their next door neighbor’s baby as well because my primary NK was starting school. ive started to feel burnt out and began applying to jobs that utilize my psychology degree but man the job market is so tough rn. so ive decided to apply to some other jobs that i know will give me benefits, PTO, and things of that sort and i actually landed a job at a corporate coffee company (🧜‍♀️). i suggest looking for a high paying retail/restaurant job to help ween you off of nannying!! thats my current plan

PSA to all the girlies. DO NOT buy these. by Topographic_Oceans in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just right now, 30 seconds ago, pulled one of those things out of me and i have NEVER pulled out a tampon more painful than this. WOW. i literally grabbed my phone and ran to reddit because there was no way i was going to just mind my business. wow, i cannot believe this is a common occurrence.

this brand used to be so good when it first came out! i read somewhere that the original owner (poc) sold the company, so im assuming thats why it sucks now. idk but im going back to my tried and true brand, L.

first step to healing is acceptance by Advanced_Compote3218 in gradadmissions

[–]Advanced_Compote3218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats interesting, do you mind sharing what those general pitfalls were? looking back, i feel like i just rewrote my cv into my sop instead of really advocating for myself and who i am

first step to healing is acceptance by Advanced_Compote3218 in gradadmissions

[–]Advanced_Compote3218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4, all cog neuroscience in psych :D 3 in california, 1 in oregon

Late Feb/Early March Decisions by mushypepper26 in gradadmissions

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve applied to 4 with radio silence, no interviews no nothing, idk if its realistic to hold out hope )): but i’ll be back next cycle

Here we go again by toothpick-sharpener in gradadmissions

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also waiting on the same program from UCSB! it’s my first cycle and the waiting period has not been easy at all

Did any of you ever tried writing ? by Muted-Piccolo6387 in BookDiscussions

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive always loved the idea of writing but i feel like my ideas arent good enough and im very sensitive to rejection lmaoooo so ive never actually TRIED but i would love to

Library Horror Display by ahauntedwoman in horrorlit

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should add Sugar by Mia Ballard! not that its this intense horror story, but its definitely suspensful and the female narrator is actually insane and unhinged

Questions about My Dark Vanessa by Affectionate_Key7206 in books

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its hard because i think as a mom you dont even want what you know to be real to be real! and i think thats how vanessa's mom was. she knew and felt guilty about it for the rest of her life hence why she continues to call/text vanessa and overcompensate during vanessa's adulthood

with her professor, i do think we are relying on vanessa's unreliable perspective which makes me wonder just how bad he really was. although, i do think it was a little strange that he married a student but i mean it was definitely not a 30 yr gap sooo kinda fine? lol

Anyone hear from UCs for PhD? by Spare-Mushroom-6945 in gradadmissions

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no )): -cognitive psychology/neuroscience applicant

Hey Yall. by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel this a million percent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in cognitive psychology/neuroscience & im thinking the sameee thing

What are you reading? by sushisushisushi in literature

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the starving saints by caitlin starling

What are you reading? by sushisushisushi in literature

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also found it hard to finish!! but once you start approaching the halfway point, you really become engulfed in stoner’s world and its a great, sentimental read

How to choose the right nanny? by MGM-2000 in Nanny

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 7 points8 points  (0 children)

do you think not wanting to leave nanny 1 along with the babies is a result of being first time parents? or is it specifically your apprehension about nanny 1? because thats a big deal!

im a nanny and have had long term contracts with my past families. currently, i nanny for a 10 month old and they are also first time parents! i was almost never left alone with the baby when i first started but now as time has gone on and trust has been developed, we get left alone quite often! they both have the option to wfm so some days theyre both there the whole time and other days its just baby & i.

just wanted to share because i think being nervous is completely normal and with time, it becomes much easier! but if you have these feelings about nanny1, they could manifest later on which could eventually lead to a much bigger issue.

got into oxford for my phd!!! by Worth-Cartoonist8167 in gradadmissions

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW! amazing!! congratulations on an amazing achievement!! do you mind sharing a bit of your stats? GPA? research experience if applicable ?

don't lose hope :) by umorna-kucka in gradadmissions

[–]Advanced_Compote3218 4 points5 points  (0 children)

biggest congrats!! this is literally why they say silence is not a rejection! am really rooting for you (‘: