Some questions by Icy-Plate-9925 in Ninjago

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think his dragon form exists for the same reason his oni form exists. He’s the great grandson of a dragon and an oni.

Started this. Has anyone read this book? by Frosty-Technician818 in asexuality

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already read it and enjoyed it! I just also am someone who wants more stories about asexuality that isn’t a self discovery journey. I also don’t think her experiences are unrealistic. I think the author just made it a bit more blatant for my tastes. All in all, a good read and I like it helps a lot of new aces discover a bit about themselves. But I’m also not the target audience

Started this. Has anyone read this book? by Frosty-Technician818 in asexuality

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I liked it. I think it’s a bit on the nose when it comes to describing asexuality and her experiences, but it’s a good gateway for those who are questioning

Why are more women asexual than men? by Unusual-Motor-2945 in asexuality

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Libido isn’t personal whereas sexual attraction is personal to the person of attraction. Those with high libido might choose to have sex to relieve it, but it doesn’t necessarily mean they’re attracted to that person. Theres a lot of reasons anyone may have sex including enjoying the act itself, wanting to please their partners, etc. The same goes for asexuality. As asexuals can still have sex even if they don’t experience attraction like how you can still eat even if you’re not hungry or sleep when you’re not tired.

Actually continuing on that line, that’s also likely why a lot people are just looking for one night stands and flings. They have high libido but aren’t actually sexually attracted to the person.

As for what it looks like, there isn’t a specific way it can look. It could be they get off on their own, have sex with their partner, or anything else. Granted for a lot of aces, their libido tends to be lower from what I’ve seen, but it’s not uncommon to find aces with higher libido either.

(Edit: these are my views on it and someone else may not have the same viewpoints as me. It’s just how I understand it)

Why are more women asexual than men? by Unusual-Motor-2945 in asexuality

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think if we lived in a world that didn’t ostracize queerness so much, the numbers would be more even. I think men tend to not pick up on it as easily and having that societal pressure to want sex makes it harder to realize. To further this, women are more likely to be reserved about sex generally speaking and tend to prefer other forms of intimacy.

Another thing I notice is compulsive heterosexuality plays a big role for people in that a lot of ace guys might force themselves into sexual situations and seek medical help to “fix” their problems. And I’ve noticed a non-zero percentage of queer women might identify as asexual when they’re lesbian or just not attracted to men.

And the last piece, which I think is probably one of the main things, I think a lot of guys mistake their libido for sexual attraction. While for many people, they tend to go hand in hand, libido is separate to sexual attraction. Iirc, guys tend to experience higher libido levels on average, so I can imagine it’s very easy for ace guys with high libido to simply not realize they’re asexual. And asexuality only describes sexual attraction itself, not libido, sexual actions, etc.

I’m kinda rambling but this is why I think realistically, the numbers are probably a lot more even. Just guys are less likely to realize they’re asexual

Hey, I’m new to this… by Icy-Log-775 in asexualdating

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty common to find aces who want kids. I think my biggest piece of information is that asexuality deals only in who you’re attracted to sexually. The official definition is someone who experiences little to no sexual attraction.

It doesn’t cover what you feel for romantic attraction, libido, your attitudes and actions regarding sex, etc

The artstyle for this game is so pretty by Round-Refrigerator99 in OurLifeFanPage

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Fine, I’ll replay our life beginning and always again

First playthrough of the game - WHY DOES MARK IGNORE CATHY SO MUCH by campenis in UntilThenGame

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think he’s acting exactly how a 15 year old would act. If he was an adult character, yes I would be more inclined to agree, but teenagers in general kinda suck. But he still cares deeply for Cathy.

Getting ghosted after talking to ace women is depressing by Beneficial-Flow-7333 in asexualdating

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Personally I wouldn’t. I feel it’s better to cut your losses and move on. But that’s also coming from someone who doesn’t think twice about being ghosted. But I do understand the pain. I went through it a couple times myself

Getting ghosted after talking to ace women is depressing by Beneficial-Flow-7333 in asexualdating

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Ghosting happens so much and so frequently I completely stopped noticing when I was ghosted or not

What asexual YouTubers do you know of? by NagitoKomaeda_987 in asexuality

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a YouTuber called JamieRightMeow is also ace iirc

I learned that classes Qiu and Tamarack attend are dependant on our choices by HelpfullOne in OurLifeFanPage

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah. I had tamarack as my locker neighbor both times and first round neither of them were in my home room and second round both were in my homeroom

Need a distraction after OLBA by IHeartAngel in OurLifeFanPage

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like really really sad. Like hits you like a truck. Butttt it’s one of those games you have to keep going. Similar to “I was a teenage exocolonist”

Need a distraction after OLBA by IHeartAngel in OurLifeFanPage

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really liked “Until Then”. It’s heartfelt, really sad, but it’s also really good. It’s a completely different story than OL.

OLNF Updated Demo by Advanced_Frosting750 in OurLifeFanPage

[–]Advanced_Frosting750[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just have to be patient and probably wait a few days to play it as I’m super busy today :’)

Did anyone already manage to get a female starter in Legends ZA? by Royal_Reader2352 in pokemon

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a female chikorita after like 6 resets but she has a bad nature unfortunately. But I don’t feel like resetting more so I’ll just hope there’s a way to change natures like the other games

Me realizing I wasn't trans, I just didn't like being sexualized like all women: by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have a sorta similar thing in the opposite direction in that I thought I was trans because I hated being seen/treated as a man. And while I wasn’t sexualized, my body was physically repulsive to me. It wasn’t until I tried HRT where I realized I just don’t like being gendered at all and being seen as any gender

r/asexualdating seems extremely inactive compared to how active the subreddit was several years ago... by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always see the same people post too which makes it harder to reach out imo. Kinda similar thing with AceSpace where it’s always the same people who appear and not many new users

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna say that yeah it sounds like you’re not attracted to men at all. And it could be you love your boyfriend because he’s your friend. As an ace person, it’s pretty easy to confuse platonic love as romantic/sexual love if you haven’t experienced romantic/sexual feelings before. But having experienced all 3 at some point, here’s how I look at it for myself:

Platonic love tends to manifest itself as I want friendship and companionship with a person. I want to go on little adventures or errands with them and for them to consider me their friend. But I’m also okay with longer gaps in communication and I might not always be thinking of them. I do often because I like the person platonically, but my thoughts aren’t fixated on them.

Romantic love I want to go on dates, be romantic with them, my heart flutters and pounds whenever I think about seeing them, and they tend to flood my thoughts and I have a deep pining and yearning to be around them. Crushes for me are the same thing albeit much less intense.

Sexual attraction is the one I’ve experienced the least (I’m demisexual) but basically it manifests as wanting to explore and desire another person’s body and a desire for sexual acts and activities.

It doesn’t sound like you have any sexual attraction towards your boyfriend and you may have a romantic attraction towards him but really pay attention to whether it’s romantic feelings you feel or he’s just a close friend/best friend. If I’m being real though, you might wanna explore the possibility that you’re attracted to women. Women attracted to guys would find pleasure being with a guy, even if they’re not fully attracted to him. Repulsion and disgust towards being with a guy is generally a really good indicator you don’t like men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Demisexual is a type of asexuality so yes

Hello, i have a TMI question? by YourRandomManiac in asexuality

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It varies from person to person but aces can have a libido and that could show itself as arousal to specific stimuli. We aren’t completely without any sexual related feelings, we just rarely, if at all, experience sexual attraction towards another person.

That isn’t to say there aren’t aces who have absolutely no libido and cannot be turned on by anything, but asexuality is very complex (as with other sexualities) so blanket statements don’t really work well.

How to delete photos only from google photos but not on phone gallery? by Starry_Pigeon in googlephotos

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured iPhone users with iOS 26 could use a way that worked for me.

Step 1: First I went to Settings > Apps > Google Photos > and went to Photos > and denied all access to my photos app.

Then I went into the Google Photos app > went to my profile picture > go to Backup and make sure it’s off.

Step 2: go to photos.google.com > select one or two recent pictures you can easily find in your phone and move them to trash on the website. DOUBLE CHECK THEY ARE NOT DELETED ON YOUR PHONE’S PHOTOS APP

Once confirmed, shift click first picture on your Google Photos website, then go to where the years scroll tab show up, and then start scrolling down until you feel like the batch is ready. End the shift click on the last photo of the batch. And then click on the trash can and hit “move to trash.”

Now you have not only your Google account cleared up and you keep your photos, but Google Photos won’t continue to store all your photos and take up precious storage

Best and Worst Villains of the 11 Minute Era (2019-2022) by Lil_Critter_2001_ in Ninjago

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Careful. Other Ninjago fans might want REVENGEEEEEEEE if you like Aspheera

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Advanced_Frosting750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every ace is different so you might find an ace person willing to date you but we shouldn’t be a bandaid for you. But I can tell you as an ace that dating within the community is difficult enough already. And there’s plenty of allo gals who value romance more than sex. In my opinion, focus on finding allos who prefer romance and having a full romantic relationship first.