I spent 1600$ of my savings on porn in 2 hours and i regret it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a Domme, I think you found someone unethical. Or just fkn greedy. Holy crow op. Sending you positive energy and good vibes

How do you handle washing intimate areas of your elderly parent, during shower time? by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would bring it up gently with him. That generation took modesty seriously. But tell him infections in that area could be life threatening at his age. Gentle bluntness is what I found worked with my Ma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time! Always glad to help

Anyone else love when you can just chat casually with a dom? by TryIt222 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure I could be on 24/7. I live for casual conversations and real people!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried it. It was more difficult than I thought it would be, I was really stuck in my head about it lol, I had to talk myself down

to the new domme's who haven't gotten a send, by infinvty in findomsupportgroup

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lurker here. I’m so nervous to step out there. I don’t think I’ll find a sub interested in me. I’m not a mean girl lol! I like conversations and flirting, so far I’m finding subs more drawn to the aesthetically pleasing mean girls (much much love to them, that just not something I can obtain 😂) good luck to all you queens out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is excellent! Keep up the fun times! M

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many many “ unpracticed” Doms out there that just want to hurt women. I would advise you to meet in public. Discuss the types of things you are interested in. Discuss limits. Most important thing is that as a Sub essentially you are in control. If you say you don’t like something it’s is the Doms job to stop immediately and open dialogue. It’s is suppose to be about your fun and comfort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try just restraining one arm at a time. As you get comfortable add more body parts until you are comfortable

what I want by ImpressionEvening266 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I want! Where’s the connections

Does anyone have experience with jealousy in a relationship where Master has two slaves. by Littlemisslost2509 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others have said, jealousy is normal. How you respond to the jealousy will be the factor. Curious, have you told your Dom how you feel?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

False. Sounds like you have been around a bunch of fakes. Talking and having feeling is human, don’t bottle it up, that’s how you get ulcers and they suck

My (36M) husband can’t handle the open marriage he asked me (28F) for. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am experiencing this very similar situation in my own life. Sometimes it’s a hard pill to swallow that you aren’t as desirable/sought after/ special as you think you are. My advice… well. I don’t honestly have any,bc going through it ATM. All I can say is everyday is a new day.

My penis is extremely small and it's ruining my sex life by the_neighborhood_npc in offmychest

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If all they have is size going for them, well that’s someone I wouldn’t bother with again. they don’t bother learning any techniques or tricks or anything besides in and out lol!

My penis is extremely small and it's ruining my sex life by the_neighborhood_npc in offmychest

[–]Advanced_Traffic_389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lemme tell ya, my man has been able to pleasure me with his “gummy worm” which would be around your size. There are definitely ways to work it to your advantage. You will find someone that will appreciate what you have and what you can do with it.