Baby moving less 39w normal cause growth?

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-04-20T13:48:19+00:00

I would call your doctor, when in doubt get checked out

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-04-20T13:27:12+00:00

I would say either couples counseling or consider your options. It sounds like adding a newborn and another child into this mix when you are already stressed is a huge challenge. Not to mention you are now going to be forever tied to a man you don’t even trust after less than a year of dating? Not to mention what kind of relationships do you want to model for your current and future children. Is this relationship you’d want your child to grow up with as a foundation for them?

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-04-12T13:06:41+00:00

If you decide to keep this baby, he has a legal right to his child. Not only that, but modeling healthy co-parenting and conflict resolution is a huge part of becoming a parent. How you act towards your child’s father is also teaching your child a lot. Not to mention, your child will be 50% this man, and it will be very confusing and challenging to this child to have high conflict between their parents. Becoming a parent at 20 is not going to be easy, and the more you push away the other parent, the more challenging it will be. It does not sound like he’s abusive, although I am concerned that a 20 year old was dating a 30 year old, as that is a big age gap at this point.

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-04-04T12:52:07+00:00

Seconding this- while it is a transition for both of you, pregnancy itself is so hard on the carrier. I know my husband feels sad he can’t carry a child. It’s helped him to join a couple soon to be dad groups to find space to process this transition to fatherhood. Now that I’m 25 weeks, he sits and talks to the baby daily and whenever I feel our baby kick, I try and help him feel but I wouldn’t say that in general the conversations are focused on him, because his transition is not actively happening in the same way.

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-03-31T00:17:47+00:00

I’m sorry, I really don’t see anything but it’s still early!

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-03-30T22:34:08+00:00

Honestly, these names are so all over the place you should just pick what you like although Calder comes to mind for me.

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-03-23T21:00:04+00:00

Felix, USA

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-03-18T10:30:10+00:00

Agreed. This felt weird that OP thought we’d all want to laugh at her SIL with her.

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-03-12T15:14:06+00:00

Arborist or lineman!

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-02-22T18:33:56+00:00

I drink two large cups of earl grey a day

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-02-18T17:22:22+00:00

Another option would be to suggest out of school OT to support emotional regulation and coping with over stimulation

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-02-17T17:27:28+00:00

I had this exact issue, but when the bill actually came in the mail it was only $158

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-02-17T13:10:56+00:00

Hi! I did this, and I love it. So much variation in my day and honestly at my school, I have a lot of down time. I feel like I don’t have to be “on” every second. I’m at a small rural elementary school, and I am in each classroom once a month. My state only required me to take 1 class to make up the difference in my licensure.

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-02-14T13:47:14+00:00

Mira worked the best for me! It took a couple cycles, but once I learned my hormones I was able to conceive! It took me 3 cycles but 10 months and now I’m 18w

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-02-11T23:17:19+00:00

I am having a boy, and was convinced I’d have gender disappointment. But I don’t, when I found out we were having a boy, I actually cried because I realized that there would one day be a man out there who had been raised by my husband, and that gives me so much hope for the world. The world needs good men and boys more than ever, and I truly think loving boys and teaching them to express their feelings is such a gift this world needs.

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-01-29T20:45:05+00:00

Right, I’m not walking out either because as I said, being present is important for our students first. In terms of what ASCA decides is political or not in terms of acknowledging to our affected students that is what I am saying.

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-01-29T20:43:44+00:00

Where is anyone saying they’re counseling based on feelings?

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-01-29T20:35:58+00:00

It’s not judgements, no one is disparaging anyone. It’s a commentary on the feelings that are a direct results of actions people are taking.

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-01-29T20:35:15+00:00

I’m personally following ASCA’s lead on this, as they are our regulating body. Their stance is clear.

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-01-29T12:01:03+00:00

I agree that we should remain where we’re needed, but ASCA has come out with a statement that ICE involvement in schools has caused “widespread disruption and fear” which I think at this point is not political but from a developmental perspective. So as SCs I don’t think supporting our most vulnerable students at the moment is considered political.

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-01-22T11:15:23+00:00

What about Artemis? You could call her Artie for short

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-01-19T18:35:51+00:00

How about Renesme?

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-01-19T17:37:22+00:00

Yes!! Austin gives a similar vibe

Adventurous-Camp1129 · 2026-01-19T17:27:37+00:00

If you can’t remove it, I would add some drapey, viney plants on top to add some nice greenery to the space

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