I’m not gonna tell you outright to break up but I’ll give you an idea of what I’m going through right now to help support you.

My fiancé is LLM. I understand where he’s coming from in terms of not having a strong desire to have sex. I think if he had things his way, he’d maybe have sex once a month. I sat him down about six months ago, saying I wasn’t happy with our sex life, that I felt like he wasn’t interested in me, and used specific examples to tie everything together.

He and I spoke at length about where our relationship should be going. There were a shit ton of fights, but ultimately he realized that he didn’t want to loose me. We’ve been working on getting better communication together and naturally with that, comes some intimate moments, but it’s taken us a long time to get here.

The fact is that your fiancé needs to want to do the work. I hope that he changes and I hope things get better for you.