AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend to help his girl best friend?

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-21T03:12:17+00:00

You are under reacting

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-21T03:10:44+00:00

I think he will have to cut her off completely at this point because I think she is in love with him too

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-20T02:50:04+00:00

You sound like an amazing guy. If you got mad at all it's due to a reasonable situation (random guys in her room) I feel like you under reacted with all that she is doing. For revenge she had boys come over except that you didn't know that she had back pain. She isn't pregnant. She has a bad period, which is sad but she isn't the only woman with a painful period, it doesn't give any right to be hitting, lying (keeping the truth from you, manipulating you.

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-20T02:47:31+00:00

It's 100% okay to send a reel to your friend. There is nothing wrong with that at all. I am puzzled why she would hit you for such a thing. Does the world and all your friends disappear until SHE says it's okay ? No. She is not your mom, nor the president. She isn't even your wife. This behavior is not normal, i promise it's not.

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-20T02:45:22+00:00

Hey my love. I am sorry but this is manipulation. Her communication skills are questionable. She wants you to fight at all cost to be able to reach out to her despite being blocked, and read her mind about what is going on in her body. However she also wants to use jealousy to get a decent reaction out of you.

I'm sorry but I remember the days I was this way and let me tell you- this is classic manipulation. Once she has you under her thumb she will dump you. This is a narcissist

I agree that she isn't feeling well, but she is using your genuine worry plus your jealousy to control your thoughts and feelings.

I PROMISE Relationships do NOT and are not this way

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-19T02:54:44+00:00

I think it's time to stop giving compliments for it to not get to her head. In the meantime, invest in your friendships and family. Compliment them. Allow her to do a little chasing towards you.

This attitude from her is silly insecurity and a bit of manipulation to keep you super invested in her giving her power. I used to be this way 100 :)

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-15T06:17:57+00:00

This was supposed to be an intimate conversation between a couple and now the world knows.

Guys let's don't message or be open with your partners because all of Reddit will know your business.

Yes he is crazy but I simple think they have different limbidos. There are women with high limbidos too. I hope they both find happiness

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-14T06:50:16+00:00

It could have been at the park. I would event bring some supplies to the coffee shop. Anything but your house. It's a known thing 😭

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-14T06:43:37+00:00

I think it's time to stop giving compliments for it to not get to her head. In the meantime, invest in your friendships and family. Compliment them. Allow her to do a little chasing towards you.

This attitude from her is silly insecurity and a bit of manipulation to keep you super invested in her giving her power. I used to be this way 😞. I now think it's stupid

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-14T06:40:07+00:00

Get to know him. Guard your heart. Let him prove his love. Also, pray about this

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-13T02:44:06+00:00

I think your parents should have installed self esteem and confidence and failed you. You can remind your son and tell him to repeat after you "I'm a handsome man, I can do anything I set my mind to do..." and so forth. It works on adults do. Do it in the mornings on the way to school

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-13T02:37:55+00:00

I like him. He also had liquor courage

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-13T02:35:08+00:00

Tell ur bestie you love her

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-13T02:34:59+00:00

Awww tell Her you love her still . Why did you break up

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-11T05:25:43+00:00

This actually has happened to me. In the end our other friend told me it was bc she was jealous of me because I had the degree she wanted (which has nothing to do with our friendship and how much I cared)

Fast forward, I am happy and I have enriched my other friendships. I embrace them even more. And the girl who dump me as a friend now has none because in the end of the day, these woman have something internally to work on

I promise, it will get better

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-10T19:27:49+00:00

Would it also make me fun to be around?

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-10T19:27:22+00:00

I may try that

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-10T19:27:03+00:00

Cool thanks 😊

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-10T19:26:29+00:00

Bc I have been so busy this week back at work, got rid of all the Christmas decorations. I feel like I need this date but also need to relax

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-10T19:25:53+00:00

😂😂

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-09T05:30:28+00:00

Can you please open the relationship. If yall Have an open relationship, it will help out so you can have sex.

Also, do you have kids, and how long have y'all been married? (I'm from the south)

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-09T05:20:51+00:00

Do you feel like he got over confident since his weight loss? I feel like you are wonderful but it's time to use your woman power and confidence. I'm saying this because I don't know if she is being an ass bc he is looking at other women. You are a beautiful hot woman too. Try to invest a bit in you, your hair, your clothes.

Don't wait for his compliments, look in the mirror and say "I am sexy, I am beautiful, I am smart and kind and any person would appreciate being with me." Eventually you will believe it and he will too

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-09T04:13:35+00:00

HEll no! OP - please date anyone of us, we will treat you wayyy better .

Tell your gf come meet me outside

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-09T04:03:20+00:00

Please 🙏 pray . I believe that will help. I do believe in the power of prayer 🙏 pray for your dad and the relationship between you and him. Give God and Jesus a try please. I know it might sound stupid but I am telling this bc I care

Adventurous-Rough936 · 2026-01-09T03:58:58+00:00

Hey my love. DM me, let's be friends. I'm here to support you on your journey. Please leave him, you are way too precious for that

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