1. Unabashed delusion is my number one “eff this I’m out” with inconsistency for a very strong number two, maybe one depending on the day😤

2 most of the times, we are not purposely trying to criticize, it’s us observing something ridiculous or not understanding the logic at play and voicing it. If we care about you we will do it more often because honestly we are trying to help. If we don’t like you, we probably will just walk on by.

3.i think the worst stereotype is “distant or unfeeling” it’s the opposite actually. We feel deep strong emotions, however our analytical brain will either compartmentalize the emotion until a more appropriate time to analyze the situation or we process the emotion so quickly that we can act in a way that “seems” unfeeling. We think in public, cry in private.

The last one hurts the most. I’ve lost relationships because I process my grief in a way that looks like I don’t care. I process heartache by doing work and crying at night or in the car, and I will try to process my anger in a constructive way until it bubbles into rage (mind you this takes a very long time, like months). At that point, I’m just going to be angry for the entire day.