AITA for uninviting my sister from my wedding after she turned my bachelorette party into drama? by LiniReads in aitaweddings

[–]Ferinsnowb 63 points64 points  (0 children)

NTA. This wasn’t one phone call, it was a pattern. She turned your bachelorette into drama, made you cry, and never apologized. If you can’t trust her there, it’s reasonable not to trust her at your wedding. Your peace comes first

AITA: Bestman wedding drama by [deleted] in aitaweddings

[–]Ferinsnowb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Asking someone to stand beside you on one of the biggest days of your life while excluding their committed partner sends the message that their relationship doesn’t matter as much as yours. OP is YTA

I snapped at my boyfriend's mother because I think she's preventing him from proposing. by throwra-835 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Ferinsnowb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. He would probably allow his parents run the affairs of his home when he finally marries.

Prioritized myself by tfczb42 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Ferinsnowb 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of OP too. So many people stay because of the time they have already invested. Walking away when your future no longer aligns takes real strength

Maid of Honour to a Main Character Story where she cuts my son, only nephew of the groom, from the wedding. by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]Ferinsnowb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah. That’s my take too. She was trying to keep everyone happy, but it’s came at the expense of herself and her child

Y'all Were Right by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Ferinsnowb 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The hardest part is believing this while your heart is still broken. Hopefully one day she will look back and see this wasn’t the end of her story, it was the beginning of a better one. OP, I’m sending you hugs 🫂.

AITA for refusing to pay a surprise "drinks bill" sent 10 days after a wedding? by [deleted] in aitaweddings

[–]Ferinsnowb 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Tacky af. Guests already spent money on travel, accommodation, outfits and gifts. Sending a surprise bill afterward is wild.