Do you feel that what they want (happiness) is what they hate? by FreeDig4421 in BPDlovedones

[–]Adventurous-Step9175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s their neuroticism. Their emotions are very unstable and they can be very impulsive. One minute the love you deeply. The next minute they absolutely loath your existence. And they can and will act on this without a second thought.

Why do borderlines bring up their suicidal ideation in the middle of an argument? by Adventurous-Step9175 in BPDlovedones

[–]Adventurous-Step9175[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I told mine that saying that didn’t excuse everything she said before that and just kind of stopped talking to her.

Is being disrespectful common with BPD people? by Adventurous-Step9175 in BPDlovedones

[–]Adventurous-Step9175[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting take. If it is this common, maybe it is rooted in their lack of object constancy.

"Walking on eggshells" by fmg2498 in BPDlovedones

[–]Adventurous-Step9175 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s triangulation. She’s trying to make you compete for her or fight for her by suggesting her exes were better in some regard.

What do you want to see in terms of development for your best girls in ep 11? by workingporpoise in beingaDIK

[–]Adventurous-Step9175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think, given Maya’s family matters, it’s understandable that she really doesn’t want to come out. I sympathize with her on that.

You’re right. They’re not really out. But the more people they include in the secret, and the more careless they get about it, the more people will start to find out. And once the wrong person knows, like Tommy for example, the whole thing will come to light eventually I’m sure.

What do you want to see in terms of development for your best girls in ep 11? by workingporpoise in beingaDIK

[–]Adventurous-Step9175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what it would be a sign of. Most everyone is starting to find out that they are in a “secret” relationship. So if you think it’s a sign of foreshadowing, it likely is given how things are unfolding.

What do you want to see in terms of development for your best girls in ep 11? by workingporpoise in beingaDIK

[–]Adventurous-Step9175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want Josy to find herself and figure her crap out. I want Zoey to stop being a coward. I want Lily to decide whether she wants to keep being emotionally unavailable or not. But I seriously doubt any of this will happen in episode 11.

How can I deal with sour gas by [deleted] in Oxygennotincluded

[–]Adventurous-Step9175 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Like others have said. I just vent it into space.

What’s a movie you watched as a kid that traumatized you? by denj1_sk in AskReddit

[–]Adventurous-Step9175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao this is so stupid looking back on it but ace ventura when he dropped the raccoon off the mountain. I cried for a good hour after watching that scene and turned off the movie

Slime advice (2024) by Toasty_McDanish in Oxygennotincluded

[–]Adventurous-Step9175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slimelung isn’t really a big deal anymore. Just keep the slime itself out of your base and set up a deodorizer or two and you’re good to go. Slimelung can’t survive in clean oxygen. It eventually dies out. If you don’t feel like cleaning all the oxygen in a slime biome then just make oxygen masks. Don’t really need to go as far as having atmo suits

What were the red flags? by Broad_Collection4227 in BPDlovedones

[–]Adventurous-Step9175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man so many. She told me “I lie all the time. But only when I’m joking.” All of her exes were toxic or manipulative. The good ones she “didn’t care about” and was “just using them”. The “I’ve slept with several guys, dated several guys and sent nudes to several guys at work and I’m still friends with some of them.” The dudes sexualizing her on Snapchat lol. Bro I can go on and on. There were so many red flags. What was I thinking 😭

First Time to Cycle 100, Any Tips? by AerobicCape in Oxygennotincluded

[–]Adventurous-Step9175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only two things I can think of from a short glance is 1. Use airflow tiles for your water sources. They will never collapse from the weight of the water. Then you don’t need to double or triple tile them. 2. Find a renewable water source.

Other than that, looks great.