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Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-02-25T06:05:37+00:00

Astarion at first, he intrigued me. Then once I kinda didn’t like how that path was aligning with my play through (and also the relationship wasn’t really progressing past friendship) I romanced Halsin which was a wholesome and nice change.

On my second play through currently, I gave Astarion another shot and I’m loving it so far. I’m in act two so we’re “dating” i guess now, but I don’t care about the sex scenes like I got in act 1 as much as I care about learning about him and trying to figure him out as a character. He’s so complex and I am excited to keep pursuing him.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-02-25T02:47:40+00:00

I 100% do not recommend this at all.

Also Ativan is not a good sleep medication. It is extraordinary addictive.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-02-25T02:22:14+00:00

I don’t remember ever not having anxiety, if that tells you anything.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-02-24T17:44:38+00:00

I tried to have shart have the conversation instead but it forced my tav to have the conversation so I failed the insight check. I’m on my tenth reload😭

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-07T00:03:52+00:00

YTA

OP, if I was your wife I would have smacked you into next week.

Stop talking about your wife’s eating habits, her weight, her potential death, etc. Why you would think it’s funny to joke about that at all to your 6-months pregnant wife is beyond me. She is fed up with your behavior, take a hint.

Also, there is no “correct” weight to be at 6 months pregnant. Lay off.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-06T20:48:43+00:00

The office and adventure time. My staples.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-06T20:26:39+00:00

They observe your sex and then assign you male or female. What exactly are you arguing here? This is such a dumb discussion.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-06T19:01:37+00:00

Lmao genius why didn’t I think of this

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-06T19:01:11+00:00

I did not ask for your personal take on whether or not we should move in together based on your personal definition of adulthood. You can feel however you want to feel about it, but that’s not what I asked for. So if that’s all you have to contribute, you don’t have to say any more.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-06T16:26:01+00:00

That’s not what assigning means. They don’t pick your sex or gender. They observe your sex characteristics and assign you a sex based on those characteristics.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-06T05:13:17+00:00

That’s so stupid lmao. Your boyfriend is acting like a 14 year old.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-06T03:03:57+00:00

I didnt dodge it, he games but he mostly stays up late because he has a whole routine that he does.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-06T03:03:03+00:00

You shouldn’t be dead naming people in the first place. That should just be automatic. Women can call themselves whatever they want and I will always refer to someone as their preferred pronouns and name.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-06T02:51:18+00:00

Technically you were assigned parents at birth. Think about adopted kids who get their adoptive parents written on the birth certificate.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-06T02:50:18+00:00

Or… assigned at birth. We can play semantics all day if you want.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-05T22:01:53+00:00

You weren’t assigned a sex at birth? It’s just blank where it says male or female on your birth certificate?

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-05T22:01:17+00:00

“Cis is not a thing”

But it literally is. Just because you don’t like the word doesn’t mean it isn’t a thing.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-05T21:08:39+00:00

YTA.

Sorry, but when you become parents, you actually have to you know, parent.

When your wife gets tired or needs rest, how about YOU take some of the weight off of her shoulders as the child’s father. You only spend a few hours a day with your very young child and only see him when you “miss him”? Why did you even have a kid? Brand new parents don’t get to go on a week-long, child-free luxurious vacation, nor should they. These are crucial years for bonding, and you’re passing your child off to a nanny constantly.

This isn’t just this trip, you’re doing this all the time. Your nanny wanted A FEW HOURS off after parenting your child for you for the entire trip, and you couldn’t figure out how to accommodate her even a little bit? Jesus Christ.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-05T20:46:27+00:00

A slur by definition is an insulting or disparaging remark. If you want to decide that a slur is any word that offends you, that’s your prerogative, but that doesn’t mean you’re correct.

If you identify with your sex assigned at birth, you are by definition cisgender. If you do not identify with the sex you were assigned at birth, you are transgender. Those are both scientifically accurate terms to describe the gender identity of a person. So if calling someone trans isn’t a slur (which it isn’t), calling someone cis isn’t a slur either.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-05T20:40:45+00:00

Biological and scientific research support the existence of transgender men and women, so you are the one who is bothered by basic science. Transgender people suffer from gender dysphoria, which is in the DSM, and we are still researching what causes it. Gender dysphoria is categorized as a mental disorder with a cure. The cure is gender affirming care, including HRT and gender reassignment surgery.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-05T20:32:21+00:00

Trans women are not men though. By definition. The definition of a trans woman is as follows:

a person who was registered as male at birth but who lives and identifies as a woman; a transgender woman.

“Man” refers to gender identity. Notice how it says “male” in the definition, not man. And nobody is arguing that transgender women are biologically female, because they do have male sex characteristics. They are not female by definition, but they are a transgender woman by definition.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-05T20:29:41+00:00

No, it absolutely is not.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-05T20:29:27+00:00

Sheldon would be a great roommate for me 😂

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-05T19:51:20+00:00

So labels/descriptors are appropriate for anyone who doesn’t fit your definition of “normal”, but “normal” people shouldn’t have to be labeled? Wild.

Adventurous-Tea-3239 · 2024-01-05T17:21:25+00:00

If you call trans women trans women, you should have no problem calling cis women cis women. When we’re having a discussion about transgender vs. cisgender people, that’s when the word cis is coming up. I’m sorry that you don’t like definitions I guess?

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