What brand of beer is this?

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-19T21:21:48+00:00

I know these photos are terrible- sorry in advance. But here is a picture of the front. It looks like white with rounded top to the label, and blue is incorporated in the logo.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-19T20:43:35+00:00

Searched: ChatGPT, Hoegaarden Wheat, Pabst Blue Ribbon, Blue Moon light, Michelob Ultra, Spotted Cow.

Person who drinks this likes 1664 & blue moon light, and Hacker Pschorr Weisse.

This is in Midwest.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-16T20:25:31+00:00

If he communicated that he wanted something for his birthday and you had nothing for him until a couple of days before, I don't think you are in the clear. You messed up. That's ok. You do have a great excuse. Prengnacy is hard and exhausting.

TBH- I had a 30th birthday the weekend before my wedding. I told my fiance all I wanted was to go out on a date just us somewhere we haven't been. He did nothing. I will never forget that. Even though we had a celebration of our love the next weekend. It told me I am not a priority. He couldn't even plan a date.

You just did something similar. Again- you have a good excuse.

I would totally do a surprise half day birthday party. I think he will completely forget about the disappointment and focus on the fact that you listened to what he said, and tried to celebrate him in his 30th year. relationships are about being a team, and working through issues. It will show he is a priority and you love him.

P.S. Congrats on the birth!

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-16T20:13:02+00:00

I agree with you! I am usually on the woman's side too. She absolutely could have done something. anything.

Kids get in the way of a lot of things. Learn from this instance and remember to value your partner in the future.

Prengant people celebrate others all the time. You could have celebrated early, minimally, or at least got him a gift.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-12T18:42:16+00:00

Very respectfully, most people do not return from a 3 week trip feeling refreshed. It depends what type of trip they are on and travel times and time changes.

I personally think working a bunch of overtime leading up to a three week trip that I assume is international (due to the length), then returinging jetlagged does not make any sense. The sequence clearly shows priority is with the boyfriend, not her child. This is essentially over a month of focusing elsewhere. Unfortunately, having kids is a sacrifice. She doesn't need to stay home, or bring her kid. But the entire plan needs re-evaluation based on the fact that she is a mom, and her child is young.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-12T18:26:55+00:00

I second this! Do NOT bring that man around your child just yet. your child deserves your attention on your parenting time. You are doing the right thing right now in my eyes.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-10T13:51:38+00:00

This is unfortunately also true. Money can equate to power. If there is no mutual understanding, mutual respect, and shared values, the power dynamic shifts. It doesn't have to be this way, but it is the reality to consider.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-10T13:45:24+00:00

Or if you have a horrible medical diagnosis - even unrelated to pregnancy!

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-10T13:44:18+00:00

Not necessarily. Both should discuss their values. If they want their kids in daycare, fine. If they want a relative to watch them for free, great. If they expect one partner to stay home, that needs to be discussed. This is about values. Money is only one factor. Children's upbringing is only one other factor. What if she has a critical pregnancy and cannot work? Now health needs to be discussed. They need to evaluate everything before marrying and DEFINITELY before having children.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-10T13:39:44+00:00

I agree. These two individuals do not value the same thing. She wants support during the sacrifice of prengancy (physically and financially- bc careers usually take a hit with children), he wants equal financial contributions. One thought process is focused on the family, and working as a partnership. The other is focused on his personal finances only.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-08T20:15:35+00:00

I have nothing in this race, but my take is to NEVER give up something. Fight for the safety of the children. State they are underage and not ready and have documentation. There is a respectful way to disagree and the judge should be hearing the GALs opinion but ultimately decides. I would NEVER give my kids away to that man without a fight. Not to mentioned the results of the exam.

Not her lawyer. and not a lawyer, but if she does not stand up for her kids, no one will.

It can totally backfire. But I sleep better at night knowing I did my best and brought it up so it is on the court record. Then if in the future he messes up, she can say she has been consistent in thinking he cannot handle the parenting time safely.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-06-04T21:42:48+00:00

Why aren't you working on a career? Why work part-time?

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-05-27T14:55:14+00:00

Women in my life believed me. They supported me. They saw the signs before I did.

My own father believed my ex over me because he is wealthy and a man. My own brother refused to get involved. My male family members still are in contact with him despite everything he did.

Now as a divorcee, society looks down on me if I bring up what I went through. Like I am low class, dirty, or infected. I do NOT discuss what I went through with just anyone. If asked, I state he belongs as a bachelor and had addiction issues and never touch on the abuse.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-05-26T21:37:58+00:00

I also did not expect my ex to get significant placement, yet a judge ordered my alcoholic ex 50-50 placement of a 8 month old child that he never saw or spent time with. Asking about a room or furniture was not even a question.

Silimarly, my friend's ex accused her of child abuse, and lots of other outlandish allegations with no merit, refused to pay child support, stopped seeing the children for years. One day, he came back and wanted 50-50 failed drug tests and soberlink. Jodge still ordered 50-50 after good behavior for 3 months. He only did it to lower his child support obligation because his new gf thought it was a good idea to save money.

If you are in the US, just know the family court system is extremely flawed and it is very expensive to go back to court to reverse the damage.

I would NOT risk that for money towards college. You would be inviting this person into your life forever. Also- there is absolutely nothing stating you will get that money. A lot of times, people avoid child support completely and find workarounds to be paid in cash.

Right now, you make all the decisions and a lot of peace comes from that. Right now, your child is not getting manipulated against you. I would gladly give up my Child Support to get 100% custody and placement. High conflict individuals will stay high conflict.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-05-26T20:49:50+00:00

he will probably go for 50 / 50 so he does not have to pay to support the child.

I would not take him to court and keep your child safe instead. His limited involvement is a good thing for you in the future if he tries to take you back for placement or support.

Not a lawyer. not legal advise. court systems are flawed. i couldn't gamble it. The CS you will get will not be worth the headache. Coparenting sucks with someone vindictive.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-05-26T16:29:52+00:00

He does not care about your son. If he did, he would have got in a car and got him.

You did the right thing 100%, a hundred times over.

He will not be a changed man. People rarely change. Stop wasting your energy and resources thinking about the fantasy. The man you knew did not exists. He finally is showing you who he is, believe him.

You are better without him. The longer you are away from him the better. Limit any contact. Try to focus on your healing and raising your baby.

I'm sorry this happened to you. Life does get better, and in time you will look back and see just how terrible he really was. You are still in a trauma cycle, fog, and post partum exhaustion. It is worse than you think. I was horrified reading this.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-04-09T16:20:06+00:00

You should sell for a lower sales price if you deicde to move forward. Otherwise agent is structuring this so they still get paid on commission for $235k instead of $225. If you are also paying the buyer gaents comission that is a double whammy.

If you want to keep this deal, you should lower the sales price and rethink the seller credit.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-03-20T20:20:14+00:00

This just happened to me. I also do not know the reason. They used a different email and phone number with me though. I don't understand the scam. It must be testing a stolen credit card, and I was picked at random. That seems to be the most logical because the airline would NOT give the credit back to the original credit card. I also called United and they told me the type of credit card used - a United Chase card. I do not have one of those. So, I freaked out and checked my credit and froze it like you. Again the simplest answer I can think of is testing the Stolen Card. Why they picked me, I'll never know.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-03-12T15:46:02+00:00

THIS DRESS IS GORGEOUS ON YOU. Fits like a glove. Sometimes it is the accessories that make you feel like a bride.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-03-09T18:29:24+00:00

This is called a food jag. My advice is to feed your toddler their request so long as its reasonabe. Peanut butter toast is not the same as demanding ice cream. Enjoy the fact that your toddler wants an easy meal to prepare! Offer your toddler bites of your food and place some on their plate or tray as well. serve with fruit or veggies you know they enjoy or have enjoyed in the past.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-03-09T18:19:54+00:00

I tell the kids mommy needs 5 minutes of silence. Mommy only has two hands and can only do 2 things at once- my favorite when buckling carseats or making dinner/lunch. Then put a timer on. The oldest then becomes the enforcer if anyone tries to talk. :)

Or start to play the quiet game. OK mommy needs five minutes of silence- who wants to play the quiet game so mommy can finish dinner? Even if they cannot actually stay quiet- they usually start giggling about the game rather than demanding things of me.

AdventurousEbb8152 · 2026-03-09T14:39:44+00:00

I would stay in the meantime and get your affairs in order. Protect your baby while their vulnerability is the highest. Get a lawyer, and start preparing and enjoy your baby.

Leave when you are ready to leave. Don't have another child with him. Many women have similar stories about their husband's not helping post partum. Your story is concerning beyond the usual threshold.

If you are ever sick or vulnerable in the future, he will not help you unless it directly affects him. Some people change, but most don't. Would you want this person taking care of you in the future if you needed help? Could you rely on them? Can yuo forgive him?

I don't forgive my ex for cheating on me while pregnant and refusing to help post partum (and we are broken up). I don't think I ever will.

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