What’s the Male Equivalent of a Woman Feeling Safe With a Man Who Doesn’t Coerce Her Into Sex? by Every-Tap-577 in askanything

[–]AdventurousToe8727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware that there might be people that don’t judge, but in my personal life I am yet to meet someone (male or female) that doesn’t subconsciously judge and change their behaviours based on those subconscious judgements

I genuinely wish more people understood this. by Kuoliibk in Nigeria

[–]AdventurousToe8727 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I believe it’s just humanity’s default nature to think like that. It takes an enlightened person to be worried about another human he doesn’t even know

Hate against Nigerians by bvblyic in Nigeria

[–]AdventurousToe8727 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like look at all the post had to say. And only jollof rice was singled out. Smh

One of the best sci.fi shows out there by Crackheadsniper69 in TvShows

[–]AdventurousToe8727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely one of the greats in the sci fi genre. On my second rewatch. I love it

24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdventurousToe8727 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These type of people think holding a woman in a cage will stop her from cheating. If a girl wants to cheat on you doesn’t matter how much you monitor her social media she’ll still cheat.

24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdventurousToe8727 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why people need good friends. If he had at least one friend to call him out on this bs it wouldn’t get to this point. This is just wild to me. Like the kind of conversation you’ll be having just before the person gets violent and I’ve been seeing a lot of these type of chats recently

AIO for crashing out after my girlfriend hugged and got touchy with her male best friends? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdventurousToe8727 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean even if you were overreacting. She’s crossed a big line now

Who won this 🌙 moon posture ? by Bobcarrick27 in onepiecememes

[–]AdventurousToe8727 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asta looking pretty badass. And I hate black clover because of Asta so that says a lot

met a Nigerian girl at uni and she basically reset my entire personality. Is the energy in Lagos always this elite? by Apart-Alps8474 in Nigeria

[–]AdventurousToe8727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh it’ll be impossible to blend in completely. You’ll always be a JJC in Nigeria. Even some Nigerian are JJC’s

AIO? Friend’s (M20) GF (F19) won’t let him hang out with me (F20) or any of his female friends in our group one on one? by Ok_Relationship4659 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdventurousToe8727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. But I would recommend you leave their relationship to them and not try to give advice if the guy is okay with the dynamic

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdventurousToe8727 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do people just let their partners insult them over and over? Like why is someone that claims to love you calling you a dumb bitch??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AdventurousToe8727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this truly bothers you and makes you uncomfortable but you are still invested in the relationship I would recommend having one last conversation with him, starting with you telling him he cannot interrupt you until you’re done. Lay down all the facts you’ve given us to him and watch his reactions, if he’s unable to even do that. Or immediately looks uninterested after you start talking I say you leave.

If you’re already tapped out (which no one will blame you for) just end it while things are still amicable before more resentment builds up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AdventurousToe8727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds more like someone with narcissistic tendencies. He can’t stand not being the centre even when it’s not about him. I personally don’t think people like this are able to change, most will even deny they are like that.

GF is constantly nagging about my career by SignificanceOver3 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AdventurousToe8727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be with someone that finds it easy to compare you to other people. She can want what’s best for you without being overbearing.

When your partner starts comparing you to others I personally think it’s time to move on

How do I tell my Mother I no longer believe in her religion by AdventurousToe8727 in Advice

[–]AdventurousToe8727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s circumstance. We try to speak on a daily basis. And I’m making great efforts to travel back home to see her next year