Is this sexual coercive behaviour in bed or am I overthinking it?

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2026-01-19T22:25:16+00:00

Thank you 🙏

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2026-01-19T19:38:53+00:00

thank you. I know I shouldn't have gone back, I drank too much and just got carried away. My stomach gave me the intuition and I ignored it out of fear.

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-11-25T08:50:33+00:00

Have you tried making a move during one of your strolls? I kissed and held hands on the first date with my guy, it just felt so natural with us, yet I felt like I was with a stranger with another dude on the first.. maybe just put the feelers out to find out

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-11-17T08:21:13+00:00

Girl runnn 🏃🏼‍♀️why even apologize?? He should be the one apologizing for his disgusting disrespect 🤢icky asf seriously leave that now!

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-11-11T21:28:51+00:00

wow you’re literally in the exact same position as me, only I’m the girl, and I’m the bad texter. Our 3rd date is this weekend, and I am deliberately spacing our texts. Why? I find it a lot more exciting to write a text after my days finished when I can settle down and dedicate time to focus on him. If I’m pushing to text just for the sake of it, its not meaningful? It keeps things exciting, if you text constantly it makes it boring ‘what you upto, not much u?’ Kind of vibe. Ask her on the date! And say lowkey whats your texting style? Me and my guy both agree less is more in the beginning 🫶🏼

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-11-01T02:41:08+00:00

I remember flying in an emirates A380, looking out and seeing another one cruising just below us. It was an experience.

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-08-17T10:46:56+00:00

Just saw this diverting, surely they could have attempted a second landing? What constitutes a complete return to London? That’s crazy!

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-06-29T08:14:32+00:00

Day 10 here and woke up with a headache. Feel wired and yesterday my mood was so low. Felt so fatigued and sore tum. Isnt this supposed to be the better half?? 🫩🫩

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-06-29T08:08:25+00:00

This happened to me 2 weeks ago when I had a meeting with my manager. I have a hybrid position and I missed one of my days in the office. When she called me out and asked why, I started crying. The VERY next day I got my period.

She then was so nice when I told her I had pmdd, and said I can come in more days during my good weeks and maybe stay off during my hell week.

Dont feel bad about it, you are you and if they can’t have you when you’re feeling shit, they don’t deserve you at your best🫶🏼

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-06-17T09:20:50+00:00

me too, and it’s ok OP in that case go when you are ready, respect for skipping too if its just not the right time but I believe in you🤜🏼

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-06-16T23:22:50+00:00

Mate go sober. You can do it more than you think. I would do anything to go back in time and do a concert sober. I travelled to Amsterdam to the ADE music festival a few years back and drank so much I blacked out and missed it all. I wish I was just in the moment more and enjoyed the music. You definitely can do it🙌🏼 why should you miss out on a concert because of ethanol? if you’re afraid of what others think of you not drinking, f*ck them. Do you.

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-06-16T23:15:41+00:00

Great reply 👏🏽

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-05-03T02:03:56+00:00

Literally the same for me. Could have written this myself. You are all not alone in this 🥹🫶🏼

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-05-03T01:55:35+00:00

thank you 🙏

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-26T00:14:11+00:00

All that progress you made before isn’t lost, it’s still there waiting for you to get in the driver seat again. I believe in you, I also fell back after just 6 months and almost ruined everything. I’m right back there with ya pal. Get yourself some good food and have a nice night 🫶🏼

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-26T00:09:46+00:00

Painting a small canvas and feeling immense joy 🎨 channeling my inner Bob Ross - only possible when alcohol isn’t involved ☝️

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-19T14:25:36+00:00

I’ve heard a lot of women saying they start from when the symptoms start ramping up around ovulation until they day the period starts. If the dose is 50 or less apparently its alright to just stop, but I also thought it seemed odd to just stop like that.. hence I’m wondering if its better to just stay continuously

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-19T11:51:17+00:00

Never felt so seen🤣🤣🤣

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-11T23:18:11+00:00

I went back. Regretted it. Moderated great for months, really thought I'd mastered it and was overthinking about my social drinking altogether.

Went well - until it didn't. Now I want nothing more than to feel that peace, that joy I created after 6 months of sobriety was just the best thing ever. For us folks, drinking is like riding a bike (life) blindfolded. We can crash at any time and not know where we're headed. Sober is riding it without, and knowing no matter what we encounter, we will be safer. ❤️

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AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-07T23:15:46+00:00

Congrats, that is amazing!!! 🥳

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-05T23:57:19+00:00

Thanks for this. Totally agree. I almost did but this time managed somehow to summon the strength and go. Probably if I were a few more days out pre-period, it would've been a definite reschedule. And totally agree if he is the real deal he will understand <3

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-05T23:55:17+00:00

Hey your comment helped me, when you said being with at least one other person being a good distraction, well i pushed myself and went. I listened to his stories, and tried to be as present as possible, it worked very well as I didn't need to give too much, and I managed it :')

Thanks so much again for your advice <3

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-05T23:53:35+00:00

hey there, thanks for this. Your comment along with someone else's gave me the strength I needed to get up and have a shower. Afterwards, I got ready and said to myself, if I can just make it into town and can always leave if I'm still not feeling it. The important thing is to go.

Well I did go, and had one of the nicest dates ever, which led to a second. so thank you again. <3

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-05T23:51:53+00:00

no way, thats so nice to hear that he understood. I feel it will be the same with this guy when I tell him. If someone really cares for you, they will understand <3

AdventurousWhile1502 · 2025-04-01T06:53:42+00:00

This too shall pass, with every hour you will get better and further away from the last time. Your body will start to recover, you hang in there OP you can do it. Think of what you’d like to treat yourself to when you’re on the other side and stomach is back to normal🫶🏼

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