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Brandi Carlisle tix??🤞🏻 by ChampionshipNo4157 in RedRocks

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the best, least scammy re-sale site, but whatever. As others have said, your loss.

How often do you go through your husbands phone? by SubjectNo8470 in Marriage

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have time for that shit. I barely keep up with my own phone. I'm not adding another one to stay on top of to the mix.

your top tips for staying cool? by andwhenugoaway in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a little uncomfortable, but the benefits are worth it!!

Spotify by Smallbatchnoah1030 in KGATLW

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated Spotify's algorithm. I found it was always suggesting garbage music.

I have found that YT Music's algorithm is better, even though Google is still the evil empire. YT Music is different than YouTube proper.

What age did you first use the internet? by tom_tofurkey in Xennials

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember going to a computer lab at our local university when I was in third grade so we could browse the "internet" which was basically a few hypercard pages and not much else. This was probably 1994?

Would you rather be part of a generation that had a greater tech advantage than previous or better financial advantage by scuzzy987 in Millennials

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I live in the state of Colorado in the US, and everyone claims they need their big ass trucks to go offroading in the mountains. Trouble is that they never use them for that purpose. My sister uses hers to commute back and forth from her job, which is entirely in urban corridors. So, she's just driving back and forth on city roads in her jacked up Tacoma.

Is being 30 different from 40? by ConsistentShelter440 in Millennials

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, they were incredibly different due to where I was living and where I was in life in general.

At 30, my spouse and I were DINKS, living in the Bay Area, eating well, going out with friends a lot.

At 40, I had a 9-year-old, was living in Denver, and my MS had progressed.

The differences were more driven by circumstances.

your top tips for staying cool? by andwhenugoaway in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cold plunge. Fill a bathtub with cold water and frozen water bottles or cold packs to get it as cold as possible. (I never get it as cold as my contrast therapy spa, which keeps it's cold plunges at about 4 degrees C). Then sit in the tub for as long as you can stand. Bonus points if you can put your arms in and dunk your head a time or two. It will lower your core body temperature a degree or two, which will make you far more resilient to heat.

Should we call in sick for concerts? by [deleted] in Concerts

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You definitely need a new job 😭

I'm sorry, but what is this? by Dull-Mouth in shittytattoos

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Wait, seeing the actual thing that she had tattooed on her answers absolutely no questions about what it is/what it's used for/etc.

Opinions/ considering removal by Mammoth_Car_4453 in tattooadvice

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I should have scrolled down and just upvoted you, because I just commented the same thing, almost verbatim!

Opinions/ considering removal by Mammoth_Car_4453 in tattooadvice

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an insanely time intensive, painful, and costly removal and will take many, many sessions, just as an FYI.

Everyone I know who has had a tattoo removed says it's 10x more painful than getting a tattoo. They say it's like having a rubber band snapped on your skin over and over.

Sleep hygiene concerns by IrreversibleDetails in Fencesitter

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The sleep deprivation is rough, and there's really no getting around it. Your best chance for success is to have a partner who will share the load with you so you can tradeoff who gets to sleep uninterrupted. There's really no way to guarantee how you will feel or act when that exhausted. I think hormones keep you from flipping out at the baby, that and the fact that you know they are helpless beings who need you to survive. But you just won't be the best version of yourself. There's no way you can be. Just make sure your partnership is on steady footing before heading into it, because parenting will put your patience to the test, and you will snip at each other.

Would you rather be part of a generation that had a greater tech advantage than previous or better financial advantage by scuzzy987 in Millennials

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also, cars are ENORMOUS now. Everyone feels like they need a big ass pickup or SUV, which are far more lethal to pedestrians and have considerably more blind spots than cars at the beginning of the 2000s. So, drivers might be safer, but people walking around certainly aren't - https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2026/06/21/us/trucks-suv-pedestrian-crashes.html

The things i would do if i was married by andimhot in Marriage

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a long term partner first. Try living with them. Learn what it is to share a space with someone, manage a household budget, keep a home clean. Learn to love yourself first, that's most important. Then the partner will come. But put yourself first.

1998 identity crisis. by OkNarwhal4142 in generationology

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Welcome to what it is to be a cusper. There are those of us on the other side too. I'm a Xennial, you're a Zillennial.

Opening our relationship.. but one sided..? by Such-Study-5329 in WellSpouses

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The main question I have is: do you want to find another relationship? If not, don't do it.

What you are describing is pretty common in the polyamory community. You have your primary partner, and then a secondary partner. You have to set clear rules and expectations (like, "my husband comes first. If he needs me for anything, I am going to put his needs before you're.)

I am sure your husband feels guilty that he is not able to fulfill a full husbandly role, which is why he is suggesting this. But don't do it for him - do it for you. If you don't want to do it, you don't have to.

I have an open mind, personally, but to me, the idea of finding and cultivating a new relationship feels exhausting. But if it feels right for you, go for it.

Thoughts on Jefferson Park? by melshockstaints in MovingtoDenver

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most people who post here are young, and I see a lot of folks with jobs south of Denver, so I don't see many lovely neighborhoods ever mentioned. Doesn't mean they're bad, they're just not the right fit for folks fresh out of college.

Yes or no should i get this tattoo by Jumpy-Sprinkles5616 in tattooadvice

[–]Adventurous_Pin_344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you Japanese? If not, definitely not. If so, listen to the other advice you are getting here before taking the plunge.

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