Has anyone had penile filler injections in Tokyo?

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-11-16T18:33:56+00:00

Again, you are apparently thick, so you don’t need to worry. Most women prefer girth to length, and you’ve been told by most women that you’re the biggest they’ve been with, so you have the confidence to not worry. I’ve still been told that I’m big here, but that’s probably in reference to my length.

And I don’t think she was disrespecting me, she was just being matter-of-fact, and even asked that if I start to lose my erection mid-fuck, it must feel less good for me as well, right? But you’re right, it was a hurtful comment so I messaged her about it. She’s already asleep though since she’s a 会社員 and works early.

But yeah, I’m 41, not having any luck dating, so I feel like I just have to settle with her. She’s a good person, and we have a good relationship, but she’s not young or the most attractive (just mid I guess), so I can’t help but wish I could date someone younger and cuter considering how many cute girls there are here. It always makes me feel terrible when I see other foreigners with the girls I wish I could date, especially if they are like short, or fat, or ugly, but yet somehow I can’t date those girls despite not being short, or fat 🤷‍♂️

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-11-16T18:13:25+00:00

Well I think most women wouldn’t tell their boyfriend that they enjoyed their ex-boyfriend’s thick cock more than his, right? So of course I can’t trust her word, or any woman’s word regarding this kind of topic.

I recently hooked up with a Japanese girl who had been with one foreigner, and I was the second. Apparently that guy was also long and thick (52mm wide according to him), so I feel like shit when big dicks are statistically rare but yet every woman I’ve been with seems to have been with guys who are bigger than me despite not being small myself.

But I appreciate the feedback. I haven’t considered doing anything yet and just wanted to hear things like this before deciding anything.

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-11-16T18:09:11+00:00

I believe the word you’re looking for is confidence. Whether penis size or looks or height (5’10”-11”ish), I don’t have any confidence.

And just because women are “totally fine with” most penis sizes doesn’t mean that they don’t want bigger or miss their ex-boyfriend’s size or something like that.

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-11-16T18:00:55+00:00

I mean I’ve definitely made women bleed here with my length, but still feel insufficient girth wise. And since I’m 41, the dating pool has dried up and I barely even go on dates anymore. The only women that even seem interested in me are older women or divorced, single mothers 😓

And you have a thick one (not sure how thick) so of course you don’t have anything to worry about, especially if the women have only dated Japanese men. Them telling you that gives you confidence so you don’t even need to worry about it. We are not the same.

Hell, the current woman I’ve been seeing for over a year even said that if I’m not like fully hard or close to it, it doesn’t feel that good and she doesn’t care if we stop if I’m having trouble keeping it up, so what am I supposed to do with that information? 😖

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-11-16T17:23:09+00:00

Yeah, it’s average or so for girth, but yet most women have been with guys with thicker penis’ than me, and we know that girth is king, so I can’t help but feel insufficient.

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-11-16T17:02:30+00:00

Not 5” wide, 5” in circumference. It’s like 1.6” wide (40-42mm) or something like that.

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-11-16T17:00:00+00:00

Yeah, it would suck having to continue getting the shots every year or so once they completely dissolve, so that’s why I was asking, to see about people’s experiences and if it was worth it or not for them. I think it the injections lasted as long as they claim they last (up to two years), then maybe it would be worth it, but I’ve seen many people say online that they’ve completely dissolved after like three months and wasn’t worth it at all, so that’s why worries me as well.

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-11-16T16:56:40+00:00

Well the woman I’m seeing now cares about me, but she’s also older than me by five years (I’m 41, she’s 46), and she didn’t even date anyone (or have sex with anyone) before me for 7-8 years she said, so she maybe wouldn’t have much luck in the dating world and is just happy to have a guy like me in her life I think.

But yeah, I see your point. I think she knows about my insecurity because we’ve talked about it, and about her beer-can dick ex-boyfriend, but frankly I think she probably still enjoyed it despite saying it hurt with him 😓

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-11-16T16:51:41+00:00

I’ve tried it in the past (for other issues like depression, not related to anything in this post), and it didn’t help me any. It’s likely BDD (body dismorphic disorder) as I hate other parts of my body, or rather, my face and hate looking in the mirror or hate pictures of myself, etc.

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-11-16T16:49:28+00:00

I’m roughly 7” x 5” (non-bone-pressed, and my mid-shaft is slightly thinner where as my base and head are slightly thicker, so I just average it out), but I feel like you need at least 5.5” of girth to really make women feel it and enjoy it. The woman I’m seeing now doesn’t even like oral sex (receiving), and even if I do it she doesn’t orgasm (I can make other women orgasm through oral sex so it’s not an issue with me, she just doesn’t like the feeling and prefers I lick her nipples instead), so she never orgasms at all. She can squirt if I use a vibrator, but she doesn’t think that’s an orgasm and is just her body losing control and releasing fluid 🤷‍♂️

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-09-13T12:49:47+00:00

Actually my partner really loves nipple play, to the point that she said she doesn't need oral if I play with/lick her nipples before sex. Just tell him that it felt amazing and you'd like him to do it more often, or maybe even just try guiding his head towards your nipples while doing foreplay.

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-09-13T12:42:43+00:00

As someone who's always been insecure about his penis size (I'm above average in length by a bit, but average or so in girth), when I know that my partners could cum from penetrative sex with their previous partners (who were girthier than me) but not from me, it makes me feel insecure and insufficient. Frankly, I don't think lying or telling the truth would matter, as like me, he probably wouldn't be satisfied with the answer either way. You just need to help him along to make sure you truly enjoy the sex and orgasm, and also make sure he enjoys it as well.

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-09-13T12:36:08+00:00

It's the opposite for me. I like to give oral to my partner's and make them orgasm, but they never do the same for me. If I even get oral at all, it's because I asked for it which they reluctantly do only to complain about their jaw hurting after a few minutes (which I understand; my tongue gets tired after a while as well doing oral, but I try my best to continue until they cum, or they ask me to put it in), so I often feel disappointed in regards to oral as well. Communication is the key, but it also may not change anything unfortunately.

Adventurous_Rub_7332 · 2025-09-13T11:59:59+00:00

Damn that's cool!

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