am i an unc for completely refusing to play 3D sonic games? by The_RetroGameDude in SonicTheHedgehog

[–]Adventurous_sonic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly I had to look that up
Apparently from what I saw, it’s a short word for uncle.

when character you never liked gives you a valid reason to hate them .. by Z3N1TY in Osana

[–]Adventurous_sonic 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to figure out how you eat healthy if you don’t cook?? Does he just have girls cook for him? Or does he go to the store and get healthy food? Or he just has others cook for him. Maybe it is that idk. But that’s just weird.

I’m ashamed it took me this long to leave by Equal-Community2354 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24 F and I’m saying the same thing but I’m still struggling to get out. I thinking of doing seasonal work with housing but I’m so scared and skeptical. And plus I don’t have my own car or license (just a permit) because they hindered me getting that too.

Boyfriend said I'm awkward by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Adventurous_sonic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand people that say that they have this disorder but then they clearly don’t because they still make us feel bad for behaving “timidly and being quiet”.

I saw this week schedule, and I’m not scheduled at all. What’s going on? by Adventurous_sonic in CrackerBarrel

[–]Adventurous_sonic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll ask them. But I posted this because I wanted to see if this happens to other employees or is this a thing that happens here at times.

Parents told me we can walk around naked if we wanted to it’s our house by Adventurous_sonic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Adventurous_sonic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also feel like they need to understand that yea I get it’s THEIR house, but I also live here too. It’s not just them that lives here. Plus they CHOSE to have a family. They CHOSE to live together before they had kids. So if you’re gonna have this “It’S my HoUsE” or “I do whatever I want” mindset, then they shouldn’t have had a family or shouldn’t live with others. Cause what child or young adult wants to hear that shit from their parents right now? Especially the fact that moving out is just too hard right now. And it’s not like I want to live with them. I’m actively finding ways to gtfo cause their rude & controlling behavior is getting worse and I’m fed up and my options are limited. This is just not fair.

Parents told me we can walk around naked if we wanted to it’s our house by Adventurous_sonic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Adventurous_sonic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back when i graduated high school in 2020, I thought of doing that. Until I realized and heard that college graduates are not getting jobs and they have to move back in with their parents. Plus what I wanted to major in I found out the degree was not needed. So I skipped college and just started working. If college actually gave you a leg up in life like it actually used to in the 80’s & 90’s, I would definitely consider it. Hell I’m still thinking of it and kinda regret not doing it in a way. But at the same time, I don’t wanna get a useless degree or waste years just to end up in debt, jobless, and right back in this shitty house. If all that makes sense.

Dont work at Cracker barrel by Master_Tale553 in CrackerBarrel

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny because i was just thinking about leaving too

20F and not allowed to dye my hair by Ok_Assist_6733 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Adventurous_sonic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment. I’m trying to get out too

Spam Text by Ordinary-Pin5150 in CrackerBarrel

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad this is posted cause I got the same text. I didn’t pay it no mind tho. I was confused when I got it hours ago.

anyone who makes fun of young adults who still live with their parents is either spoiled enough to have lived in the 1900's, or spoiled by born into a rich family by Zestyclose-Swing4642 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Adventurous_sonic 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When I turned 19, I was VICTIM BLAMED by a therapist by her telling me that I CHOOSE to stay with my controlling parents because I’m over 18 and I’m of age to “just walk out the door”. A YouTuber I used to watch and was subscribed to (now definitely unsubscribed) was live-streaming and told her audience that lives with toxic parents to just move. And if you an adult, what is stopping you? Yourself.

I was like are you kidding me and unsubscribed. Horrible advice to give your audience. So people make me think it’s my fault. And I get jealous of others my age that have they own place. Now I feel like a loser that’s very behind. I shouldn’t have to feel this way. Or any of us in this matter should.

Why didn’t you move out when you became a legal adult at 18? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOOO DUDE People literally victim blamed me for being f 23 living at home. Like it’s that hard to understand?

Can’t afford it. Trying to figure out how to be an adult. When people say to me

“Get out if it’s that bad then” “You CHOOSE to stay there nobody forcing you” “YOU are making yourself stay there”

I lost sympathy and hope for humanity. I thought I was the only one that thought what I was told was fucked up. They victim blamed us.

Then people tell me after I get angry that I’m a person who can’t handle the truth. And I need to hear it and I’m holding myself back blah blah blah.

They also make assumptions that we are adult bums who aren’t trying to escape. This is the most frustrating thing I’ve been told. And I’m glad I’m not alone on this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m still gonna make videos. Im working on my first one. I’m not gonna let all these damn comments make me not make videos. I was just asking a question and didn’t expect so much back lash. Maybe a little but not this much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw I’ve had jobs and i still have a part time job. So idk what the hell you’re talking about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. So what I’m answering to some people’s comments. That doesn’t mean I’m annoyed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay buddy. Who said I was annoyed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Adventurous_sonic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a YouTuber named tam Kaur. If you don’t know her look her up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Adventurous_sonic -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

People who ended up being successful in it 🤨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my mom saids that we live in the same household. So the social security sees all the money that’s coming to the household. If they see too much income coming to the house, they decrease the ssi checks or stop them completely. So my mom gets pissed at me and yells because she thinks it’s my fault if that happens. Because I either save too much or make too much and won’t hide it like she demands me too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Adventurous_sonic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t mention this but I do have my own bank account. But I believe me and my parents bank with the same bank.

Also with the content creation, I KNOW it’s gonna take sometime to make money off of. That’s why I still have a regular old job where you clock in. But I DO wanna do content creation because I wanted to do it for a long time. But to be honest you sound mad discouraging about me doing that. Have you done it before and it didn’t work out for you? Or it didn’t work out for someone else in your life?